Thendral Friday 3rd September - Page 2

Thanks for the Update Theiva Akka!!👏 👏

I agree with both of you...Charu dad always listened to TA mom and never spoke strightly to TA...Its really not nice to behave like this...But now they are suffering...And Charu never listened to her parents blackmailed them...The same goes with TA mom...Well...Now everything happened...We cant change it...!!

I have the same Question like Hema Akka and Priya Akka...Yenn Charu-ku ethuvum thonale..Buff..Im confused...Like Priya Akka said..When she saw T&T marrying appo kooda avanga mind-le varle what TA was about to tell her...Director please answer us our Question...

Hahaha...Last scene was superb...TA is the right person for Padma...!!

Btw..One thing would be superb...Pavithra Padma panna Paayasam ethutthu kitthu vanthu saptha solli iruntha..Innum superaaa irunthirukkum..Like Sudha did with Aarathi...HAHAHA...!!

^ Charu's shattered and she needs time to control/ overcome her emotions. And then, she can sit and think about what Thamizh was trying to tell her.

Thanks for the wonderful update, Theiva.

Originally posted by: ~*Thamizhan*~

^ Charu's shattered and she needs time to control/ overcome her emotions. And then, she can sit and think about what Thamizh was trying to tell her.

Thanks for the wonderful update, Theiva.

Sri Anna...Yes ur right..Now she is in Shock actually so she needs time to think about anything...But why she doesnt sense that long back..Hmm okie..Nadanthathu Nadanthu Pochu..!😉

I wish in upcoming episodes...She will realise what Thamil wanted to tell her all the time..and I wish Thamil should meet Charu and convience her!!

Originally posted by: ~*Thamizhan*~

^ Charu's shattered and she needs time to control/ overcome her emotions. And then, she can sit and think about what Thamizh was trying to tell her.

Thanks for the wonderful update, Theiva.

Sri, you are absolutely right about Charu being shattered and that she needs some time to overcome this pain. I won't say that those things should strike her mind immediately...she is a human being and especially a very nice person and moreover she got the shock of her life.Definetly she need support and time.And me too can feel her pain and i really pity her. But atleast with the time she should realise the fact and if not i really would call her dumb.

But knowing the fact that she has seen Thamizh around five or six times only in her whole life and developping so much love for him is something that i kept asking myself. If i was in her shoes i rather would have got annoyed than to fall deeper and deeper in love with him. And when she really loved him, how it is possible that she did not understand his feelings for her. Sorry i may sound a bit too harsch but I don't know if this is possible in today's world despite Charu being a well educated girl and from a rich family with decent behaviour and everything.Moreover TA did not even talk to her properly. Ok...let it be that she is very innocent and is too good so that she does take everything in a positive way which is really admirable of her. But what i am not able to understand is how she has gone so far so that she emotionally blackmailed her own parents for a guy she has seen less than six times as i already mentioned above. Isn't this called being selfish in a way too?

BUT all these facts don't justify TA's ignorance in Charu's case. I feel he definetly should have talked to her about it even when she would have got hurt...epdi irunthaalum once she would have gone through all this pain. Like Hema, i too feel that both the sides have done their mistakes on their own way and at the end it looks like as if he only committed a crime.

Yes, definitely Charu and her dad need time to cool down and digest all this. Periappa should teach them some of his Yoga techniques so that they don't turn evil. Otherwise the good omen will disappear and filled with hate. This way they can deal with the situation rationally instead of emotionally.

Originally posted by: Nikila10

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But what i am not able to understand is how she has gone so far so that she emotionally blackmailed her own parents for a guy she has seen less than six times as i already mentioned above. Isn't this called being selfish in a way too?

I have known two people - one was a classmate of mine, but a different Major, she was engaged to someone who met with a serious accident and couldn't have children, she insisted on marrying him and had her uterus removed; another girl was engaged and then he had an accident and became blind, and she insisted on marrying him only. Both these incidents took place nearly 40 years back, they were not meeting after the engagement or talking on the phone or going to movies and holding hands, and yet there was enough love between them for those girls to insist on marrying these guys only. Some girls do take their engagement seriously, and in Charu's case, TA was cracking jokes during the girl seeing ceremony, and calling her Bangalore lollypop after that, no wonder she was misled. Who knows, at her age, if a guy had called me that, maybe I would have also felt that way. I would not call that selfish behavior for her to insist on marrying the guy who she thinks loves her because she is already in love with him.

