Originally posted by: pallavi25
Purvi's Love and gratitude towards her mother cannot be compared with her love for Arjun! 😆 Both are completely different relationships. We cannot compare apples to oranges!
Compare apples to apples. Her feelings for Arjun was always love but her feelings for Onir was gratitude and friendship only!
Its said in Indian culture that one can never repay the debts of one's mother. A man wanted to repay his debt towards his dear departed mother so he built a temple in her name. Last of all he installed a golden kalash on top of the temple and proudly said: There! Now I have repaid my mother for all she did for me!
The golden kalash fell down with a resounding crash! He could never repay her for his existence in this world and for his upbringing!
But still Purvi tried to return her mother's family and happiness to her because she was deeply grateful towards Archana and loved her the most!
Purvi loved Arjun, as a woman loves a man but Onir, she was only grateful towards him but never loved him.
Mixing up love and gratitude means being confused between the 2 feelings for a particular person. Purvi never appeared confused abt how she felt abt Onir.
but some times purvi also confused about gratitude and love when she and onir struggle for live in road and also when she gave her baby to ovi . The struggle time love blooms in between couple, may be they both feel but purvi unable to recognised its because onir never told her in openly and she thought she is unable to forgive herself for arjun's condition , and at that time she looks so confused but at that time ovi broke her marriage and purvi feel guilt for arjun's pain for pari and ovi 's broken heart , due to guiltness , her love is disappear and onir understand this situation and her feelings as a girl and as a wife, so for her goodness he back his foot in her life and want to marry arjun so that she never be confused and he know a girl never forget her first love , arjun is her first love and also her child father.
Purvi always confused about her feelings after marriage, she told she forget arjun and starting a fresh life with onir but she still feelings when she saw arjun with ovi, when she saw onir make distance with her ,she feel bad and missed him ,if she has only feel gratitude then why she is not ignore what onir did , for gratitude she want to gave onir herself then its not matter , what onir did or not, but at that time she fight with onir as a wife , and told onir , i am ur wife , i have right on u but when its come on onir, he has no right on his wife. if only considered onir as a good friend and gratitude then why she complaining about his first marriage why not accept it full heartly , because he is person who helped her ,if he has some past and hide it then as a friend why she did not handel the situation and make a good distance from onir but she badly heart broken and hate onir, it is happened when u considered the man is ur and u have the full right on him and when u learn that person is not ur , u can not forgive him that she did, she did not accept arjun easily after broke up with onir but by time when onir disappear from her life and she completely accept it onir is not her then her feeling towards arjun is grow up and she falls for him agin...
i am a girl i can understand her feelings properly, a girl never able to forget her first love that not means she never love her husband, for a girl thats not matter her marriage is what type but she respect her husband and live for her husband and husband family if her husband is good person, many case a girl never got a good husband but the person is a good human or good father then she must have some feelings toward the man, because hindu society sindoor and magalsutra is not a jwellary but also attached with her heart...in this way donot tell a girl wear sindoor for a man name really and married for entire life but she has single bit feelings for her husband as a wife, its wrong...
i am really disappointed in the way cv shows the feelings of purvi towards onir and what onir explain about her feelings, ya its right for her child sake she should return her lover where her own husband support and agree for this, because when the child will be grow up and will be learn her real dad how she will feel...and arjun has no fault about pari...
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