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A.Hajnal

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Posted: 10 years ago

#121

Originally posted by: naina2010

@Red:- Woooh, wooh, easy, easy...There is NO need to bring Islam and its rules here, especially when you don't know NOTHING about it...

Islam allows to have 4 wives, BUT there are many rules and regulations to follow...And that goes without saying that it's NOT an obligation and Must-do thing...

In the start, It has been allowed because many girls used to become muslim but as they didn't have family support and couldn't get married to a man who wasn't muslim...It become a problem to them, this is why, muslim men could marry them IF THEY WANTED to And IF they could financially support them...So only rich men used to have more then 1 wife...Again Not an obligation...

To marry and have 2nd wive, The man should have an valid reason (can't have a child etc...) And the man MUST take permission from his first wife...And if she doesn't want her husband to marry another woman...that man CAN'T get married and have a 2nd wife...

And Rashid didn't even let Dilshaad know, lied to her about this...I think at least you know about this...??

To have a 2nd wife doesn't mean the man has to forget the first one, and that also mean the he has to forget the 2nd one..He has to have to give both of them the same respect, rights and whatever they want...A man who doesn't know balance and who doesn't know how to do that, CAN'T get married as per Islam if he is using this rule of Islam as his shield...

Rashid forgot about the first one when he got married to the 2nd one, and after 17 years he wants to have rights over her when he didn't gave her rights about 17 and MORE...

And as long as the concept of mistress goes, I don't things such things is allowed in Islam, and even if it that also must be only to have a child, that times surrogate mothers...But anyother way to have an extra marital affair is WRONG, a SIN...

And, I think in "Wife and husband" talk, we have forgot about what Islam says about Children...I don't think you can find it any where that Islam or any other religion allows a father to abandon his children and not provide them...But of course, if someone has ONLY Siddique and Rashid as the examples of Muslim fathers, they could think that it normal and allowed...it is NOT...If a man fathered a child, no matter if its out of weed lock or not, that child has to be provided, protected and taken care of, in any and every way...

So, my dear, Now I think this all is clear to you that Islam can't/won't be used to justify that spineless so called man's sins...

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naina2010

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Posted: 10 years ago

#122

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes
@naina2010: The CVs have shown that Rashid was having an extramarital affair with Shireen which he was blackmailed into acknowledging by Razia...Ayaan was way elder to Najma...he was sleeping with 2 women at once...he wasn't married to Shireen. ..in fact Shireen left him the day she got to know he had a wife...that is after the Gudiya factory incident. ..so he brought Ayaan into Dilshaad's care...who was already not in a good condition. ...so Asad brought him up for about 4 years. ..when Shireen returned. ..Rashid snatched away Ayaan too...

Plus Dilshaad was in his life first. .she was his wife...his affair with Shireen and the fact he had a son with her was discovered on Najma's 1st birthday...by that time Ayaan was already born...he is 2 years older to Naj...so basically Rashid was a father of two kids and had also fathered a child out of wedlock with Shireen...

Now the only way Rashid can be totally redeemed is if it turns out Ayaan is not his biological son...Shireen was in love and made pregnant by some other man who left her...and Razia and Gaffur chose innocent Rashid to bear the responsibility by blackmailing him...

But we don't know this yet...so Rashid is guilty until proven innocent

Ok thank you for clarifying this. If Rashid was really two timer, then its very sad and because of his two timing game with Dilshad and Shireen he put both the women life in trouble and caused grief, so he cannot be forgiven either.

Shireen left him when she got to know she was having an affair with a married man...Rashid never told her the truth...and that is why he had to leave the child Ayaan, who mind u was born out of wedlock, with his first wife...he had to leave his legal family to stay with his mistress...this was the only thing he did out of blackmail, he accepted his second family in public...but creating a second family was not out of blackmail..he had an affair of his own accord, and he was blackmailed coz his affair was known by Razia and Ghaffur

Why should Rashid hide truth from Shireen if she is a mistress. Don't you think a woman with mistress status already know that man may or may not have wife already. And why should he do this if he really loved Dilshad is the question.

