Isnt Zain over reacting? - Page 3

Originally posted by: zaya.fan

Aliya shud not forgive him,

Ot seems like he never loved her

Mr zain,its easy to make promises but its hard to fulfill them.

Aliya shud also deal with him harshly now

but she will not even i think she will forgive him easily which will make him guilt more.but she not going to trust him like before he have to work hard to gain her trust and bring old Aliya back again.

Originally posted by: edwebllalover9

but she will not even i think she will forgive him easily which will make him guilt more.but she not going to trust him like before he have to work hard to gain her trust and bring old Aliya back again.

the problem is that we love zaya together,otherwise i think aliya deserves better than zain😕

Originally posted by: edwebllalover9

BI CV'S doesn't drag thing too long i think by two week true will come out(hope so)

I would not say he is overreacting but yes he did go too far throwing water on her face

Originally posted by: .Mandy.

I would not say he is overreacting but yes he did go too far throwing water on her face

it was just too much

obviously what he did was wrong but he did tell her its all her fault for making him inhumane, when we r hurt we usually lash out at the ppl we love the most and aliya is tht for him, her being blamed by everyone right now also makes him more hurt and obviously he is gonna attack her coz he feels his whole family is paying for her actions. Im not justifying what he did coz its totally not right but in his state of mind all his anger and hurt and pain r directed at aliya and bhopalis but especially aliya. he is in a haze at the moment he thinks clearly around his family trying to be strong and supportive like in the office and his mom but when he sees aliya its love, hurt, anger, betrayal, all jumbled into one and he cant see straight its gonna take some time before tht haze goes. His anger also i think stems from his dad and aliyas place in his life. even during the Quran Khani he had the fb of Usman comparing him to aliya, she has always been a part of his life the connection through Usman and he feels she betrayed tht and zayas love for Usman is what got them together in the first place so the pain is even worse. Lets c his reaction tom when he finds out his dad once again chose aliya over him lol

Originally posted by: manny136

obviously what he did was wrong but he did tell her its all her fault for making him inhumane, when we r hurt we usually lash out at the ppl we love the most and aliya is tht for him, her being blamed by everyone right now also makes him more hurt and obviously he is gonna attack her coz he feels his whole family is paying for her actions. Im not justifying what he did coz its totally not right but in his state of mind all his anger and hurt and pain r directed at aliya and bhopalis but especially aliya. he is in a haze at the moment he thinks clearly around his family trying to be strong and supportive like in the office and his mom but when he sees aliya its love, hurt, anger, betrayal, all jumbled into one and he cant see straight its gonna take some time before tht haze goes. His anger also i think stems from his dad and aliyas place in his life. even during the Quran Khani he had the fb of Usman comparing him to aliya, she has always been a part of his life the connection through Usman and he feels she betrayed tht and zayas love for Usman is what got them together in the first place so the pain is even worse. Lets c his reaction tom when he finds out his dad once again chose aliya over him lol

Originally posted by: zaya.fan

But he is divorcing her and no punishment can be bigger for her,i understand he is hurt but all this is not correct.

He has crossed the stage of denial.He's goind through Anger.HE'll be going through pargaining,depression and then finally acceptance.I'm talking about the 5 stages of grief.We can't blame Zain.At the time of crisis and grief,all of us react differently.Zain is angry,his soul embittered by the situation.Just remember that in some corner of his heart he still loves Aaliya...unfortunately a valley of misunderstanding and silence has grown between them.It'll take him some time.and poor guy he loves her,bt he's heartbroken,can't think straight,when time will come then he will repent...just hope that that when that time comes,its not too late.

Exactly, dear i don't want Aliya to forgive him this easily... He should pay fir it..