Raman raising his hand to slap, Justified ? - Page 3

Originally posted by: ilovepyaar

It just proves that he doesn't have the qualities of a gentleman, like Pratik said. I don't think there's any justification on the matter. He has no responsibilities towards Ishita and he is under the impression that she's a greedy lady whose family is after his.

But if Ishita raised her hand on Raman, I get the feeling that many people would say it's justified, because of gender roles.

Originally posted by: sunaina02

He is not a gentleman who raises his to slap a woman .

Unfortunately , the concept of gentleman is unknown to TV cvs.

On the other hand Raman's actions may be because he was drunk

Originally posted by: Malika

Honestly there was too much drama today...uff the biggest drawback of watching an ekta show! I didnt like Raman raising hand on Ishita and shouting on her mother.But equally disappointing was Ishita making personal remarks on his past w/o even knowing him.W/o knowing what he might hv been through.Okay he insulted her mother but then who was at fault?Her mother.And even then ishita came to fight again.He said I am here just to request u to switch off ac n still all that.Had raman not raised his hand i ws very happy with his conduct lately. He did try to talk politely even after the face off but the slap nullified it all.

Really disappointed with the script-writers today...they really need to keep the grace of characters.Thats the biggest flaw of all ekta shows.For the sake of drama shes even ready to compromise on the character.

I dont say ishita and raman shud not be in conflict but these are stupid reasons and dont suit their characters.

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The only one part i liked in the episode is that Raman is just like Ishita in a way.He never likes to initiate something bad.How much irritated angered bruised he might be his goodness reflects in his actions.

Originally posted by: Mages

thank god the slap did not happen...

i am not in favour with raman's attempt to slap...

raman should learn to control his anger...and also whatever ishu was telling is the truth...he is not a responsible father...he is obsessed in destroying ashok completely...he is so heartbroken by shagun that he is neglecting his own daughter...he doesn't know that his ignorance is affecting ruhi's studies also...and he doesn't even control the words used by his mom for others...the family atmosphere is also affecting ruhi...its high time he wakes up from his slumber and takes control of his daughter before its too late...he has already lost his wife...if this goes on...he will loose his daughter too...he will be a very lonely man...i hope he doesn't continue with his new nature...becos if it continues when ruhi grows up she will question her father and ask who is he too control her life...was he there for her in her childhood days...no...never than why now...i hope such situation doesn't arise at all for raman

as in future ishu slapping raman...that depends on how the situation is...if its justified than i will favour...if no i won't at all