Mum-in-laws? Will she even have one? - Page 3

#1.. i agree... Ratan doesnt fit in a typical middle class bahu category.. mainly

Originally posted by: punibud

no offense but, she is just one serial old. she is not a queen of tv or something.
when big actresses like madhuri, sridevi and many more left their career to settle down why can't she?( if she really took settling down seriously)
after all, this is not any other typical job.

I am not saying she should quit but, she should not be so adamant in her answers which shows her rudeness. She could have explained that this is something she wants to continue and will consider making changes according to the situation. when one of the mother said she expects her son and DIL should come back home by 9 her immediate answer was "but i have to go at 9 sometimes" which in my opinion was upright rude. she could be frank but, in a little sensitive way.

And again thats just my point of view

Originally posted by: Fanna_girl

So this Mum-in-law episode was quite interesting and made me think. I guess we can conclude the following:

1. Baring a mum-in-law or 2, most of the mum-in-laws want a conservative bahu and want her to quit her job which definitely makes sense to them. Why the Swayamvar then? Ratan can easily find a husband in the acting industry or even Mumbai to suit her needs. I bet she won't leave her job to get married. This whole Swayamvar looks like a farce now - it looks like this was only done for money and that she will finally not marry any of them.

2. Are the guys REALLY interested to marry her? Apart from maybe Abhinav, none of them look that keen (especially Anupam). So much that I have started to wonder if some guys are not using their mums to scare Ratan away :D Just like Pradeep's mum. Not going out after 9pm? Come on! She said many other extreme things, which Pradeep fully supported. Was this a ploy so that Ratan doesn't marry him?

Exactly my 2 cents.They all came here coz they knew her as Laali else Ratan has no achievements to her credit.And they looked like they were ready to pounce on her and free their sons from her-whisk them away so they laid such conditions.Compare with rakhi's swayamvar where she was also asked the same questions -didnnt they know how working hours are erratic in film world?????so the whole thing is that------Swayamwar is fake-maybe Ratan really wants someone but everyone else is enjoying their 2 minutes of fame.Wake up imagine-we already know your dirty tricks!!!!

Originally posted by: india2050

Exactly my 2 cents.They all came here coz they knew her as Laali else Ratan has no achievements to her credit.And they looked like they were ready to pounce on her and free their sons from her-whisk them away so they laid such conditions.Compare with rakhi's swayamvar where she was also asked the same questions -didnnt they know how working hours are erratic in film world?????so the whole thing is that------Swayamwar is fake-maybe Ratan really wants someone but everyone else is enjoying their 2 minutes of fame.Wake up imagine-we already know your dirty tricks!!!!

who got eliminated today???...I just want them to be over with this

Pardeep got eliminated today

I guess MILs expected to see that Ratan on the show which they saw on TV in serial Mohe... 😆 A perfect agyakari bahu 😛

Originally posted by: punibud

no offense but, she is just one serial old. she is not a queen of tv or something.
when big actresses like madhuri, sridevi and many more left their career to settle down why can't she?( if she really took settling down seriously)
after all, this is not any other typical job.

I am not saying she should quit but, she should not be so adamant in her answers which shows her rudeness. She could have explained that this is something she wants to continue and will consider making changes according to the situation. when one of the mother said she expects her son and DIL should come back home by 9 her immediate answer was "but i have to go at 9 sometimes" which in my opinion was upright rude. she could be frank but, in a little sensitive way.

And again thats just my point of view

Thanks for the replies peeps!

My new conclusions from today's episode:

1. Ratan seems to have fallen for Abhinav and he is currently her 1st choice of dulha, followed by Anupam due to the sweet date + he said he loved her. Abhinav is indeed very suitable for marriage in terms of he's settled and all + he has a very versatile personality + multi-talented. Except for his arrogance (so true, everyone can see that). But Ratan seems to manage fine with that, well and good!

2. BUT, is Anupam really THAT keen to marry her? In the Rapid Fire round he said, her negative point was that she believes people too easily. Remember the episode when everyone was critisising Anupam because they were jealous of him and Ratan started to interrogate and doubt him? Since then, it really pissed him off and he said he'd rather leave now than wait till Top 5 or whatever if she cannot trust him. He said what's the use of a relationship when he has to justify for every lil thing. Oh man, he's so right! I actually find him quite nice.

3. Either the face reader was really good or Ratan strongly believes him or even both. I believe her decisions were quite based on that.

4. Hiten as Swayamvar's host is plain boring! Ram Kapoor had to be back to host this interesting segment. Ram does this very well!

If Anupam, or anybody else wants to leave, they can just leave, can't they? Why do they have to wait, and provoke Ratan into eliminating them? I agree w/ Anupam, and had I been in his place, I'd have walked in that episode when she ganged up w/ everybody against him. In the other thread 'Elimination', I did hope that Anupam takes her to Poland and keeps her there, so that we are rid of her. 😈