Abhinav Sharma is a decent guy - Page 2

Originally posted by: lippi

Abhinav has grown up under strict dicipline as his mother is a headteacher.

He is successful in life which has made his personality dominating.

He doesn't like being told anything.

And if you notice, whenever he is wrong. He won't accept it! Infact he would give intelligent justifications to prove himself right.

He likes to be in control.

Frankly speaking, Ratan is just like Abhinav. So it will be hard for them to get along without compromising.

Ratan needs a guy who can handle her tantrums, who can be controlled by her, who can be dominated, who would not speak in front of her, who would forget his life and only concentrate on Ratan.

For that matter, Abhinav is the wrong guy!

Originally posted by: NZkiwi

What is wrong with being brought up under discipline?What is wrong with being successful?What is wrong with being in control ? What is wrong with giving your point of view when being accused of being wrong?

A husband is not a puppet .. he would have his own personality ,likes and dislikes ,thoughts.

We have issues with our friends as well.Most important part of a marriage is to be friends with your spouse.

Finally when everyone is saying all grooms are losers then how come the very qualities which make a man successful are being looked down upon

there is nothing wrong in being sucessful, being brought up in dicplin or giving your point of view,,,,but dominating other is WRONG...appna decision kisi aur ke upar thopna iz wrong...trying 2 prove that you are the onli right person in d world iz wrong...he triez 2 prove wtever he say iz SATYA VACHAN...d real world doesnt wrk like dis...he has d right 2 express his opinion but trying 2 prove that other r wrong is not right...

he should be thankful for evrything that he has got not be arrogant abt having a job in adobe system or earnning 70,000 per month

Originally posted by: harpkaur

there is nothing wrong in being sucessful, being brought up in dicplin or giving your point of view,,,,but dominating other is WRONG...appna decision kisi aur ke upar thopna iz wrong...trying 2 prove that you are the onli right person in d world iz wrong...he triez 2 prove wtever he say iz SATYA VACHAN...d real world doesnt wrk like dis...he has d right 2 express his opinion but trying 2 prove that other r wrong is not right...

he should be thankful for evrything that he has got not be arrogant abt having a job in adobe system or earnning 70,000 per month

Exactly, it's irritating and just darn obnoxious of him to undermine everyone and their opinions.

I mean who died and made him supreme judge 🤢

You can present your argument and say your piece but he just comes across as condescending🤢 I dun think he is a bad joker per say but his attitude is a real pain to watch and listen 😵

Edited by fuzzyface - 13 years ago

Not everyone is bashing abhinav I for one think him n deepak r the only 2 that are genuinely decent

Abhinavs EGO may create problems.If he is well educated brought up in a strict discipline doesnt mean that he is a good guy.IF ONE IS WELL EDUCATED AND HAVE A GOOD JOB DOES NOT MEAN THAT HIS THOUGHTS ARE GOOD.I have seen many people who are well educated have a good job but THEY CAN NOT AGREE TO THEIR PARTNERS VIEWS.YOUR PARTNER MAY ALSO HAVE THEIR OWN VIEW YOU SHOULD RESPECT THAT I think abhinav lacks that.He wants His Views to be heard -ALWAYS.In a marriage that wont work You Should RESPECT your wifes views also.

Originally posted by: madmallu

Abhinavs EGO may create problems.If he is well educated brought up in a strict discipline doesnt mean that he is a good guy.IF ONE IS WELL EDUCATED AND HAVE A GOOD JOB DOES NOT MEAN THAT HIS THOUGHTS ARE GOOD.I have seen many people who are well educated have a good job but THEY CAN NOT AGREE TO THEIR PARTNERS VIEWS.YOUR PARTNER MAY ALSO HAVE THEIR OWN VIEW YOU SHOULD RESPECT THAT I think abhinav lacks that.He wants His Views to be heard -ALWAYS.In a marriage that wont work You Should RESPECT your wifes views also.

i think they are perfect for each other but i have a feeling that he has some thing to hide ,i mean she like him and they seem to have a chemisty and all but he looks like his got a secret .

Originally posted by: lippi

Abhinav has grown up under strict dicipline as his mother is a headteacher.

He is successful in life which has made his personality dominating.

He doesn't like being told anything.

And if you notice, whenever he is wrong. He won't accept it! Infact he would give intelligent justifications to prove himself right.

He likes to be in control.

Frankly speaking, Ratan is just like Abhinav. So it will be hard for them to get along without compromising.

Ratan needs a guy who can handle her tantrums, who can be controlled by her, who can be dominated, who would not speak in front of her, who would forget his life and only concentrate on Ratan.

For that matter, Abhinav is the wrong guy!

Oh you read my mind! Upon rethinking about Abhinav, he is indeed not a bad person and can be a very good husband. But this is not what matters in a couple. What matters is compatibility. Indeed Ratan and Abhinav both have a dominating and controlling nature. In a couple, it is always one that compromises the most and steps down. With Ratan and Abhinav, both are adamant.

Tough match.

DEEPAK

Abhinav is not right person

I JUST dont get...😕.she has spent lot of time with them...and now in the episode just before the mehendi and sangeet, she says she has understanding problem with Abhinav, 🤔doesn't see much stabilty in future in deepak, and can't leave mumbai and adjust with Anupam in Poland..😕