Real Social Logic question on T & T in Thendral... - Page 4

rishi

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: sweetygrey
and ok frends come out of the serial and think wat do u feel on tamil marrying charulatha than thulasi??? as charu is a gal whom all eligible bachelors like tamil can marry... love may be primary reason but his mom has done a good job of finding a gal like charu to her son.. and a gal like thulasi is good but based on family backgrounds and all socially if u see no man will try to marry her.. wat u all say on this???

sweety i dont think so TA will be happy with charu. when she comes to know abt TA's love with the help of TA's anni and she will come to know abt her MIL's character and she will defenetly change. if any probs come between them then she will tell u all are living in my house so that will also creat a probs in there marriage life.

genral info after marriage bride shd live in her husband's own house than living with her father's gifted house

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Hema

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Suba Akka,
Really very good answer.👏

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Sweety

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: Rishi87

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sweety i dont think soTA will be happy with charu.when she comes to know abtTA's love with the help of TA'sanni and she will come to know abt her MIL's character andshe will defenetly change. if any probs come between them then she will tell u allare living in my house so that will also creat a probs in there marriage life.
genral info after marriage bride shd live in her husband's own house than living with her father's gifted house

rishi ur answer to my question is good based on tat serial..

but tat general info about marriage u gave makes me little uncomfortable as it is in sense girls must not have upperhand huh??? always they should depend on their husbands only huh?? if the brides father gives her a house and both the couple live in it is nothing wrong na... if the same case happens if any probs comes then the boy will say the girl u are staying in my home so u can get out where will the bride can go... there must be some security na for the bride?? just think about it...

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Sujatha

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Why make such a hue and cry over TA and T's age gap? She almost married that Vel who is fit enough to be her dad...now what have you got to say abt that???😍

TA & T make such a nice pair even better than Charu, who is too big sized for our Tamizh. There is only an age gap of 5-6 yrs between TA & T and that is not a big deal.😉

A woman matures faster than a man of her own age group...both physically and mentally. And after marriage alot of changes takes place in her. With the birth of her children she wud look much older if the couple are of the same age. ...thats when a man will start looking for greener pastures as years go by..!! 😊

Therefore, its always better for the woman to be at least good 5yrs younger than her spouse, even a little more is no harm....ladies its for your own good..!!🤣 🤣🤣

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Sweety

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Posted: 14 years ago

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oh ya ya u may be correct but 5 years is too long na??? ha ha

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Sujatha

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: sweetygrey
oh ya ya u may be correct but 5 years is too long na??? ha ha

Experience da.... when age catches up with you...slowly fear will start settling in too. Ippo sonna you will not agree....😆😆😆😆😆....meet me 15yrs down the road if you spouse is same age with you...ok vaa??😉......Sue chechi will be here still...!!👏👏👏

That doesn't mean I agree with Thulasi and that old Vel's marriage.😡 He is toooooooooo old and can't even focus properly ...but Thuls &Tamizh make such a winning combination....enna jodi porutham..!!..

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Sweety

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Posted: 14 years ago

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.enna jodi porutham..!!..

ha ha ha.. ya ya wat u said on them is exact dear..

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Sweety

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Posted: 14 years ago

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wat do u all feel about tamil thinks about thulasi when he is in the high problem facing time also??? he never cares for himself..

he is not selfish but still his mind is fully concentrated on thuls... is it bad or good???

and tat thulsi never cares for tamil when he is in problem but she is the one who openly talked on having love with him.. so wat is ur opinion frends???

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Ranuja

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: SweetyGreen
wat do u all feel about tamil thinks about thulasi when he is in the high problem facing time also??? he never cares for himself..

he is not selfish but still his mind is fully concentrated on thuls... is it bad or good???

and tat thulsi never cares for tamil when he is in problem but she is the one who openly talked on having love with him.. so wat is ur opinion frends???

it is bad in a sense that no other important work is getting done BUT he always doing things based on emotions not practical. With Thuls separated emotions on a dangerous high, is it really wonder he's gone completely crazy? 😆

and Thuls always cares about Thamizh but she's good at being practical over being emotional driven so she's not an emotional wreck like Thamizh. She can't show any emotion toward Thamizh because it will eventually turn to love again and she can't have that happening.

So no love means no worrying about, no being sensitive to his feelings or caring about situation with police/bank. She said so herself that she is too weak to ever actually face Thamizh and have a proper conversation without breaking down. She has never fought for anything for herself b/c she thinks it's not worth hurting other people for it.

Plus Thuls is very used to be UNhappy so she's very capable of handing the pain.

All the things Thamizh did for other people never required him to go against what his heart said and he doesn't think it's wrong of him to love Thuls so that's why his recent behaviour doesn't strike as wrong to him.

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Sweety

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: ranuja12

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it is bad in a sense that no other important work is getting done BUT he always doing things based on emotions not practical. With Thuls separated emotions on a dangerous high, is it really wonder he's gone completely crazy? 😆

and Thuls always cares about Thamizh but she's good at being practical over being emotional driven so she's not an emotional wreck like Thamizh.She can't show any emotion toward Thamizh because it will eventually turn to love again and she can't have that happening.

So no love means no worrying about, no being sensitive to his feelings or caring aboutsituation with police/bank. She said so herself that she is too weak to ever actually face Thamizh and have a proper conversation without breaking down. She has never foughtfor anything for herself b/c she thinks it's not worth hurting other people for it.

Plus Thuls is very used to be UNhappy so she's very capable of handing the pain.

All the things Thamizh did for other people never required him to goagainst what his heart saidand he doesn'tthink it's wrong of him to love Thuls sothat's why his recentbehaviour doesn't strike as wrong to him.

good answer dear.. and frends do post in ur sizzling replies..

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