OMG OMG ! I am shellshocked dumbfounded! Where do i begin? So many posts and so many comments and so many povs, and so much concern .. and latest addition afsu haha i just read after just chatting with her on "Behuda CC" not behuda at all girl!
@seema, deepa, goolab, madhu, sarada, niki, snehal, my "silent observant Nir😃, even saw NaniBen clicking like on 1st pg yest when editing title for yest epi ... have to get back to all of them.
Last but not the least almost forgot about putija's thread thanks to snehal for quoting it!👏⭐️
Lemme just repost it and putija have to check out your thread also. I think the link is on pg 136😕
Originally posted by chalhov
Ok posted in both ATs
Kyu Shrel why not visit my thread too😛 here you go
Astha here are some tips to control a dominating and troublesome husband Shlok has made your life hell so better we give you some good advice how to control your husband
As you are busy crying ,cooking bearing insults and no one has given you a laptop and internet I am helping you 1st husband then MILs ,FIL though some of these points you can use for them too.
Learn to handle a dominating(torturing ) husband
Relationships are based on mutual trust and respect but, what, if your husband starts controlling your life? What, if he sets rules and regulations on you? Exerts his control on you through various ways, such as continuous phone calling, verbal abuse, constant arguments and so on. A happy married life changes into a jail where, you are dominated each and every moment. If, you are also fed up of your husbands dominating behaviour, and don't know how to handle him then, here we tell you some simple points that can help you in dealing with an over controlling man
Communicate
Communicate with your partner openly. Tell him; how you feel when each time you have to do things the way he likes. Try to explain his calmly and peacefully that, you wish to have little more space in the relationship where, you can take few decisions for your own self. In this process of sorting out things, try to avoid getting into any kind of fights as they will close the scope of discussion for the next time. And, also remember that, as your husband has this habit of doing things his way, he might have a little trouble understanding your point of view so, handle the situation with care and patience because after all, communication is the key to a happy married life.
Don't take any kind of abuse
Never stay quiet and take any kind of physical, mental or verbal abuse from your husband. Your silence will not only portray you as weak but also, give him the strength to repeat all this over again the next time. Let your husband know that, you are his better half and have equal rights in the relationship. And, marriage has not made him a master and you a slave that he can do whatever he wants.
Seek help of family and friends
If, all your efforts to improve the situation seem to go in vain then, all you need to do is, ask a family member or a close friend, on whom your husband has great amount of trust and considers him/her to be a well wisher, to come and help you out. You never know, chances are that a third person is better able to explain your point of view to your husband who is just not ready to listen to you at all.
Get separated
If, nothing works at the end of the day then, there is no point holding on in an abusive relationship. Seek a divorce and gift your self freedom', from dominance and all kind of abuses.
yaar putija hope to get back today 😭
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