MOTW of this week - Page 2

oh congratulations reshma!

i dont really know abt this questioning business but since im a die hard romantic, i would like to get an insight into ur romantic life

The 5 things that u want ur guy to have?
The 5 things that tick u off in men?
DO U BELIEVE in an ostentatious wedding Or its just abt who u are marrying?

hey thanx sedna.....and hitenkideewani.....havent seen u on the forum here....ur new....? welcome here....and thanx for the huge compliment..... 😊

hi resh.
so hre goes my fst list.get ready 2 answer dem
1)who do u find d best btwn(not in terms of looks,but character).
boxer,ajay or shotgun?
2)if ekta kapoor approaches u askin u 2 do d lead role (ur debut)in her saas-bahu soaps offerin u d role of sum1 like tulsi virani(b4 d no. of year leaps dey hv takn),but wid quite a handsome amt. of money 2 vl u take it?
3)givn a chance 2 act in bollywood,vich director wud u like 2 work wid.
4)who r u d most close 2 in dis world.

vl post in more qns soon.dis wre d only ones i cud think of til now.

and hinaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa................... (whimsical soul)
sweetheart.....its so good to see u bak here baby.......how have u been....so busy u dont have time for us.....? hehehe....jus kiddin....i kno u had ur exams......glad to c u bak.......have fun here....
thanx for ur questions....ur the first one to ask me.....i'll answer them....

1. 5 things i'd look for in a guy....
we....i look for a million things....this is such a tough question....but i have tried to narrow down five things.....
(i) intelligence....i think brains in a man make him sexy......and he needs the maturity to handle it too....
(ii)ultimate patience and understanding.....which requires him to be a gr8 friend....he should know me inside out...and coz im very emotional and over-sensitive...he should be so too to understand me.....but a tough man....
(iii)strong sense of justice and knowin what is right from wrong....and followin his heart....for that....noe needs courage to conviction....(like aryan)
(iv) he has to be hopelessly romantic.....should love me like crazy.....but he shud be that way only to me....and in private....as i wudnt like to go mushy with public display of affection....but he should be that way whether im at my messiest or best....or oldest or young....
(v) sense of humour....he should make me laugh at anytime and should be able to do it by strikin an intelligent conversation....there should be no time when i get bored with him....

this above all....what i look for most in any person is transperancy......some ppl....u can actually see thru them....i hve met only one such person in this world....and she's my best friend....i still have to find that trait in a guy......and its nearly impossible....but thats whats most important.....and he should be a MAN!!!


2. five things that turn me off in a man....
(i)liar......i hate liars....not relly hate....but i can tolerate anything from the ppl i love, but not a lie....so the guy should be honest...
(ii) body odour......it puts me off completely.....no explanations and excuses....a man has to smell good!
(iii) ppl who think that in a relnship......a erson shud hae no othr life....i.e....those who do not give space to their partners....and get relly possesive.....if my man dint give me enough space to live my life....i'd walk out rite away!
(iv) chauvinism.......i like guys who can treat women equally....and male ego is something that not only puts me off......but heats me up with anger!!! 😡
(v) perverts.......men....in general....are perverts....and i cant stand it....im not conservative....i think makin love is a beautiful thing...but i cant stand men who have only one thing on their mind....! flirtin also turns me off....a man has to win me with his attitude and dedication and not pick-up lines!

3.ur third question hina.....
i dot think of a weddin as ostentatious......its more about the person i'm marryin....
i know ur a friends fan....so to quote monica in friens....she once told chandler...."i want a marriage....the weddin doesnt matter...."
thats how it is with me too....
though im a hindu by birth...i dont like the hindu wasy of marriage for me....i adore the christian style of wedding,.....and would have that for myself....with close frnz and family only.....and of course....al of u too..... 😆
i am a complete atheist....so i wouldnt marry in church.....but some othr place....maybe a meadow....and would have a frnd marryin us....
i love the concept of a white gown and veil.....walkin down the aisle towards a new life....holdin his hands and vowin to be there for each othr...(i'd like us to write our own vows)....and finally sealin the holy matrimony with a kiss....sigh! 😳 ....its all so beautiful.....! so i dont think its about show off.and a grand party......

