From👇👇👇 Our Anahi❤️🤗(PW) Dear👍🏼🤗 posting From Her Made "IshaaLi Spl Thread"❤️
whenever i think about ishaali , the very first thing that comes to my mind is their engagement dance and that song in background
"Tu ishq ishq sa mere, rooh mein aake bas ja
Jis orr teri shehnayi , uss orr main bhagun re"
and this brings a blush and a smile to my face. 
the eyelocks !! 
that day i was hell emotional and my throat was choked.. my eyes were like mishti's eyes, sparkling bright in happiness and heart was overwhelmed with emotions just like dida and radhika's hearts were..
that time it seemed all rosy to me. had no idea that their journey would undergo so many ups and downs.
phewww!! it isnt an easy one , isnt a short one but i know , one day i am gonna say "see how time flies by " !!
ishaali has given me so many memories! and have warmed my heart to some another level..
i just love them.!
my feelings for ishaali are deep.. its an emotional attachment to them and mainly to mauli..
i relate to mauli at so many levels, like so many levels.. it feels as if she represents me but she has got an ishaan and i really havent found any ishaan even after meetings zillions of guys in my life.. haha!! finding an ishaan isnt easy.. trust me its not easy.!! she is blessed to have him in her life..
ishaan -- a selfless lover, a doting father, a courageous person, an understanding life partner and there are so many qualities in this guy!
ishaan makes her happy, makes her heart light, sometimes acts as a bridge between mauli and mishti , doesnt let her feel embarrassed or sorry about giving priority to her professional commitments. jokes about his own education and profession so that she smiles and doesnt feel guilty of not giving time to him or mishti..
he never takes her for granted.. he listens to her , agrees to her every decision and stands by her not to give her support but to be with her in her battles..
he lets her take the charge if she wants to.. he loves to be submissive to her which i think is really cute and great at the same time . a rare quality in men.!!
he is courageous as it takes a lot to accept a divorcee in our society. yes, acceptance is the word for a divorcee in our society.!! but if we see ishaan and mauli's story then it was never ishaan accepting mauli but mauli accepting ishaan.. and this is the thing which makes me respect ishaan.. he lets mauli choose him , he expresses that if SHE is with him then TOGETHER they can fight any battle..
he knows her really well, trusts her, knows what can she do and what she can not.. what kind of person is she , he knows her!
mauli says "thanx! mujhe samjhne ke lie, meri takkat banane ke lie, tum kabhi mera saath nhi chodte! "
he says "main tumhare saath tha, hun aur hamesha rahuga"
how true! he never gives up, he had to wait for a long time but he chose to wait for her YES..
she had to gave up on their relationship but he didnt give up as he knew that she also wants to be with him..
basically , he is fulfilling all his promises given to mishti and mauli's family that he will never leave mauli and mishti !!
not only a selfless lover but he is also a selfless father too.. his love for mishti is something...
his words for mishti in the engagement were pure gold .
"main aapke sapno ko aasman dena chahta hu"
my ishti are love
mauli -- a loving, caring , warm person! a single mother, an independent woman, a doctor who always give priority to her work and i am super proud of this thing about her!
mauli is someone who not only gives immense love to others but she loves to get loved , just like any other woman. but what makes her not express her love/liking for ishaan? does she love him?? or she doesnt?
if she does then why doesnt she tell him??
hmmm, mauli's idea of love is/was "love happens once", not her fault bcz when u are yet not over ur past u keep thinking like that.. i used to think like that.. although till now i didnt get a second chance in love but the idea "love happen once" is fading away with time, which is a relief, trust me.. its a relief ! i feel free !!
mauli is/was stuck, i still don't know if she is ready to move on or not.. but m sure one day she will realise that she was so wrong to think like that.. i want her to feel free.. get rid of this wall that she has created around her heart.. i want her to fly really high and tell herself that she can love again !!
she always liked ishaan but could never take a step forward bcz she never had known how her marriage, her love failed?? the relationship which was a happy romantic relationship.. how can she be sure of her second chance?? mauli is bound to think all this bcz she was never at fault nor she understood how could her husband ditch her?? like how? it seems impossible to her as her ex wasnt a bad person.. its unbelievable for her!
so she cant be sure of her second chance bcz of her past experience.. if that can fail then this can also fail !! but but but!! she needs to see the differences between her past and her present..
she needs to embrace her happiness with open arms and without any doubts..
she is working on it !! yes she is.. she takes a step, but is dragged again to her past!
sometimes she is weak, sometimes she is an emotional fool , sometimes she is lured into some good memories of past, she is a human being , a flawed person but she always rises by the end after battling with her emotions!
she has morals and values , and she never compromised with those till date..
she is my hope for ishaali !!
and ishaan is my hope for her..!!
He is disinhibited in letting his true feelings come out, things he would never say or cover up behind his silence or a small smile, were out in the open for us and also for Mauli to hear. Till now, it was all his action, be it silently sharing her responsibilities, or standing like a rock behind her as she wavers between wanting to help Pari, Dida, Radhika and Sandhya's highhandedness. FYI, let me tell you guys, I feel like nobody on this God's green planet would have been able to make her do this, if she was not willing to. I can also tell you that she would have felt like crap or even resentful of her happiness of going through her wedding rituals while Mumma, dida and Pari are going through difficult times and she was unable to help within her means. So I feel that the only thing Ishaan did is that he put himself in her shoes and HELPED her make that decision. He didn't think about himself at that time, as HE COULDN'T SEE HER PAIN, he trusted her with all his heart not to be fickle but completely trivialized his pain or discomfort in that moment. By doing this, he also saved us
from the hurt, astonished expressions of Mauli which I absolutely detested as she was going through her pre-wedding rituals. Anyway... not to digress from my train of thought
about his actions... He silently endures all of his hurt as he sees her going through her insecurities, even goes to the extremes of trying to allay any guilt she or Mishti might feel towards him. He gives her the independence of just being herself, whether she is living through her unresolved feelings, her insecurities or her guilt and lets her know that he is there for her
What more do you ask from your partner than that support of having your back, no matter what
The poor guy doesn't deserve any taqleef whatsoever for somebody with a golden heart
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