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No black...no white...all grey..thats the truth for you in todays world!! There are no truths..no lies...only half truths or half lies...whichever way you look at them. No right...no wrong...just an in between zone of grey with blurred boundaries.
Honestly there is no truth...just different individual versions of it. Different viewpoints. From one persons vantage point what is fair can be totally unfair from anothers perspective.
What is right for one is totally wrong for the other...lets take Pihus and Raj's example. After seven years of a relationship..and tons of ups and downs..conflicts and disappointments...boredom can be natural...love being killed by the routine mediocrity is also a part of harsh reality...ask a couple being married for seven years...life is anything but a romantic honeymoon...can we really blame the practical and pragmatic Pihu?? Is she really cheating Raj? She is making a compromise..a realistic compromise...her relationship might not be the same..she is ready to make it work..instead of leaving Raj. From her thought processes she is right ..she is compromising but not leaving Raj...and if Raj does not understand her worldly approach... he is wrong. The other side of the story..for Raj this can be construed as a brutal betrayal. He really loves her and expects and deserves the same from her. He deserves unadultered love not a lifetime of tepid compromise. This is devastatingly wrong. The biggest betrayal. Looking at the status from his angle..he is right and Pihu is definitely on the wrong side.
Kachcha and Saumya are in the twilight zone too. Yes..they were a couple...Saumya fell out of love...(whether she was ever in love is a different story)...she is being tortured...suffocated...we can feel her unrest...she has a right to honestly put an end to a burdensome equation...she is white...and Kachcha not ready to let go of her.. is black. But is he? If we look at the situation from Kachcha's eyes..he loved her ..truly...intensely..passionately...he always compromised...always took a back seat...tried to be accommodating...only to be discarded casually...only to be left out in the cold...he is white...saumya is black...again really??
Friends ...when they peek and act in friends lives...can be called caring...protective..vigilant..some might call Raj lucky to have such friends...others might call such friendships intrusive...interfering...breaking boundaries of privacy...and not appreciate such concern...some pitying Raj for being steamrolled by such buddies...black? white?...conveniently grey!!
The more we look around us carefully...the more we will realize...the boundaries between white and black are all smudged...the colors are bleeding into each other...merging...leaving just grey behind.
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