1st jan 2014 --Review Of Todays Episode..YHM--all discussion here

pleaseee😆 Thanks Nichu for the review👏

everyone says ishu has no right poke her nose into neighbors business...but then it was seen that she did not interfere till ruhi came and hug real hard becos the little girl was scared...thats when she interfere to cool the matter down...when mrs iyer brought her back home...i don't understand why she came down...but looking into EK leading ladies of my experience...they have to be involve in every single matter...so i don't find any difference here

the women organisation has already been invited by the creep ashok...ishu has no hands in it...she didn't even know that such trouble will arise...the organisation wanted raman to hang over the child to shagun...not ishu wanted the ruhi to go with shagun...she did what is being told and seen...she never pressure ruhi to go with shagun...even if ruhi says that she wants to live with raman...it will go into deaf ears...as per law 5 yrs old kid is still minor to voice his/her opinion...all ishu have to do is convince the little girl to go with her mother...

when ruhi was going with her mother...she was seeing only ishu...neither she saw her father...her family...her grandmother...she was only seeing and crying for ishu...her tears only falls down from her cheeks for ishu...this shows how much ishu-ruhi is emotionally attached...though the bhallas...toshi...raman took care of ruhi of her since childhood till now when she is 5 yrs of life...but its clearly seen she has no emotional attachment with anyone in the family...no doubt her family loves her...she loves her family and her father...but when it comes to emotional attachment...she has none from her family...and this was clear tdy...her only emotional attachment is with ishu only...only ishu...and noone else...till she connects with raman equally like she does with ishu but that too ishu have a hand in it to bond father-daughter duo emotionally...the scene was beautifully directed and showed a divine bond b/w ishu-ruhi...may toshi bhalla cries her lungs out...but ruhi's soul and emotional attachment is only with ishu...i felt bad for raman...that this 5 yrs he wasted his entire life for a useless revenge when he can create a emotional attachment with his daughter...noone in his family is emotionally attach to ruhi...they love her...but never made a point to understand the little girl state of mind...toshi bhalla sees from physical way of the distance b/w father-daughter duo...but never tried to hear...feel and share her pain...like ishu does...thats the difference b/w bhallas and ishu's love for ruhi...

coming to raman...any father will have tears in his eyes when his daughter is being snatched or cries in loneliness for his daughter...but this man showed nothing in my eyes...he is angry and furious that his daughter is being snatched by his enemy...his ex-wife...he does not want his daughter to go to his enemy house...i could not feel the pain of a father in raman's face...he was stoned and numb...only giving angry expressions and being aggressive to stop by mihir...even after distancing from his daughter...all he told the family that he is going to bring back ruhi only for the family...does any father talk such words...seriously bringing to the hospital since ruhi has toothache...checking on the lices and wash them off calls the love of a father...than i don't understand the meaning of a father...even a heartless person does what raman did to ruhi in terms of humanity even my uncles have done that for me in my childhood when my parents were busy and request them too...being a father is sit down with your daughter share her pain...her happiness...her views...her tears...her life...involve in your daughter/son lives so much that...make him/her understand the true meaning of goodness and badness...raman was a disappointment...all i could see is his anger that shagun took away their daughter and going to live with his rival ashok...thats it...i don't see any fatherly feelings in him...i don't see him hurt...i hope this distance from ruhi brings the fatherly side of him...currently i see none of it...shagun was so right and hinted a good valid point...he was obsessed to ruin the lives of ashok-shagun that he completely ignores his daughter...when shagun calls him a bad father...for the first time i felt...he deserve it...i hope he breaks the image and breaks the perspective of shagun...

toshi bhalla crying her lungs out...she loves her grandaughter...she is living raman's childhood in ruhi...and completely agree everything abt shagun...which totally makes sense now that she gave priority to her dreams even more than her daughter...but when it comes to raman it went overboard...like seriously lady do you think your son is earning for his daughter?...its so evident in every action of raman that he is earning to ruin ashok-shagun completely...it has nothing to do with his daughter...he has done many things for ruhi...till now i have never seen even one...so toshi thinks that raman is a good father becos he is earning for his daughter...what abt your son ignoring his daughter...even though you advise him many times...financial security is needed for every kids...but than what is more important love...care...concern for the kids...teaching the kids the real meaning of life...showing them the good and bad path of lives...and how they choose the path that leads to only heaven...i don't agree with her points regarding raman...while the others accusation were perfect...except for ishu part...in her POV...bhallas humiliation has become the joke of town by ishu...what abt iyers humiliation...which happened in front of the society by the bhallas...don't they have a reputation...once again blame ishu for taking ruhi away in the middle of night when the entire fault is to be blamed on toshi bhalla to let a stranger who has no experience in taking care of kids stay with the little girl who is sick...being a grandmother never bothered to bring the little girl to the doctor and cured the cough when she notice the cough and ask the little girl why she was coughing...she even neglect ruhi's toothache and was busy sleeping away after taking her cold drink...if ishu becomes busy waking up the entire bhallas who are in their dream sleep or drunk sleep...than the little girl life would be in danger and might even face death...instead of thinking the consequences that might have happen if ishu never save ruhi's life...she once again badmouthing how it was wrong of ishu to take away the kid in middle night...for god sake...ishu brought her to the hospital not for a holiday...off-screen-the actress was perfect...hats off for her portrayal as Mrs Toshi Bhalla...

this is completely my POV and i know many will not agree...but i just spoke my heart out