Originally posted by: mango.falooda
are we referring to some kabir singh movie type character?
I think the reason many young women think that might be cool is that they want to be courted, they want to be shown they are special, they want someone confident.
many of the guys in our society are too soft in that regard because they don't have to work hard in getting what they want as everything in some ways is given to them. there is a lack of drive in some ways because they are molly coddled by the parents. so they are almost trained puppets from birth and nod their head to everything their mother says.
take monica's husband in this drama, she was more upset he didn't speak up at the mandap when there was so much tamasha.
it is also why when it comes to arranged marriage market, many guys think the girls should be chasing after them and then are shocked when it does not happen. they are so used to being put on a pedestal. they don't have to work for something like a relationship and think all they need to do is put their profile and girls will come running. see the reaction of the boat guy that titli met.
that is why the total opposite like garv who are rebels seem attractive as they are not afraid to go after what they want and they are direct. you don't have to guess what his feelings are and it is probably flattering to know that some guy wants you that much....
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