Ovi should tell Purvi abt Onir!W Pg.4

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I have followed this show from the beginning but have never posted a topic on this forum. But today I would really like to say that I am loving Ovi as a character these days. I also disagree with a lot of arvi fans that say Ovi should not reveal the truth. I would just like to say that if this was real life and I was in the same position as Purvi, I would want to know THE TRUTH! I agree that Purvi loves Arjun and will put in an awkward situation after where she will have to make a choice, but atleast this choice will not be based on any lies. She will know that she is chosing between two people that love her! If she choses Arjun, then its great shes chosing the guy she loves. But even if she choses Onir, she is chosing a guy this was willing to sacrifice everything in his life for her. However, if she finds out after her marriage with Arjun, she will lose this choice. And if i honestly was to find out all this aftermy marriage, I would never be able to forgive myself for blaming and hating the guy who in actual life i owe everything to.

Many arvi fans also said no one forced onir to marry purvi. He did that on his own. My counterresponse would be no one forced Purvi either. Onir did it out of pure love and purvi did it to maintain her reputation in society and give her child a father's name. And no matter for what reason they married, they did enter into a pure relationship that is supposed to last forever. The vows they took; actually mean something. If onir can lose everything just to make purvi happy, then the least purvi can do is acknowledge his sacrifices, think deep within her heart and choose which guy she should stay with. I have never loved Purvi as a character but any woman has the right to decide her future partner without any deceit, any lies!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree, in real life that is what would be done. Even getting a divorce is not as simple in court, as what was made out to be with Onir-Purvi. And finally, when Ovi is doing something right about fixing the relationship between her sister and brother-in-law (!!), people are calling her selfish and with no self respect. I just don't see it, I must not be living in the reel world. 🥱
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with you OP. I don't get why the truth should be hidden from Purvi.

Isn't it better if she makes a decision knowing the entire truth? And then if after knowing Onir's truth she chooses Arjun then isn't that better? Because she is choosing the guy she loves with her mind clear and no pressures, misunderstanding, or lies. And that will lead to less trouble down the road in their married life too.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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trying to explain something that makes real sense to arvi fans is impossible...they dont see anything beyond their arvi...

ovi is being hated for finding out the truth about onir and people are saying that it is not any of her business but when purvi was trying to find out the truth about punni and her bf then purvi was right and justified even though it was none of her business if punni wanted a sugar daddy...

onir is called stupid and being hated for doing this drama but arvi fans dont see that it was all done to unite arvi...

onir married purvi out of pure love and was serious about the marriage so did purvi...but still he put his whole reputation in line for arvi...yet he is not appreciated one bit...but ovi was wrong for being angry with purvi when she swapped the babies because that was for ovi's balai...

this is the height of hypocrisy...

purvi needs to know the truth...onir did alot for her...at this point she should still end up marrying arjun but she has to know the truth and thank onir before she marries arjun...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree Purvi should learn the truth. But what will be interesting is what will she do about it.

1. Will she feel obligated to return to Onir - having seen his sacrifice for her? Or
2. Will she feel very grateful to Onir but accept him as a best friend forever.. And marry Arjun anyway?

I read in another thread that Purvi deserves her own medicine and that Arjun should force her to marry Purvi...maybe

BUT is that the solution? ... 2 wrongs do not make a right - everyone saw that when Arjun married Ovi at the coercion of Purvi. Do we want to go down that road again?

Then what about feelings... Onir's, Arjun's,Purvi and Pari...
Yes I deliberately left Ovi out because she has decided to leave Arjun knowing he will never love her. She's on the road to recovery ...

Let's take Onir - knowing Purvi loves Arjun, has loved Arjun, is loving Arjun and will continue to love Arjun - can he accept her even if she decides to return to him on the basis of gratitude? Can he live with that knowing that he has separated her from the one she truly loves? If Onir understands love... He would not accept Purvi unless she comes to him fully without any encumberances (after all Arjun is a living, breathing man ... Not a dead one).

What about Purvi - if there's any lesson she had learned ... She should know that there's no substitution for true love. Onir deserves to receive a love that is true and deep and all his. Can she give him that? What about Arjun ... She loves deeply and truly and similarly Arjun love Purvi deeply and truly. Between them they created Pari.

Yes Pari... Doesn't she deserve to have the true love of a mother and father who not only created her but who also love her deeply and who also love each other?

No one should settle for second best when the best is an achievable goal...

Interesting how this story is going to turn out ...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I do agree with you too!! I was and still a die heart fan of arvi but now that they are reunited again i dont see that magic anymore!! I would be glad if she ends up with Onir -:)
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Sorry Sahara- Afghan you misunderstood me ... I don't know what magic you are talking about? Please everybody I'm not a fan of any one. I love the story for what it is and the characters.

I want the right thing to be done not the fanciful or critical or revengeful feelings of the fans. :)

The only reason I think Purvi should know is that Onir needs to be exonerated and for Purvi and Arjun to appreciate and be grateful for his sacrifice. And also to end this track in one area.

I think there's enough of sacrifices a

Purvi - do the right thing for you, for Arjun, for Onir and for Pari. You may be happy with second best but is it fair to Pari?



