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HalleNJ

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Posted: 11 years ago

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UMDUji, you've raised good points about the show... I'm also a little bit disappointed with the education track being treated more like a side track... I also agree with timepass...It's obvious that right now TRP is influencing the storyline of DABH...there was a slight dip in the TRPs after the night college track (though personally I liked it so much) so the Cvs brought in the fake swamiji track which actually brought DABH to the first position once again and now the focus seems to be on everything else except for education...but despite that, there is always something to look for in each episode, so as long as I'm entertained, I'll just continue watching...

Talking about surya...i agree with Anushaji, normal couples are boring 😆... also i hope surya will discuss about how brandon was accepted as a part of the family when convincing bhabo regarding MomLi's marriage...if not, it will be a big blooper 😕

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Deebz

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Thanks for voicing our concerns Uma! Good to see you create a thread after so long!

What gets me with dabh of recent times is the speed at which social messages are being bombarded at us! Rapid fire! They tumble down one on top of another, no time to breathe, like Meenudi's super sonic brain, cooking up a kaand or two a minute! We go - Hold on a moment!

Then there is the SurYa relationship! Super slow, strangely suspended, Aaargh inducing!

Cvs are fully capable of turning things around in a minute, getting back to their main track and captivating us again. But for some unknown reason, they have an axe to grind.😕

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Thanks UMDU - at last somebody is voicing my concerns & my complaints!

'No doubt we have all come to appreciate DABH's attempts to convey social messages and have been applauding them for the same.'

However, I think that the latest one is way too much. Mohit loving a Christian girl was a HUGE THING as it is - the CVs has to bring the unmarried pregnancy to it now! The inter religion marriage would have been a big challenge & how Sandya & Bhavo (of late Suraj has been made abandoned) tackle this would have been a good eye opener for the society & a logical solution would have set a good example. Why they have to show Emily pregnant, just because she is christian it is not justifiable to show that she has less than perfect moral? Would they have shown Chavi pregnant (a hindu girl!) - no way!

'Though I would like to confess here that I would not have minded the digression if it had been in the nature of progress in SurYa relationship. Whenever I raised the issue of the romantic side of the story coming to a standstill, I was repeatedly told not to expect too much as that is not the main theme of the story.'

Exactly! What is the SurYa relationship now a days? They spend the night in the same bed & same room - yet they have such a dry relationship, never once their body or hands touch. There is no tenderness, no longings in their eyes for each other. Either Suraj is a saint or he is not a real man! I am not talking about DBC - two people in love can be shown how attracted they are to each other by so many gestures. Yes, most of the time Suraj & Sandya stands side by side; that is just like two lamp posts standing next to each other.

'Is solving RP problem the main theme? In the name of TRPS maintenance they have started moving from one RP problem to another.'

Yes, this seems to be Sandya's whole purpose of existence. Even when Suraj start appreciate her dancing & seek some attention just by touching her hands, her brain thinks 'oh no - now I have to go & find out Emily's problem & resolve the difference between my beloved Bhavo & Dhaisa'. She did not even gave Suraj that beautiful smile which she had on the street on her way to Emily. When Suraj was waiting eagerly with a cake & some long lighted candles (CVs cut the scene); she was busy running errands for Bhabo to win her heart; in the meantime the candles burnt down & Suraj reduced to tears. Then she only gave him a half hug; not even an exiting juppi of love!

'Sandhya's college seems to be permanently on vacation mode. She solves one problem and there is another waiting to be tackled.'

Sandya is enrolled in Bhabo's 'Patshala' - there is no time for other studies! Together Sandya & Bhabo resolve one problem after another by challenging each other, by fighting with each other, by shouting (this is Bhabo's prerogative) or by agreeing with each other.

This show has proved that it is really about Diya & Bati - that is Sandya & Bhabo.

Suraj is just a very beautiful decorative stand to keep the Diya&Bati!!

