Originally posted by: asmaanixx
Yup, Titli had no reason to interfere in their personal matter and I'm glad they chose to go this route vs making her into a savior.
Well, we can't say that people haven't been duped by getting fake jewelry before. If we look at Titli's case, Rahul's fam had given her an old, dirty saree and they turned out to be frauds. We don't know much about Monica's in-laws to be able to properly judge them on their financial status or what kind of people they are. If BM did have her doubts, then she could have at least locked the door and done it in private vs keeping it open where anyone could walk in and see her. Instead of the MIL, what if a guest had been walking by and seen her? What would they think about both families?
I'm not married so I can't speak in depth about it but from what I can understand, when it comes to gift-giving, there's a lot going on underneath the surface. If it's jewelry things like the weight of the gold, the shine of the stones, the overall value of the pieces - they all define how valuable it is. Higher the value, the higher the power of the person owning, or in this case gifting it. E.g., if Monica's in-laws gift her expensive jewelry then it (somehow) equates to how much they value her as their new DIL. Also, in a way, their buying expensive jewelry for her is contributing to her financial security (Correct me if I'm wrong on this).
It's all very subtle and nuanced, but when it comes to gift-giving there's a lot of power play at work.
Absolutely! All he had to do was keep his mouth shut but every time Koyal apologized to ease things, he would get triggered and undo everything. Given his occupation as a lawyer, I thought he would at least assess things a little calmly but he flat out refused to hear what the MIL had wanted to say. He could have found a balanced solution where both parties apologized but nahi, isko toh sirf ek hi side se maafi sun ni thi. π€
Loll, when Titli got insulted that's when he completely lost it. π When he shouted, everyone knew ab yeh kissi ki nahi sune wala. π
The MIL is the one who made a tamasha out of herself. Just because her ego got hurt, she wanted to double down on Koyal and humiliate her to the nth degree. Thus far she had seen everyone be embarrassed by Koyal so she probably thought everyone would side with her and scold Koyal. Isse iski ego boost ho jaati. She definitely wasn't expecting Garv to defend her. π
One thing I will say though is that if she cared that much about her izzat, she wouldn't have gone down tto the lobby and yell what Koyal did at the top of her lungs. She would have called her husband, Manikant, Maina and Koyal to a separate room and talk things out in privately. Cuz none of the guests knew what was going on until she blasted it. So in a way, uss MIL ne khudki beizzati ki hai.
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