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1Originally posted by: sweet_14
1. Potrayal of going to mazaars/darga's and praying to Allah/God via an intersessor inbetween is considered SHIRK (associating partners with Allah). This kind of shirk is called Sirk in Ibadah (Ibadah = prayer). Allah forgives everything; but shirk! Unless a person seeks forgiveness from Allah, as soon as the person realizes His mistake.The beauty of Islam is believe in one god without any association of any kind.
So, to begin with Islam is potrayed under wrong lenses. This is understandable, as people practice cultural/political Islam, which is far from the true teachings of Islam in India, Pakistan, and even other middle eastern or Arab countries.
2. Halala Nikkah is HARAM in Islam!!!!! If the husband divorces the wife (3 times) she needs to marry someone else with a pure intention, consummate the marriage, and if for some reason the marriage breaks, the wife can re-marry her first husband. This is so she can realize if she really wants to re-marry her first husband. When a Nikkah is done Allah instills love in the hearts of both husband and wife, and it is very much possible that the 2nd husband treats her better than a princess...So, that is the whole concept...A concept of realization!!
Allah hates it when a husband divorces a wife without any reason, the angels in heaven cry when a divorce happens...the only acceptable reason is adultery in Islam, the rest of the reasons are materialistic usually, and Allah knows best. Usually if a person divorces the wife in anger, Allah gives him 2 chances to rectify his mistake, and take back his wife...But the Devil Shaitaan (one of his attribute is arrogance) makes the man arrogant, and the man forsakes his chances given as mercy to man by Allah, again and again. And, thus the man has to suffer the consequences of His actions; to living a life where he has to watch his wife marry someone else! Also, who can guarantee that This man will not become arrogant again, become weak in front of his Mother/Family again, and mistreat the wife...Divorce and Marriage has become a joke in today's society.
the best advice by prophet Muhammad SAWW is to stay quite when you are angry. If your are standing and angry, sit down. If you are sitting down and angry, lay down. If you are laying down and angry, take a shower. Just don't speak!
Coz, most of the time a person does not even remember what he has said in anger; and, sometimes the person would say stuff they don't even mean to say. But the damage is done, the trauma the other person goes through while hearing you can never be rectified!!
Originally posted by: -Saheba-
res I will get back to this 😃
But I am loving what they are showing and the steps the leads are taking as this is reality. It's easy for people to judge and say that you can't go against the rules and what not but I would like to see them easily accept it if there in aaliya's place.
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