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thala

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Posted: 11 years ago

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thanks for the post umaji

as far as my knowledge goes about the show, dabh has reached 400 epis wherein still sandy is in third year of college, i think they need to drag this show for more years , if they show sandy finishing her studies quickly what will be in store for them to drag, so they are bringing these social issues in between to prolong the main part .

as far as surya are conncernned they have made that part dummy now, just imagine the way they showed the first anniversary, it was like imposed one, i wonder is this the same surya who were a treat to watch even though they never confessed(before confession) there was more initmacy in them which is missing now, when you are celebrating your first anniversary with the person you love the most , is this the way it happens, ek kiss toh bantha hai

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vishnu

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Posted: 11 years ago

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😲 , ⭐️ , 👏 ...!!!

superb post Uma Ji, this is the 2nd tame u raised your concerns against the rules followed in RM and against the typo errors of our CVs...!!😳

we second your thoughts 👍🏼

Yeah, its a fact that to pull in crowd and make it a khatta-meetta combo the CVs are still trying to find their stand after 400 episodes...!!😵

In fact the points of Brandon vs Emily is superb valid...!!👏 and Yeah CVs need to give a boost to Sandhya's studies soon!😆 😉 else it would take yet another 2-3 year break for us but still they would show as if only one year hardly passed, but we would get to see all the festivals being celebrated without a daybreak!!!!😉😛😆

Ha...!! Now I just hope the Mr. pjarpi, who has a friends in DABH crew get to convey this to them personally or some how they get the idea of this post soon...!!😊

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Bharathi

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Nice thread Uma. Doubt whether the channel or PH cares as long as they get high TRPs. In fact, all the shows are dependent on ratings and once a show is hit, the main theme is dragged and dragged until ratings go down.

I also feel Sandhya's education track, though it had some great performances by the actors, lowered the ratings. Guess audience are not interested in seeing Sandhya studying and preparing for IPS as it has only Bhabho as obstruction and they are not willing to see Bhabho's rantings on and on.

Hope the CVs also include Sandhya's education alongside their other Momli, Meena, Chavvi tracks.

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akku8910

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Umduji i agree with ur points.The education track of Sandhya has taken a back seat eversince the Swamiji track ended.The main theme is 2 showcase the struggle of an ambitious girl who comes into an alien surrounding by marriage and how she eventually achieve her dream despite all odds with the help of her husband.But the Cv's have not given much importance 2 the education track of Sandhya apart from few days of attending night college and getting Bhabo's approval.The Cv's tend 2 compromise on the main theme 4 the sake of trps.The focus on education is a must 4 the main theme as cracking a civil service exam needs a lot of hardwork and concentration.They could potray it by mixing romance with studies as i know it would not be possible 2 show Sandy studying all the tym.
Another 1 that i agree is the progress in the relationship of SurYa.The Cvs r stuck with cute,shy and playful romance.It is about tym they bring abt some more intensity in their relationship as they have completed 1 yr of marriage.
Umduji i completely agree with Bhabo's hypocritical behaviour.It seems the CVs forgot abt Brandon 😆and r hell bent on showing her religious intolerance which is over the top and unrealistic. Edited by akku8910 - 11 years ago

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shehjar

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Posted: 11 years ago

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welcome back UMDU i was missing ur thought provoking posts🤗 ..
U have stated the reality the cvs in the name of social awareness do sometimes make a character look like an idiot and more often than not it is Bhabo ..
yeh sab trp ka maaya jaal hain but i do hope that they dont make it all the more unrealistic let realism prevail ..
BTW FeMi send that TATA tea to CVs too they need it the most JAAGO REY 😆

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SriB

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Superb post , totally agree.

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.Ami.

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Posted: 11 years ago

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I forgot to give my retake on SoorYa romance.
Now my retake:-🤓

I started to define SoorYa as such a divine/pure couple thru my poetry that I was almost about to become a Sage.🤔.

I visited Mount Abu and attended 3days meditation course then I was thinking to shift "HariDwar" n become a "sevika" of Baba Ramdev.😲

Thanks to SheeBz - they hold me back to my original senses.😎

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