Like you said, lets wait what CVs has to reveal. If nothing comes up then Rashid is two timer and should be left alone and Dilshad still wants to be with him, its her large heartedness and her love towards Rashid which is not worthy of. Lets see

Edited by naina2010 - 10 years ago

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starsinmyeyes

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Posted: 10 years ago

#123

Originally posted by: naina2010

Ok thank you for clarifying this. If Rashid was really two timer, then its very sad and because of his two timing game with Dilshad and Shireen he put both the women life in trouble and caused grief, so he cannot be forgiven either.

Shireen left him when she got to know she was having an affair with a married man...Rashid never told her the truth...and that is why he had to leave the child Ayaan, who mind u was born out of wedlock, with his first wife...he had to leave his legal family to stay with his mistress...this was the only thing he did out of blackmail, he accepted his second family in public...but creating a second family was not out of blackmail..he had an affair of his own accord, and he was blackmailed coz his affair was known by Razia and Ghaffur

Why should Rashid hide truth from Shireen if she is a mistress. Don't you think a woman with mistress status already know that man may or may not have wife already. And why should he do this if he really loved Dilshad is the question.

Like you said, lets wait what CVs has to reveal. If nothing comes up then Rashid is two timer and should be left alone and Dilshad still wants to be with him, its her large heartedness and her love towards Rashid which is not worthy of. Lets see

She was a mistress, we as an audience know...she did not...she was unaware that Rashid had another family...even if we assume he married Shireen secretly and then had Ayaan, one thing is for sure, Dilshaad and Shireen were totally unaware of each other's existence until Gudiya factory...which as the TM clearly pointed out, is not allowed in Islam..a person can have upto 4 wives but to remarry u need to take the 1st wife's permission...which Rashid did not...so even then he was wrong...

So as I said..until it is proven that Ayaan is not Rashid's son but someone else's responsibility he was forced to take...he is guilty...and that's the reason he is being bashed😊

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antiquegold

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Posted: 10 years ago

#124

Episodes of jan 11 and jan 14 2013. On zeetv youtube channel.

Asad is seven or eight. Dilshad is pregnant. Rashid brings two year old ayaan home. Dilshad being pregnant cannot look after ayaan completely. Asad babysits ayaan. Najma is born. Rashid visits from time to time. From najmas wedding invite. Epi we hear that rashid could not tolerate najma crying at doc checkups. Najmas first birthday. Gudiya factory. Rashid disappears. Ayaan stays on for about a year year and a half longer. Rashid comes back to take his sons away. We hear that shreen has taen rashid bavk, gafoor offered rashid partnership amd we know that raza backmailed him. Then the scene in the yard, with asad running behind the car and falling while two year old najma screams in dilshads arms.

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starsinmyeyes

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Posted: 10 years ago

#125

Originally posted by: Oldestfan
Episodes of jan 11 and jan 14 2013. On zeetv youtube channel.
Asad is seven or eight. Dilshad is pregnant. Rashid brings two year old ayaan home. Dilshad being pregnant cannot look after ayaan completely. Asad babysits ayaan. Najma is born. Rashid visits from time to time. From najmas wedding invite. Epi we hear that rashid could not tolerate najma crying at doc checkups. Najmas first birthday. Gudiya factory. Rashid disappears. Ayaan stays on for about a year year and a half longer. Rashid comes back to take his sons away. We hear that shreen has taen rashid bavk, gafoor offered rashid partnership amd we know that raza backmailed him. Then the scene in the yard, with asad running behind the car and falling while two year old najma screams in dilshads arms.

God the timeline of this show is so badly muddled🥱...did Dilshaad know about Shireen being with Rashid...was Ayaan's true identity revealed to Dilshaad or he got her as a friend's son...this is all so confusing...the only thing that is remotely clear is that he cheated on Dilshaad and he did not tell Shireen about his other family...TFS

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antiquegold

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Posted: 10 years ago

#126

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

God the timeline of this show is so badly muddled🥱...did Dilshaad know about Shireen being with Rashid...was Ayaan's true identity revealed to Dilshaad or he got her as a friend's son...this is all so confusing...the only thing that is remotely clear is that he cheated on Dilshaad and he did not tell Shireen about his other family...TFS

Yeah see, the red fteam of writers was in on the friday amd the blue team effed it up on monday! 😆