Originally posted by: MagadhSundari
And then as I promised/threatened... my dissertation on Tu Dheeraj. I've probably said all of this in bits and pieces before but bear with me :D
First of all, and this part is new because it dawned on me not too long ago--this is a VERY hopeful song for a sad moment. Obvious, I know, but if you think about it, it could've been another Vidhna tere lekh/Vidhna tere khel niraale type tragic song that describes the circumstances they're in or the emotions they must've experienced in the montage that we just witnessed. But the song isn't retrospective in that way, it's really about the aftermath and the mind/soul struggling to stay afloat in those circumstances, which makes it so much more instructive than a typical sad song would have been. It's teaching us to at least *Try* and pray for divine help in those circumstances and trust that we'll get it, as VD did, instead of only dwelling on grief and reliving it. The song is a perfect match for what RSji and Ravindra Jain were trying to convey about the characters, the exact thing that makes them such perfect role models--the fact that they undoubtedly felt pain, but still their faith persisted.
And the "feeling pain" part--the way that's depicted in the visuals of the song is also hauntingly beautiful. It's not a depiction of one day or one time period but the phases their grief must've gone through every single time they underwent such untold tragedy. Numbness, pain, flashbacks, praying for help. Sometimes she looks like she's struggling to hold on to her faith, sometimes he looks like he is. It also seems clear from the first minute and the last minute of the song that he waits until she's sleeping to let himself grieve because the last thing he wants is for her to hurt any more... but we get that little glimpse of her sitting upright when he comes back and oustretching her arms so he can hold them... it seems like she's seen his tears and wants to turn the tables this time and comfort him, give him the strength he always gives her 😠And thus, in tandem, each one pulls the other up as needed to get them through this incredible journey of tragedy and trauma that must've seemed like an endless loop at the time, without ever losing their faith in God and goodness and the fact that it was all for a reason.
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