Originally posted by: pj10
I agree with you Anju but to me her not wanting to change meant no love … nothing wrong with it but she did want both and in the end she did agree to marry him on her own. She needs to take responsibility for that.
As for her ambitions, she seems to be in a rush and they keep escalating in size. Until now her ambition was to be self dependent and support her mother and sister. Now she has added on Bhalla institute to her list of dreams. It is a pipe dream unless you are married to someone resourceful like Shaurya Saberwal. It is a noble pursuit and one should dream big but “ hawa me udne wale zameen par aayenge”. I guess I am frustrated because I see no sign of growth in her from any aspect. She has toned down her habit to fight in everything though.
As for Shaurya.. I disagree with you, he is keeping his end of bargain. He is supporting his dreams but she keeps adding more and more to her dreams and associating it with her identity. He agreed to support her education and support her working when she is ready but now she wants to study and work at the same time. He would have never foreseen a fight over name change but it did happen. He is being very patient but she is on a roll. What I think he did not foresee was being stuck between his family and her at all times and being forced to choose. I do agree some of these issues are becoming bigger than they need to be because of elders trying to break them up which is unfortunate. If the couple were a nuclear family, none of the issues brought up so far would have mattered and they would have been solved amicably.
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