Actually Balram was never pro Pandavas. Yes in Udyog Parva he did support their cause, but that seems more because he was sitting in their allies group and couldn't have said something completely reverse of the public sentiment there. Yet he too was in the anti war group (so were Yudhishtir n Nakul. Bheem/Arjun were mostly like whatever you decide), but Balram actually highlights that Yudhishtir had staked all, (implying that it wasn't completely their fault)
Unlike how we know today or how TV Serials show, Duryodhan wasn't out and out bad, it's just that being the loser, his bad qualities got over exposed and good qualities got hidden. He respected others, his elders, Brahmins and was a doting brother. As we can see in VanParava after Gowsha Yatra, when he decides to commit suicide, he proposes to hand over his kingship to Dusshashan (and not to Lakshman who certainly wouldn't have been a kid by then) and if you read the advice he gives to Dushy, it's only on how to respect his elders, how to be prompt for Brahmin support/pension, how to keep himself at last and citizens in foremost, how to be ready to even give his life for his friends n allies etc. Vyas himself states that he was a great king and citizens loved him(something which BRC turned into him spending on the citizens like fool)
Extrapolating this, he might have been a very dedicated and devoted student to Balram which made him fond of Duryodhan. Aside I do think Dury was a better mace fighter than Bheem. But his fondness actually became blind support that he didn't even try to chides Dury for the crimes of highest order that he committed including Murder of his cousins and of DyutSabha. He was actually even angry at Bheem for killing Dury by hitting below the belt
Strangely the only time he opposed Duryodhan openly was when Duryodhan was right. During the Samb instance. I don't know but this makes me feel he had some strange fascination for the molesters
Yes Balram was never shown to be eager for Dury Subhadra marriage. That narrative is introduced by TV serials to give some justification for Krishna's advice of abduction to Arjun. I respect Krishnaji the most and like Arjun, but Subhadra Haran has absolutely no excuse. I mean Arjun could still be excused, because men back then abducted girls, but a brother promoting, staging the abduction of his sister is completely unacceptable even by the standards of that era
After Mahabharata, most of the kingdoms had decimated and were only fraction of their pre war honour, it's only Yadavs who were still filled with glories and riches. Samb couldn't have dared to disrespect sages (just like Jarasangh or Duryodhan never did) otherwise. They had a feeling of invincibility, like no one could even bat an eye on them..
Andhaks issues with Vrishnis is something even I don't understand. They just were against them, you might be right they could have had some loyalty to Kansa. I think Krishna married Charumati with Bali just to reduce this distrust, but unfortunately even this alliance didn't help much.
Rest I agree Arjun did the best he could by distributing their areas
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