I honestly don't know the exact truth behind the split between her and her husband. I've heard various versions. Don't want to go into it because there's no point really as they definitely are not together anymore. But I do believe that it's a case of perhaps at that time thinking you're making the right decision but later regretting it and not just from her end but his as well. Especially because they share a child and are probably always reminded of one another when they look to him. There's just so much history there, the kind that you can never get over. Like Mahira said in her ask, initially for a long time she personally was against Khirad going back to Asher but recently she sees it differnetly as at the end of the day they share a daughter. I think this is what's happening for her now. Juggling work and being a single parent... not having someone to go home to, it's taking a toll on her.
As someone who's watched Mahira over a long period of time, I can easily say that when she was with her husband she was always beaming with this positivity and with love. Interviews, off-screen appearances, on-screen appearances, etc. Even if things weren't right at times she still looked to be in a better place and seemed content. When she smiled her eyes lit up, like actually lit up. And now since the split first took place, I'd say 2012, I don't see the same person anymore. Her smile seems forced, in-fact it comes with a sadness on her face. She smiles much less than usual also. She tweets lyrics, quotes, words that indicate the obvious of her missing him. Her answers incline towards things like loneliness, not having someone to go back home to, losing faith in yourself, others seeing you differently, etc. Just recently in Reham Khan's show she said she doesn't know who she is in anymore and she has to go back to find herself. Major identity crisis for her IMO. She's been termed as a malang, hence love was a huge factor in guiding her and making/breaking her as a person perhaps.
Mahira's family and friends and she herself, describe her as a very passionate person and someone who invests deeply into everything which is what she did with her relationship. She was always so confident that it wouldn't go bad... I don't think she ever thought that it would either, having actually said things like "Ali's my first love and he'll be her last and she can't even lie about it". Like someone said her lifes divided into a pre-HS phase and a post-HS phase because even if something wasn't right when she was doing HS, it was nowhere near what it turned into. And I think that even if she has the support of her family and friends with her, there's just something missing not having her spouse to confide in. It's different.I genuinely believe she wanted to share her fame with her husband and wanted to see him be there with her, but I guess their issues were too severe for them to sort it out despite trying, and it makes me sad knowing that we'll never be seeing the old Mahira back. Makes me feel a little bit selfish too for wanting her to go back to being that.
Edited by BlackStar. - 9 years ago
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