Najma - Crossing the Line

I don't know about you guys but in the past few days, I have been feeling that Najma is really really crossing the line when it comes to disrespect to elders - ie, Imran and even Mamu.

Exactly my thots...i dont know i never liked her from before...she acts to mature fr her age n meddle between d elders...d qualities i hate hate in kids...n since quite few epi i m happilyy skipping through her scenes...the makers should tone down her act...everything a kid does is nt always cute or lovely

Originally posted by: bewakoofLadki

Exactly my thots...i dont know i never liked her from before...she acts to mature fr her age n meddle between d elders...d qualities i hate hate in kids...n since quite few epi i m happilyy skipping through her scenes...the makers should tone down her act...everything a kid does is nt always cute or lovely

I cannot tell you how glad I am to see this post!

And all these days I thought I was the only one unhappy with Najjo's behaviour. I think Mariam should correct her instead of only saying Najjo beta. If I would speak to anyone in my neighbourhood or to a stranger like this, my mom would yell at me then and there and correct me till this day.

And I love it when Imran tells her to lower down her volume and behave.

*p.s. Is it only me or everybody feels Ashnoor's acting is not innocent anymore but way too mature? And I fells sometimes she goes OTT and ruins the scene with her constant handmovements and over acting.

Its just my opinion abotu the previous epispodes. And I used to love her in NBT. Mohan and Nanhi were my favourite father daughter duo.

Thankyou so much for this post.

I was also finding her behavior intolerable since several episodes.And what is more surprising is that,all Mariam does is stand there saying her name.She is not so small that she cannot be reprimanded.

In the episode,when she starts blasting Imran,having destroyed her dreams by drinking in the school and prior to that when she started ranting out at Atlaf telling about Imran,was just too much.She was accusing Imran of destroying her dreams.She needed a reality check there,she was talking about the same person who made it possible for her to even think about fulling her dream and went out of his way to help her.

Actually that shoes part was really too much.Asking Imran to carry her shoes,both Najma and Mariam were literally taking undue advantage of his kindness.when Najma demanded shoes at night asking them,to throw it from the window,Mariam should have stopped her.She is not a toddler,that everyone should act on her whims and fancies.Inspite of all this,the manner in which both Mariam and Najma behaved with Atlaf and Imran,after the incident at school is intolerable and unforgivable.There is a limit to everything.

And then,the plane sequence,just a day before she was crying and concerned about Imran.When Imran was at his window trying to get her attention and tell her about the form,the way she reacted was dumb.Najma is not so naive,not to understand that Imran was trying to tell her something.She saw him standing at the window,he even signed her that he wanted talk,yet she very ignorantly was sitting there listening to music.After the plane hit Mariam,she went on and on shouting at Imran first and then the words she said to Atlaf was too much.And in all this Mariam doesn't even scold her in the required manner.Is that the way to behave with elders?

Ok,CV's are trying to show their nok-jhok.But what is being portrayed doesn't even come close to that.Her behavior is not at all loveable.It is impossible to tolerate Najma's behavior.Her behavior is neither cute nor lovely.And Mariam is at fault too in all this.

I felt the same way especially the past two episodes. She could have at least listened to him and I can understand yelling at him once for getting her mom hurt, but she wouldn't stop. Her nok jhoks with the Mamu and Imran are funny, but she really crossed a line. Anybody could have seen that it was an accident and then to yell at him for their financial problems?

Originally posted by: Sadhana_pr

I cannot tell you how glad I am to see this post!

Today morning after catching up with the episode I was actually feeling very disgruntled. And thats an unusual reaction for this show. I realised it had a lot to do with Najma's behaviour. The Cvs have gone a bit too far and need to hold some reins before its too late.

I get the point that she is impulsive, she is fiercely protective of her mother and her dreams, she speaks without caring a damn. But there is a limit to everything!

In fact I found the entire paper plane sequence strange. I almost thought Najma has lost her mind😆. A day earlier you were crying for that man and when an already recluse man approaches you that too across your window, he surely wouldnt come for a chit chat. And I wonder what music she was listening to which made her act as if she was on a high! Did she really think her naye padosi would play with the paper plane while nursing an injury that too??! She went on shouting for a bit too long to call it an impulsive burst.

And today again the line was crossed. Imran is not her punching bag, that the moment she sees him she starts ranting. I understand the Cvs want to show their nok-jhok, but they should not take it to a point where the relationship almost seems unconvincing. In such moments I don't find Najma tolerable, leave alone loveable so its hard for me to understand Imran's affection for her. And I so love it when he puts her in place occasionally.

And yes, I realise that Najma goes very soprano in these yelling scenes which makes it hard on the ears as well😆. Though I am very against hitting kids, I was surprised to find myself wanting someone to just slap her and tell her to shut up. The entire world does not exist to make you a tennis player and the one person who is making some efforts deserves basic respect at least.

It will be sad if she turns into yet another precocious kid😒. I am really hoping some toning down happens soon.

Originally posted by: PagliLadki

And all these days I thought I was the only one unhappy with Najjo's behaviour. I think Mariam should correct her instead of only saying Najjo beta. If I would speak to anyone in my neighbourhood or to a stranger like this, my mom would yell at me then and there and correct me till this day.

And I love it when Imran tells her to lower down her volume and behave.

*p.s. Is it only me or everybody feels Ashnoor's acting is not innocent anymore but way too mature? And I fells sometimes she goes OTT and ruins the scene with her constant handmovements and over acting.

Its just my opinion abotu the previous epispodes. And I used to love her in NBT. Mohan and Nanhi were my favourite father daughter duo.

Originally posted by: beena.thomas

Thankyou so much for this post.

I was also finding her behavior intolerable since several episodes.And what is more surprising is that,all Mariam does is stand there saying her name.She is not so small that she cannot be reprimanded.

Ok,CV's are trying to show their nok-jhok.But what is being portrayed doesn't even come close to that.Her behavior is not at all loveable.It is impossible to tolerate Najma's behavior.Her behavior is neither cute nor lovely.And Mariam is at fault too in all this.