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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with u purvi has to right to know the truth then she decides between her husband and her lover.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Luv4games

trying to explain something that makes real sense to arvi fans is impossible...they dont see anything beyond their arvi...


ovi is being hated for finding out the truth about onir and people are saying that it is not any of her business but when purvi was trying to find out the truth about punni and her bf then purvi was right and justified even though it was none of her business if punni wanted a sugar daddy...

onir is called stupid and being hated for doing this drama but arvi fans dont see that it was all done to unite arvi...

onir married purvi out of pure love and was serious about the marriage so did purvi...but still he put his whole reputation in line for arvi...yet he is not appreciated one bit...but ovi was wrong for being angry with purvi when she swapped the babies because that was for ovi's balai...

this is the height of hypocrisy...

purvi needs to know the truth...onir did alot for her...at this point she should still end up marrying arjun but she has to know the truth and thank onir before she marries arjun...


I completely agree!! it is foolishness to believe that the truth will do no good! and if there are any true arvi fans then they should support the essence of purvi; who has always even when it is none of her concern always tried to find out the truth/meddle in others affairs like punni, manav and archana (when they were not together she tried so hard to get them to be together). Therefore, when ovis trying to do the same thing; trying to find out a truth about a very important matter; i dont see why she is being spoken bad about. Truth is a good thing and in the end will only help make purvi the right decision for her future; whether that decision be in favor of arjun or onir!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pwc123

I wish in my next life I am not born as an Indian. I don't mind being born as a mosquito. In general, I have concluded that Indians do not like other people's success and prosperity. Having lived in the west, I have seen that there isn't that kind of animosity, hatred, lies and deceit that is there in India. That is the reason all this is happening:

1. From Day One, Purvi has been hated by most people, especially all women. What's the reason. She is good-looking, simple, even though born an orphan was heralded into a good family with decent values. And then, a nice guy fell in love for her. She out of no selfish motives sacrificed her love. Basically these are all good virtues, good luck, etc. the kinds of things most Indian women can't stand, because many of them are born selfish, born jealous, born greedy, etc.
2. Still all kinds of theories have been floated, none more than the fact that she wants to be "Mahaan". Are you freaking kidding me? Which Indian woman in this forum, let alone in the world will just happily give up her boyfriend, husband, wealth, pleasures, etc. just to be called "Mahaan"? Will being called "Mahaan" satisfy her hunger, her desires, her pride, etc? And btw she wasn't called Mahaan by anyone in the Deshmukh family or the Karanjikar family. So we know how much water that theory holds. If one woman in this forum gives up all that they possess just to be called "Mahaan", I am ready to jump into the Atlantic Ocean tomorrow.
3. Ovi hates Purvi. Even now, deep down she hates Purvi. Of course, without a doubt she will reveal the truth. Cmon, she has been born to screw Purvis' life. Because Purvi will time and again hand over her life to Ovi on a platter. As soon as she saw Onir's photo almbum, the first thought that came to her mind was Purvi lied. Even now when she knew about Onir's sacrifice, her thought is how to unite Purvi with Onir. She has never cared for Purvi one day in her life. Why would she suddenly try to be a do-gooder? Because therein lies the ulterior motive. Even if I can't get Arjun, why should Purvi get him. Deep down Ovi has these discreet thoughts because that's what she truly is. If she stops Purvi's wedding to Arjun one day before that would have happened, that would be the second time. Its some record to be proud of.
4. There are lots of people saying Ovi should tell Purvi and Arjun the truth about Onir. Well, here's the question. Why should Ovi do that? Has she suddenly become Mother Theresa? Till yesterday this girl was spitting on Arjun, drinking when she was pregnant, blaming him even when married to him. I am not sure that Arjun had done some heinous crime. Why suddenly come to India all the way and suddenly care about Onir and his medical license and his life? Does this whole thing make any sense? So Ovi just had a transformation, overnight?
Lets assume Ovi truly cares for Onir, for one second. Even so, does she have a right to interfere in someone's life like that. She is nobody to Arjun, and frankly I am shocked that Arjun is even talking to her. Why should she suddenly care about Purvi to interfere in Purvi's life either? I mean, she has HATED Purvi as much as hate wouldn't hate her. It is Purvi's and Arjun's life and if Ovi truly cares, she wouldn't say a word. Onir just told her about his sacrifice, so she just hears all that and just decides to go and reveal and in the process screw Onir's sacrifice and his discreetness also? Now that's truly caring and compassionate behavior for you there. Also Onir specifically told her that Purvi wouldn't leave him normally unless he made her hate her.
Bottomline, most people don't want anything nice to happen to others because of their inborn fears, anguish, jealousy, etc. And those feelings are flowing here in their comments that Ovi should reveal everything. Because deep down they do not want everything to be hunky dory, because that wouldn't go well with them now, would it?


Are you really for real? Really? If you want to talk about Indian women and how those Indian women who support Ovi are jealous, selfish, greedy losers; do it with your real ID not a fake one so nobody knows who and what kind of a person you really are! This is a whole different level of fanbot'ism. And racism. Welcome to the PR forum, dear fanbot! Since you seem to be new, let me tell you how this works and maybe, just maybe you will understand since you seem to be literate if not learnt. So you see, you have to REALLY and DEEPLY think what and who you are posting about--like if it's a fictional character or a real person behind a computer in some part of the world or a whole race--and once you have done that, then and ONLY then post anything. We don't want to get banned, do we? Well, maybe you don't care. That's why you're hiding behind a fake ID while denouncing a whole race, which is supposedly your race too! Good for you! Brava!
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