SAAKK CCC #46 - Page 9

Originally posted by: divine_16

It's kind of surprising for me as it's coming from SA audiences.I will agree on one point that it's really difficult to manage career,household chores and studies at the same time bcoz one aspect will definetly suffer.One need to be really a superwoman to conduct these aspects at an 100%efficiency rate.😆But...I was surprised reading the comments... calling her selfish and what not ...just bcoz she didn't want to drop' bhalla' from her surname...and that too bcoz Shaurya wanted to drop it and just keep Sabarwal !!The worst part these fans ...they want her to compromise on that...and this is what Anokhi said ..."compromises aur changes mein farak hota hai"before sindoor shaadi.I really sometimes feel do they really hear the dialogues and try to understand what the character wants to say or are they busy niharoing the handsome lead and gushing over his assets.. And believe me...these ppl will run away from men like Shaurya in real life...😆

@bold-Can't agree more!!

I don't really know how progressive the SA audience are, so I can't speak for that. But I saw many "modern" women on twitter and here talking about balance as if it was just a female thing. Many who were married talked about it as if their spouse had no responsibilities in marriage. I already disagree with the notion of a 'sasuraal' and a girl leaving her family after marriage. Seeing some comments on IF made me realize how much bollywood has warped our minds with concepts of mangalsutra, sindoor, bidaai as the essence of marriage.

I agree that it's hard to balance it all, single or married. But the arguments I see made disregard the partner in marriage and put all the responsibility on one gender. I've also never understood the name changing argument. What harm could occur if a girl kept her name after marriage as is? I think it's a compromise from Anokhi's side that she even changed her name.

@bold: I had the same thoughts. For themselves, I think the fangirls agree with Anokhi, but for their Shaurya, they want Anokhi to do everything to make him happy. They only see Shaurya's compromises, as if his attitude change shows his love only. When did becoming a decent human being and giving up regressive beliefs become an act of compromise?

@blue: No one wants the old regressive Shaurya in their life, apart from ogling at him!!

Sorry for the essay!

I actually had an argument with someone in twitter who said that anokhi is already quite lucky to be married in such a rich family, she shoukd accept that she cant have everything in life

The episodes after anokhi's marriage....i will do anything to not have such a good for nothing husband (pardon me , the one who is of the opinion that men and women hav different responsibilities nd kitchen isnt something they should share is gud for nothing acc to me ) and such disgusting inlaws in my life 😆

People fail to understand that supporting ones partner isnt some task worthy of glorification, its sumthng women hav been doing for ages, its time for men to do the same

Well women , educated and professional ones stll think that cooking , cleaning and child care is primary responsibility of women

husbands can help nd they r doing a favour den

Originally posted by: roym

I actually had an argument with someone in twitter who said that anokhi is already quite lucky to be married in such a rich family, she shoukd accept that she cant have everything in life

The episodes after anokhi's marriage....i will do anything to not have such a good for nothing husband (pardon me , the one who is of the opinion that men and women hav different responsibilities nd kitchen isnt something they should share is gud for nothing acc to me ) and such disgusting inlaws in my life 😆

People fail to understand that supporting ones partner isnt some task worthy of glorification, its sumthng women hav been doing for ages, its time for men to do the same

@bold: SHOUT THAT FROM THE ROOFTOPS!!

I absolutely hate when men are given props for doing things that women have been expected to do for ages. As if men are taking time off from their precious busy life to be a good son, brother, husband, father and that deserves medals while women were only born to be daughters, sisters, wives and mothers.

Originally posted by: roym

Well women , educated and professional ones stll think that cooking , cleaning and child care is primary responsibility of women

husbands can help nd they r doing a favour den

My mother in law used to glorify the fact that her son would clean the house every week, without acknowledging that I do the daily cleaning(I'm a clean freak) and do most of the cooking. I didn't get any medals for my daily things, but his once weekly cleaning got a huge mention. I called her out and she stopped saying stupid things.

Originally posted by: mallukumari

I don't really know how progressive the SA audience are, so I can't speak for that. But I saw many "modern" women on twitter and here talking about balance as if it was just a female thing. Many who were married talked about it as if their spouse had no responsibilities in marriage. I already disagree with the notion of a 'sasuraal' and a girl leaving her family after marriage. Seeing some comments on IF made me realize how much bollywood has warped our minds with concepts of mangalsutra, sindoor, bidaai as the essence of marriage.

