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Wanted to write this since a long time.
Why do women hv 2 suffer in a relationship even if both husband & wife r at fault or due to circumstances?Why does being a woman is so difficult?I m not being a feminist here but I feel always a woman suffers more when there's a divorce.The 1st & foremost reason is dat a girl leaves her house & stays with her man after marriage.No matter how much d husband has suffered & due to certain circumstances he is forced to divorce his wife but he still gets to stay with his family.He has his family & frenz for support.Some or d other day,in d due course of time,he'll slowly get used to dis life,Mayb find another partner & continue his life.A man getting remarried is not a big deal nowadays & if he's rich,he cn even get an unmarried girl.
The wife on d other hand,loses everything.Her self respect,her luv,her husband,her family,d society doesn't let her live peacefully.And here I m not only talking abt lower middle class but also an educated well to do girl also faces d same.2moro,if by chance she finds a young unmarried boy again,she'll hv to face wrath of society or even frm d boy's family.D journey jst gets tougher n tougher for her.And Wots d guarantee dat dis man will not leave her.
My ques is ,why d fear of losing ones partner is more frm a girl's side?No matter how much we say dat times hv changed.Girls r educated & dey r earning on their own but does d feelings of being a girl ever change?
After all dis we bcme super happy if d couple reunites & think Alls well dat ends well.But is it really?It seems d husband wanted a divorce,he got it.One fine day he realizes his mistake,wants her back,he gets her back too.What does a woman want,is anyone bothered?
I m saying all dis in context of Zain Aaliya but more dan dat on a regular basis as a fact of society.
Why do women hv 2 suffer in a relationship even if both husband & wife r at fault or due to circumstances?Why does being a woman is so difficult?I m not being a feminist here but I feel always a woman suffers more when there's a divorce.The 1st & foremost reason is dat a girl leaves her house & stays with her man after marriage.No matter how much d husband has suffered & due to certain circumstances he is forced to divorce his wife but he still gets to stay with his family.He has his family & frenz for support.Some or d other day,in d due course of time,he'll slowly get used to dis life,Mayb find another partner & continue his life.A man getting remarried is not a big deal nowadays & if he's rich,he cn even get an unmarried girl.
The wife on d other hand,loses everything.Her self respect,her luv,her husband,her family,d society doesn't let her live peacefully.And here I m not only talking abt lower middle class but also an educated well to do girl also faces d same.2moro,if by chance she finds a young unmarried boy again,she'll hv to face wrath of society or even frm d boy's family.D journey jst gets tougher n tougher for her.And Wots d guarantee dat dis man will not leave her.
My ques is ,why d fear of losing ones partner is more frm a girl's side?No matter how much we say dat times hv changed.Girls r educated & dey r earning on their own but does d feelings of being a girl ever change?
After all dis we bcme super happy if d couple reunites & think Alls well dat ends well.But is it really?It seems d husband wanted a divorce,he got it.One fine day he realizes his mistake,wants her back,he gets her back too.What does a woman want,is anyone bothered?
I m saying all dis in context of Zain Aaliya but more dan dat on a regular basis as a fact of society.
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