its almost clear whom ratan wil chose... - Page 2

Originally posted by: taral83

Lets do pro and con...

Deepak: Con: Doesn't earn, Still needs a career path, had some questions or opposition on Ratan working over her limit. Location might be a issue.
Pro: Good family, seems like their is a little bit of every type of personality. Great parents. Very supportive atmo.

Abhinav: Con: Controlling, orthodox views to some extent, momma's boy, egoistic, also might have a problem with Ratan working long ours. Too many rules and regulations. Not a impressive or supportive family.
Pro: Abhinav makes money...hm...and is more mature then Ratan in some sense.

Anupum: I don't have any pro or con to write about him...he let all my hopes go down the drain, if he wanted a "villiage" type lifestyle, then why not be up front about it in first place...why try to change a city girl into that, especially someone that comes from all the glitz and glamor, its impossible for her to do that all her life...even if she tried...and he doesn't seem to compromise when it comes to his town and parents.

Abhimanyu...errr gunda...showed his colors at the end...didn't like him to begin with ...

Originally posted by: harpkaur

agree with you yaar...deepak will find a job..job aati jaati hai...bt u wont find a nyce family like the panditz...ye jammu iz far..itz nt liek ratan will go 2 her family evry weekend...ye at d end of d month or may b 2-3 monthz...

abhinavz money can go 2 hell...she has 2 spend the life with d family..d family hve problem with her height 2 begin with...itz nt her fault if shez short...hiz brothr tlked about something in kitchen at higher place...yar how can u be sure that your generation will be taller...itz tottaly discrimination...

abhimanyu..nvr liked him from d 1st day...gunda

anupam= no commentz

anupam talked about being with his family...ummm he said it himself dat he alwayz lived away from family..in school, college & den poland...

parentz are okay with their children being in a different country...dey say oh dey r making a living

& dey r not okay with children working in a differnt city for example mumbai...

dey r also making a living there...whatz d big deal about living somewhere else

What got me the most is when Anu said that he won't leave his parents in old age and I want Ratan to follow the rules of the village women. Which is respectful by all means, a son should always give back when his parents get old and take care of them. But his father doesn't seem to be the type to compromise with anything, thus that would mean Anu would have to come live with them in their village, which Ratan will not be able to handle with all its rules and regulation. As she said, she would be able to do it for a few days, but if someone asked her to change it for life, no way. And I don't blame her. I respect that custom, gughat, women have no voice, but I don't agree with it. I would never be able to do that. If Anu had no intention of changing his customs then y come to marry such a girl like her. That just proves that he was their for the limelight. I was disgusted. Not because of how they live, but to do this to a person, its almost like cheating. That is another lesson for all parents out there looking for grooms, make sure the place they want their daughter to marry is a place she can also adjust to. Everyone has to compromise someone where, especially girls, but to change someones identity in totality is wrong. Ratan says that her identity is made by her show, but that is not true, everyone has a identity, a personality that we have to stay true to. Its not all egoism either, changing a bit for the happiness of others is one thing and losing your identity is another. And with Anu, that is what him and his dad seem to want.

As you can see I am so pissed...

haan yaar even i m pissed off...when anupam knowz hiz parentz & dere custumz..why would u even go for such a girl whoz from d industry & derz no way any1 can change

Deepak is the best choice.. BUT😕
As far as it looks, Ratan likes Abhinav the most

MEE too agree deepak is apt ...and his family is so cool

Deepak...but like many of you pointed out, he is not earning yet...and he is quiet young too...personally I don't like Abhinav a lot, my vote would definitely be Deepak 😊

Anupam was a total letdown...Did he really expect a modern girl/celeb like Ratan to adjust with ghunghat...Even in the show, if she was simply dressed like Laali...in the Swayamwar she wore a blend of outfits definitely giving Anupam an idea of the reality...He could have bailed out like the Professor, but this was just simply ridiculous...

I don't think anyone wants to get married in this show. Anupam's revelation isn't something kept uderwraps, it's part of the plan just like that tapori Abhimanyu's confession abt his peeelins for his ex. Both Ratan and the jokers are just putting up a show. Who is going to believe that an NRI's family actually lives like that or says those kind of things. It's all scripted just for the sake of drama.

i agree it wil b deepak...becos his family was cool abt evrything while the others werent as cool...n she doesnt seem the type tht wil wna compromise a lot so she wil defo go with deepak...

Originally posted by: fuzzyface

I don't think anyone wants to get married in this show. Anupam's revelation isn't something kept uderwraps, it's part of the plan just like that tapori Abhimanyu's confession abt his peeelins for his ex. Both Ratan and the jokers are just putting up a show. Who is going to believe that an NRI's family actually lives like that or says those kind of things. It's all scripted just for the sake of drama.

Having said that god forbid Ratan chooses Abhinav. I think Deepak is the lesser of the evil and Ratan can control him. Now that he is so called famous, Deepak can find a job just like that. So Ratan n Deepak can go on with the charade, then if they really like each other get married if not go their separate ways. Win win for everyone 😆

But if the makers make her choose Abhinav, they could create more drama like 'All is not well in paradise' or 'Ratan forced to break ties with controlling Abhinav'. So which would make better headline and make Ratan look like a victi, thus making everyone feel sorry for Bitiya 🤔

pls contact NDTV Imagine tv asap,they need you for script writing 😆😆😆