If TA really had so much love for Tulasi he should never have succumbed to his mom's emotional pressure. At that time since Tulasi was not showing any interest in him he went for the alternate choice.Suddenly Tulasi changes her colours , so too TA. How will Charu ever suspect a man when he has agreed for engagement with her. True she should have got little suspicion when he arrived late for the engagement ceremony. But then she could have always thought he was busy with his work , given his duty conscious nature.Lastly when he met her to tell his mind she stopped him may be thinking he was going to talk about Murugesan or police case. TA Tulasi kidaithavudan drop Charu like hot potato.[ How many rotten tomatoes on my way 😉 ?

@ Srima, 😆 no rotten tomatoes from me 😃

@eljay aunty:

You are right...every boy and girl should be serious with the engagement.I don't deny that. I did not say that Charu was wrong regarding this. It is totally correct from her POV. The both incidents you told in your post impressed me alot and no doubt their love was very true like you said without any phone calls or meeting each other. But what i meant was if this is possible in today's world. According to me, phone calls or meeting each other after (or before) the engagement is quite normal nowadays and these things come from both the side,and in this way they come to know more about each other,but in Charu's case those phone calls were coming only from her side.There i meant that she should have been more suspicious, sadly she was not, but her family was.

Yes, TA called her once lolly pop and it was over the phone and it was before the engagement itself. Is this enough for her to fall for him or to be attracted to him.And when they met he did not talk like he did when she called him, most of the time he kept quiet only.Insisting to marry the guy she is engaged with is not selfish. But insisting and blackmailing are different things. What she did when her father wanted to cancel the marriage means for me insisting. She was right there, she explained very well that her father is wrong if he cancels the marriage after the engagement, but that what she told her mother when she was not satiesfied with TA, was an emotional blackmail for me.She could have explained it to her in the same way she did earlier with her father in TA's house.

No,Tamizh accepted the marriage proposal only as he was in belief that Thulasi is no more for him as she is in love with another guy(Anand).If Anand was not on his way he wouldn't have succumbed to his mom's emotional pressure.He didn't go for that choice wantedly.1)He had no reason to stop the marriage arrangements 2)Whatever,as he thought Thulasi is going to marry Anand,he has to marry someother girl in his life which can't be avoided.If he denied Charu,his mom would've shown someother girl.So he had to agree to the proposal.Devdas maari pogaama practicalaa irundaar namma hero that's it.

Yes I agree that Charu can't suspect a guy with whom she is engaged and is in love that much easily.But after seeing him marrying another girl when she is asking herself "why this happened to me?" she must've remembered his weird dialogues&behaviour and could've linked them up.Coz it's quite natural which happens to all of us that the old memories will flash related to the sad incidents.Even in Thuls case when she decided to forget she was getting his memories flashed.We actually didn't understand that's it.We weren't pointing out that as a mistake.😊

Tamizh must've told Charu.Yes it is his mistake but we can't say that he dropped her just like that without any guilty feeling.Before Thulasi proposed him he wasn't clear about Thulasi's feelings,that is whether she is showing just her gratitude or what.So he wasn't able to tell Charu but it can't be fully accepted as he could've told atleast indirectly.Then after Thulasi's proposal,he wanted to tell Charu but this nut Anand kozhapified(bayampuduthified) him by advicing to take his own time to decide as it may've worst consequences bla bla bla 😡 Inspite of this he tried one day but Lav-Niteesh stopped him and now in the park we all know very well what happened.Even when Thuls asked him to marry immediately he was asking time,he was hesitating only coz of Charu.I interpreted like this coz Tamizh knows very well how parents will react for love marriage and how to convince them after mrge as he is a love mrge conductor so he need not worry about his mom.That's y I thought it might be for Charu.

Ok if u want u can leave the last point.I am just trying to say that Tamizh didn't leave Charu's issue just like that.Ava kita solla theve illanu avan nenachadhilla.
I think now I am the one who is going to get rotten tomatoes .Anyways I just told what I felt.I am ready to accept if I am wrong really 😃.