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@aditi I always tell people that I dont ask people to do things which I myself have not done. Because only if you have overcome an obstacle you can show direction. You failed doesnt mean someone else wont succeed. So I dont make people afraid, even if I have failed somewhere. But yes caution needs to be there when you go uncharted path.
My funda is simple, though these people can upset me they cannot make react to the way they want. I always find ways to act. 😆 . I also know whatever you do these people wont change their judgement, so you cannot please them. In teenage and all I had tried. But then they will look for black spot, if they dont get they will tell why the black spot is not there as anything outside template is unacceptable.
You should never make someone else write your destiny. It has to be written by you and you have the power inside, if you ask the right questions, the right direction will come. You only need some patience.
When we react we are allowing these judgemental people to write our destiny. Their judgement are their problem not ours.
Another thing I have learned from experience is that the ability to stand for oneself, the ability to fight is inherent, it cannot be taught. Only thing that can be taught is how to use it. Direction is all you can give. If you take the great villians and great heroes their traits will be common. Only difference is how they used it.
One will throw it to get the numbers he or she wants, other decide when to throw the dice, number doesnt matter. One understands power of time, other understand time. And Victory is always for time.
What we need to learn is when to throw the dice than decide the number we want if we want to move towards God.
When I had started mentoring I will spend my effort on all students equally. But now I choose, I choose 2 or 3 people in whom I find the inherent quality. Because you can only polish a diamond, a charcoal cannot emit light whatever you do with it.
Coming to life experiences I dont put it as dard bari kahani, whatever dard it was there in it. Because I dont consider myself a victim. There were situations and I managed to come through those situations with minimal issues.
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