its really odd to see.... - Page 3

Originally posted by: .ShiverZ.

i must say the first epi itself i had this doubt ki cousins kaise marry kar sakte ahin omg its really wierd but then i guess it wasnt so wierd in muslim culture

as in QH we had ayaan n humaira marry though they were cousins too

Originally posted by: .ShiverZ.

i must say the first epi itself i had this doubt ki cousins kaise marry kar sakte ahin omg its really wierd but then i guess it wasnt so wierd in muslim culture

as in QH we had ayaan n humaira marry though they were cousins too

in qh its different. .ayaan n humera r not blood relation cousins. .
gaffur was not real bro of shireen..

Originally posted by: .VivaciousSoul.

ohkk... 1 stupid que... den in islam u dnt call ur cousins bhaijaan or sis... 🤔... even I heard in muslim..chacha bhatiji also can marry... 😕

I would like to challenge this statement. Marriage between chacha- Bhatiji is never posible.

In Islam there are three grounds where a Muslim is prohibited from intermarrying with each other:

i) Consanguinity: a mulim is probited to marry his own ascendents or descendents; his father's or mother's descendents ascendents; and the sister or brother of any ascendents. like his own children, his wn father, mother, uncles aunts, etc.

ii) Affinity: it is unlawful for a muslim to marry ascendents or descendents of his wife; and the wife of any descendents or ascendents.

iii) Fosterage: A man shall not marry his foster mom or his foster sister.


In Islam, U cannot marry your consanguine or uterine sibling. A marriage between cousins are fully allowed. and I myself find nothing odd here. In fact it is quite normal in our society.

and ofcourse, we call our cousins like bhai or appi.

Originally posted by: .VivaciousSoul.

its really odd for me to watch romance btwn cousins... 😳... I m following show since 1st epi... n m luving d show... bt in last epi.. zen trying to touch her face / hair... was very odd for me.. I mean thy r first cousin... n to think abt cousin like ths is really odd for me... maybe m non muslim... n never seen such relations... 🤔

alia is nt aware abt her cousin bt zen knws tht .. still 😳... thy r first cousine right.. I mean alia's mom n zen's dad real bro sis... or thy r cousins?? 🤔

bt m trying to used to ds... 😆... wht abt u ppz...

btw m prishiya... can call me prish...

Originally posted by: .VivaciousSoul.

ohkk... 1 stupid que... den in islam u dnt call ur cousins bhaijaan or sis... 🤔... even I heard in muslim..chacha bhatiji also can marry... 😕

Originally posted by: --Zariyat--

Check the previous posts in this thread for your answers😊

thanks dear !

Yeah as a punjabi my 1st reaction was also the same then my muslim frds told me thats its normal in their culture

Originally posted by: PrincessN

I would like to challenge this statement. Marriage between chacha- Bhatiji is never posible.

In Islam there are three grounds where a Muslim is prohibited from intermarrying with each other:

i) Consanguinity: a mulim is probited to marry his own ascendents or descendents; his father's or mother's descendents ascendents; and the sister or brother of any ascendents.

ii) Affinity: it is unlawful for a muslim to marry ascendents or descendents of his wife; and the wife of any descendents or ascendents.

iii) Fosterage: A man shall not marry his foster mom or his foster sister.


In Islam, U cannot marry your consanguine or uterine sibling. A marriage between cousins are fully allowed. and I myself find nothing odd here. In fact it is quite normal in our society.

and ofcourse, we call our cousins like bhai or appi.

Originally posted by: noor321

Basically it depends, cousins can marry each other but also there are families where it doesn't happen and they treat each other like brother and sister. Like for example if they lived in joint families or close by and have a lot of interaction they may treat each as other bro and sis and sometimes if they've lived far away with not much interaction then it would easier to accept each other as husband and wife. It really depends, like I have cousins who are close in age but on that side of my family we treat cousins as bro and sis so when they were to grow they wouldn't likely be paired. However you never no tomorrow they may end up liking each other. Also people have so many cousins, you treat the rest like your bros and sisters but may end up marrying another one of your cousins.

One reason for cousin marriage is that before it was used to increase muslims around the world, and also to ensure you marry into someone of the same religion, when there weren't many muslims.

In Islam, cousins are not meant to be really treated as bro and sis especially when there isn't much age difference between in each other. When cousins reach maturity, puberty then they are na-mahrams for each other as in they are people who can be married to each other so they shouldn't be very close because girls and guys that are na-mahrams to each other are not meant to be so frank. But of course in a lot of families due to culture influences, cousins are close and treat each other like bro and sis.

Mahram - is someone who can't marry, so like your bro, dad, mamu, chacha, thaya for the girl

Mahram - for boy is their phopo/bua, khala/masi, sis, etc.

Na-mehrams are those people you can marry that is stated in the islam. Such as cousins, mami, chachi, thayi, bhabhi, saalis, and in general all girls, for guys are na-mehram

And for girl there na-mahrams would be phopaji, khaluji/masuji, devar, jeth, and in general all guys etc

In Islam, those who are your na-mahrams, for both girls and guys you should be a little reserved, and not too open. But in general most of na-mahrams that are actual relations, such as phopaji, or mamis, you do end up having relaxed relations with them and are close to them. Culturally it isn't a big thing anymore because girls can be close to their khalus/masuas, same for guys with their na-mahrams, its just you have to be careful and because they are relations that if they were not already married you are already allowed to marry.

I hope I made sense, I was in a hurry so didn't check through the grammar and stuff.

Originally posted by: .ShiverZ.

thanks dear !

in short doston bhul joa rista n remeber theres one rishta mann ka 😊 but jo bhi ho i must say mujhe lagta hain yeh amrita rao hain really puri carbon copy hian sis ki 😆