p.s......i relly hope u visit bak and read the answers hina.....and also wish u cudve come to india this yr.....😊

hey prav.....thanx so much for the questions........
well...here u go...
1. character wise....i would prefer boxer.....coz ajay is a philanderin and chauvinistic character(like shaina called him...) and i think what he did to neha was relly wrong...... shotgun is a bit snobbish....so not him.... boxer is a very down to earth human bein who is honest and has been thru sufferin....which makes him considerate towards the underdog...and something about him tells me....he would have a very personal approach....and a soft person with a tough manly attitude too....so boxer it is!

2. NO....i would never act in any ekta kapoor crap....not even if she offered me crores........ like kuljeet said once...."come off it yaar....its just not happenin!"...its not something i canrelate to..... but yes....if bhanu was actin in the serial( bnot possible though) i would agree to be his lead female co-star!!!

its pretty late so i'll answer ur two othr questions tomorrow.....goodnight! 😊

First of all Congrats Yaar.
My question 4 u is:
1) Wat basically u think u r-Pratical or a Dreamer.
2) Wat according 2 u is more imp-Being practical or Dreaming.

heres the answer to ur next two questions praveena.....
3.i don think i'd ever like to act in bollywood.....but since u have asked me the question...i think it would be some director like karan johar and yash chopra....i love the goody goody love stories they make with happy endings......in fact.....ddlj is my all time favourite movie....tho it was made by aditya chopra......

4.....this is a relly tough one......u kno im very emotional....and i get too attached to ppl too fast....and once i get to kno someone....i cannot cut contact for life! i need to kno constantly about how they are and what they are doin....so to list just one person i am close to in this world is not possible.....
my friends...from school, college, and this forum....my family, my school and teachers there....all mean a lot to me......
i could narrow it down to two ppl actually.....one bein my best friend....a very vunerable girl...who comes out to be extremely vulnerable and strong....i care for her more than anything in this world...and she means too much to me.....i love her too much to let her change....and would continue to evn if she turned terrible or killed me....!i cannot put our relationship in words.....neither can i explain my relationship with a teacher in school....who is a goddes on earth.....she's the most selfless and lovin soul alive.....she says to me that we are reflections of each othr....thoguh i can never rech her level....its true in a way.....she and i are both too sensitive and emotional...and we understand each othr.......i do not believe in god....but for me...she is god....and gives me the strength to go on..... 😊

hey thanx sanya......
here's ur answer......
im a BIG BIG BIG time dreamer.....thats my favourite hobby....i love livin in the dreamworld.....my life is full of unfulfilled fantasies....how els do u think i write the aryan-shaina fanfic.....
i am not at all practical and take things to the heart too easily....im extremely emotional and very sensitive too.....also too sentimental......i need ppl to love and understand me....and relationships are too important...
i dont know how to answr ur second question.....for me...as i said im a dreamer....and i think mine is a world that only dreamers can understand......of course...u need to be practical at certain times....but its not necessary to be so all the time....if u cant dream,then u miss out on the most beautiful things in life! 😊

congrats reshma again...


1) you're a Aryan-Shaina fan...in real life bhanu-kuljeeet loved each other..but had soem misunderstanding and rows off and on which did hurt the already fragile kuljeet who did choose life over death thiking relationship with bhanu is over or in rocks..where as it wasnt exactly so.

if you were to play cupid between them and make them patch up and clear the misundertstanding so that they
live for each otehr and fulfill each other's dream and be happy without any tragedy following - how would you do it?

2) Any five men on tv or films or media( english, hindi any) except bhanu that u've found facinating...

3) describe these folowing members according to u, ur tips to them will be -

shadowcat
pravenam
sedna
maverickaryan
aryandipikafan

thast it for the time being...will ask u more..