Still today...u will see some ppl commenting on or passing remarks if u don't carry your marital symbols...it's still some kind of disgrace not adorning yourself with sindoor and mangalsutra.I really sometimes scratch my head and think over it..if a working woman after a hectic schedule come back home and can manage household chores...then why a man helping her becomes a favor for woman or how does it make a woman lucky??Afterall the marriage involves both of them and not one.

I agree that it's hard to balance it all, single or married. But the arguments I see made disregard the partner in marriage and put all the responsibility on one gender. I've also never understood the name changing argument. What harm could occur if a girl kept her name after marriage as is? I think it's a compromise from Anokhi's side that she even changed her name.

That's simply one's choice..IMO.If one wants to keep it/change it/ or add his husband's surname should be left to the girl.If Anokhi thought to add Sabarwal with Bhalla...then let it be.If she is comfortable and is happy with it...and doesn't have problem...then it's absolutely fine....don't force anything on someone...as simple as that!!

@bold: I had the same thoughts. For themselves, I think the fangirls agree with Anokhi, but for their Shaurya, they want Anokhi to do everything to make him happy.

Can't agree more!! And it's all for good looks!!Even the push and pull by Shaurya looks passionate to some...literally those things scared me.I would even slap the person if he shouts at me infront of so many ppl in a restaurant like Shaurya did.And I don't get at all amused by this kind of jealousy rather I find myself being insulted.

They only see Shaurya's compromises, as if his attitude change shows his love only. When did becoming a decent human being and giving up regressive beliefs beco me an act of compromise?

Oh!! this is something which I never understood. Shaurya changed bcoz he wanted to have Anokhi in his life...and if he didn't...I don't think Anokhi would have let him to enter her life.He very well knew...if he didn't change ,he would loose her.So,where is he doing favour to Anokhi or making compromises??If any favour is done...then he is doing it for him...by making himself a better human being. I would say Anokhi made a lot of adjustments...be it going to Sabarwal house after the rituals knowing how toxic the family is....or doing the cooking/household chores even when she had to study for her exams.She could have conveniently shifted to Shaan's flat where she would have led a peaceful life .

@blue: No one wants the old regressive Shaurya in their life, apart from ogling at him!!

Exactly...

Sorry for the essay!

Don't be...love to have such exchange of thoughts...

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Originally posted by: roym

I actually had an argument with someone in twitter who said that anokhi is already quite lucky to be married in such a rich family, she shoukd accept that she cant have everything in life

The episodes after anokhi's marriage....i will do anything to not have such a good for nothing husband (pardon me , the one who is of the opinion that men and women hav different responsibilities nd kitchen isnt something they should share is gud for nothing acc to me ) and such disgusting inlaws in my life 😆

People fail to understand that supporting ones partner isnt some task worthy of glorification, its sumthng women hav been doing for ages, its time for men to do the same

@ bold-Manisha...these things are something u will see which are fed to girls.The boy is rich and u come from middle class/poor family...u are so lucky...so compromise!! Ladkiya ghar sambhalti hai...ghar jod ke rakhti hai...ghar ke kaam aurat karti hai aur bahar ka kaam mardon ka.. all these things are so deep rooted that any declination from it....a girl is crucified.

Yeh lo...Ekta ki naye Naagin ko dekh lo(according to YouTube didi)😆...though the comments under her every post is surprising me. She did all the vamp roles in bengali serials...

https://www.instagram.com/p/CZKBm9ZPn6E/?utm_medium=copy_link

Arey yeh to lagta hai...sach hai..

https://www.instagram.com/p/CZDtmGpKcqG/?utm_medium=copy_link

Shaurya anokhi ko itna khichta i kyu tha....she was equally eager to get intimate 😌

Stupid shaurya 😆

Nd who tries to interfere in a professor's personal life lyk anokhi did, serials mein professional equations k lines blurred i hote hai r8 from 1st episode

Originally posted by: roym

Shaurya anokhi ko itna khichta i kyu tha....she was equally eager to get intimate 😌

Stupid shaurya 😆

Nd who tries to interfere in a professor's personal life lyk anokhi did, serials mein professional equations k lines blurred i hote hai r8 from 1st episode

Bekar mein khichta tha😆Aur mujhey tension de jata....yeh soch kar kya haal hoga Anokhi ke haath ka.

Arey...kaisey...noodles hata rahi thi ...woh bhi toh bol...😆Aur kon si professor aapney student ko bahon mein uthatey hai....just to clear his path to drive 😆