Originally posted by: guess_gallery
Hi guys,
I read about a flim called "Nishabd" based on relation between 50+ and 18 years old girl…
In this forum All age group members are there so leave about the film story but what about in real life ????
Simple question:-
1) Does love really Exist
2)
Can love happen with any age group either girl is older or guy (Age
difference is not abt a year or two I mean difference of 15-20
years)
3) Can there be true love between them (if true love exist)
Cheers,
GG ji, First thing when I think of love it brings many
relationships for me. I see love in between Mother-Son, Father-Daughter,
Brother-Sister, husband-wife in opposite sex but we do have love for Mother-Daughter,
Father-Son, Brother-Brother, Sister-Sister and last not the least love in
between two friends. All other kind of love other than husband-wife could be of
any age & some really do have age difference. But I think you are focusing
on only one kind of love & that's what should be in between husband & wife;
if I understand it right, so let me answer your questions from that point of
view now.
1) Does love really Exist :
Yes
it exists and should exist to have a good relationship. But does it exist in
every relationship I don't think so. Other fact is that in our culture that
gets developed over a period of time being together in relationship. There is
no way you can measure it other than feelings which only those two involved
people can feel. Sometimes there may not be love but just being in habit of
living together keeps relationship going.
2) Can love happen with any age group either girl is older
or guy (Age difference is not abt a year or two I mean difference of 15-20
years) :
Answer
to that could be yes in some scenario but the question is, is it good for our
society? Answer is NO. There are some norms of the society which we follow and
should follow to live in society. We in general in society parents friends are treated
like uncles/aunts & we feel safe sending our children with them as society
does not approve love in between uncle/aunt age people with kids age, and that's
what is age difference. But if these kind of things are approved in society then
where do we feel safe??? Can we live in that society? We need to think about the consequences to the society of the
actions taken by us today.
3) Can there be true love between them (if true love
exist) :
May
be yes or May be not. Many times it's not but exception could be everywhere. Most
of the time girl is attracted to his father's age man as she is looking a
father's security and may be mistaken by her for love. Does not matter what it
is but it's better for our society not to encourage this kind of relationship.
Originally posted by: guess_gallery
almost every one beleive in love thats quite nice.... but does any one know
what true love mean??
its right that age gap never works out so easily but i think now aday same
age is also not going on fine.
What's true love:
I think where someone can do anything for
the other person's happiness, care about other person more than him/her ….. is
true love.
<>Ok So when we know that now-a-days same age is not going on
fine either so why complicate the issues and have less chances/probability of
successfulness of relationship</>
with going out with relationship which has lesser chances of being succesful.
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