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The question's been nagging me since I watched this week's (21st December) episode of ZGH. If you were in Kashaf's place, would you forgive Murtaza? 😕
Keeping aside the fact that Kashaf is a super pessimistic, her anger at her father is justified. The man who never took care of them, never paid for their expenses, never acted like a proper fatherly figure to them...would it be okay for someone like Kashaf to forgive him? From what I've seen in the promos, her mother does rebuke her for not respecting her father and she says that all his life he never took care of them and now suddenly he is acting like a father (not the exact lines but something like that 😆). I'm guessing that he turns around when Kashaf becomes a CSS officer...matlab, it'd be all just to bath in the glory of a successful daughter.
I commented to my mother while watching the epi that if Kashaf forgives her father, it'll leave a bad taste in my mouth. She told me that a child has no right to hold his/her parent in a court because that's just against the teachings of Islam. I replied that but if a parent isn't doing what a parent should do, how come all the responsibility falls on the child only? Ainvayi, zabardasti! But khair, that's treading on religious lines so forget that. As a human, I personally would never forgive Murtaza. Though I know it's a drama and since it's all "Shikwe Se Shukar Ka Safar", in the end Kashaf has to forgive Murtaza and there'd be a happy ending all around...I personally don't want her to forgive him. And if she does, UA has to give a very strong reason to convince me that someone like Kashaf will forgive someone like Murtaza.
I know, still too early to judge anything. For all we know, Murtaza's change could be genuine and not selfish but I don't think that's the case. I just want to know, would you be able to forgive a father? A father like Murtaza? Would you, in your future when you are all independent, decide to forgive and forget and move on and have a nice, cordial relationship with your father. Reasons would be appreciated 😳
I know, quite a bakwas post but it's been nagging me!
Keeping aside the fact that Kashaf is a super pessimistic, her anger at her father is justified. The man who never took care of them, never paid for their expenses, never acted like a proper fatherly figure to them...would it be okay for someone like Kashaf to forgive him? From what I've seen in the promos, her mother does rebuke her for not respecting her father and she says that all his life he never took care of them and now suddenly he is acting like a father (not the exact lines but something like that 😆). I'm guessing that he turns around when Kashaf becomes a CSS officer...matlab, it'd be all just to bath in the glory of a successful daughter.
I commented to my mother while watching the epi that if Kashaf forgives her father, it'll leave a bad taste in my mouth. She told me that a child has no right to hold his/her parent in a court because that's just against the teachings of Islam. I replied that but if a parent isn't doing what a parent should do, how come all the responsibility falls on the child only? Ainvayi, zabardasti! But khair, that's treading on religious lines so forget that. As a human, I personally would never forgive Murtaza. Though I know it's a drama and since it's all "Shikwe Se Shukar Ka Safar", in the end Kashaf has to forgive Murtaza and there'd be a happy ending all around...I personally don't want her to forgive him. And if she does, UA has to give a very strong reason to convince me that someone like Kashaf will forgive someone like Murtaza.
I know, still too early to judge anything. For all we know, Murtaza's change could be genuine and not selfish but I don't think that's the case. I just want to know, would you be able to forgive a father? A father like Murtaza? Would you, in your future when you are all independent, decide to forgive and forget and move on and have a nice, cordial relationship with your father. Reasons would be appreciated 😳
I know, quite a bakwas post but it's been nagging me!
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