aanchal proved to b a step mom

sorry to all aanchal sid fans i dnt want to hurt your feelings ...but its jst my point of view...sid left his kids alone as he loves anchal n kids who are immature in their age who truly loved jaya their mother who left them in such tender age so it was difficult for them to accept their teacher as their mom...sid got upset as they misbehaved with him & aanchal but what kin of father leave their kids for his own selfish happiness...aanchal can not be jayas parchain as she loved only small one not aayush &juhi bcoz they didnt respect her...she started her own family bt destroyed jayas home...what future will jayas kids have when they will feel ther father forgot them n their mom n have another kid busy romancing aanchal...aanchal should have married sid only if aayush & juhi aaccepted her as their mother before marriage bt she loved sid n married him for selfish reasons ....i really feel sorry as sid kids have bcome anath as his own father doesnt care abt them,,, n can live without them ...now he only thinks abt aanchal n his kid i hope aanchal knows she is wrong

First of all your assumptions are based on the idea it is wrong for a widower to fall in love and marry again and the kids should have to be consulted.....people like you, chanchal and lalitha have left no choice for kids like ayush and juhi... saying maa ko bhulna paap hi ..... instead of explaning to them it is ok if father falls in love again ....if a dear one dies instead of mourning their death and cry all the time...you should celebrate their life..their memories......of somebody.like jaya who always wants othres to be happy. It is people like you with preconceived notions about step moms caused this havoc on the other hand sid is somebody who is respecting the kids....he can always force them to live with him.. he has a legal right.. may be he is giving them time.....and himself to deal with the sudden turn of events .....he and Anchal represent somebody who believe in inhernt goodness in humanity...never thinking chanchal and her mom can brainwash their kids against them......chanchal and her mom, ironically lalithaji who is a step mom herself and you on the other hand .....beleive in the inherent selfishness of humanbeings.....
It is like when a butcher looks at the lamb he thinks how fat it is how much meat i can sell after i kill it....a poet looks at it... he thinks how beautiful its eyes look and how innocent and cute it looks...

I am sure in this situation one should not blame Anchal...the whole family should go through some councelling....let the kids know their mother's good actions are appreciated so much that anchal has decided to help them..it takes time to deal with the fact that it should have been Anchal who should have died instead of thier mother....but ultimately it is their' mother's kind gesture that inspired another human being to do more good...but again people like you with closed minds don't beleive in talking ......councelling...we just pass moral judgements which are so subjective....and aggravate the situation which is what is shown in MTPH

When i read your post again it occurs to me how much you sound like lalithaji and chanchal...lol....very loud

thanks padmakka ...you reflect my sentiments....

ayush and juhi left sidharth and anchal on their own..... no one can blame sidharth and anchal because they tried their level best to explain the situation... but the 2 kids are so stubborn and were under the influence of chanchal and lalitha.... it is totally fault of juhi and ayush when they cant understand from dheeraj and hariman who always respected sidhartha nd anchal decisions.... they are not immature to be rude to their parents and speak whatever comes to their mouth...

They are after all children confused, insecure and hurt... they are being defiant ....they need to be understood cajoled and talked to...that is all... if anyone is wrong here it is the way chanchal's mom types think step moms have to be step moms cant be good moms...this attitude has to change

I somewhat agree that the father of the children should keep trying to explain to the children how much he loves them rather then leaving them, and only concentrating on his family. I am not saying he doesn't have a right to a new wife and a better beggining, however he has responsibilities towards his other kids too no matter how arragont they are... it's his responsibility to explain and keep them with him. I agree with tanvi_lovely on some levels...

Since we feel Anchal and Sid are right doesnot mean everthing they do is right He should not have left the kids and dont you think its too early to start a family when they are having so many problems with these childrenI think they should have taken into consideration the feelings of their children as well. Children are already feeling insecure when mother is not around then Sid marries and leaves his kid s because they di d not want to come and now the new baby do you think its just on the children. Its just a serial we should not fight over these things relax and stay cool.

i think todays episode would answer you whether anchal proved to be a step mom or not..... she chosed to stay away from her own kid for sake jaya's kid....

hey guys i dnt support lalita or chanchal...nor i m against widow remarriage but i dnt support sid aanchal as they behaved immaturely too. they forgot thier responsibility completely...aayush & juhi are immature ,insecure kids who ost their mom at early age...they need sid telling them how much they are loved..he protected aanchal as a husband but failed miserably as a father...he gave chanchal lalita a chance to ruin his kids future as well as poison them..he is father of four kids jst nt sachin n newborn...