gosh, a little goosebumpy. i hadn't consciously connected vaidehi with sita when i wrote that... i read what you wrote, frowned... thought, why is indu talking about vaidehi route, then from some outer edge of stored information the thought came zinging in... sita... isn't she also called vaidehi?
agni pariksha was all along the quest... and in the ram ravan sita triangle format, i suppose. not an exact repeat but a story inspired by that archetypiicacal conflict. of the right of love and its place versus the covetousness of lust. between two different men over a woman...
ravan it is said stole sita knowing exactly what it would lead to... inviting ram pretty much to come and get him. only a vishnu avatar could slay him and so ram it had to be.
there's another point in ramayan that totally thrills me, i don't think this was in valmiki's version, but certainly in krittibas and some puranas. we bengalis celebrate durga puja as you know. she is a spring goddess but comes when ram prays fervently. the idea of akaal bodhan itself is gorgeous... should a human call with heart and being, the eternal will come even if it is not the appropriate season... beauty.
but the one i practically weep over or is it giggle. ram wished to invoke the goddess durga before going to fight ravan. but he was kshatriya, while ravan born brahmin. so it was ravan who as priest prayed to the goddess so ram may have the blessing to win.
i actually could not forgive ram for that agni pariksha.. as i said to my uncle, yes, as king he had a duty, but also as husband.. if he had said as king, you'll walk on the fire to prove you are pure; then as husband added, i'll walk with you... i would have admired and cherished him.
and with sita's dharani dwidha hao and returning to her mother's bosom, did we see the first divorce in an ideal (or so we were told) marriage? was there something there being said about marriage itself? about things subtle and a little scary even maybe? once the boys were grown up and they were united with their father... she left and gave herself the place no one had bothered to give her. sounds like a modern day story. and no matter which version of ramayan, sita always leaves.
anyway.
yes, sanka devi had her own way of being vaidehi... she took him along to her maika in fact, didn't just scoot off there on her own. silly jhalli pagal.
i am watching these episodes and again wishing someone had held onto the story... such powerful, evocative acting...
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