she’s going to come out of this so much stronger. And it’s going to be a joy to watch her. I feel like I’m watching a child go from a baby to a little kid. 🥺
Juwi, pls read the conversation above btwn me and Jiggy and tell me what do you have to say about it? I wanna know your perspective on this 😊
Juwi, pls read the conversation above btwn me and Jiggy and tell me what do you have to say about it? I wanna know your perspective on this 😊
They have to work together or Shaurya needs to do it himself
This is literally so important. It is not her job to fix him. She is there for support, BUT it does take two to tango, so they both need to work together to come together. There needs to be effort from his side to be able to overcome HIS problems. She won't always be there to fix it, and she doesn’t need to be.
Makes me realize that Shaurya was an open book in front of Anokhi (she may not know everything but she can read him very well now), but how much did Anokhi open up with him?
Shaurya hasn’t really opened up to her either, but he definitely is an open book. She reads him very well, but she is kind of an observer. Shaurya hasn’t figured her life out, but he has questioned it. So, I think when the time is right, she will eventually open up to him. But right now, she is checked out from him.
The convo above literally speaks my mind.
We all know Anokhi loves Shaurya, and we all know Shaurya loves Anokhi. She doesn’t doubt that, but when you blatantly not fight for it right in front of her. No girl is going to stick around. She does lack clarity right here. This is the time Shaurya needed to give her reassurance. I am in the same boat with her, because I really don’t know how he’s going to react anymore.
These two def have a LONG fight to go through, with themselves, each other, and with the world. I do think it’ll make their love/relationship stronger. We just need to clear up a lot of the unspoken conversations before that happens!
This is what the ones who always criticises Shaurya or Anokhi with lame points needs to understand. I don't have words for them though I would say educate yourself, then watch the show to understand 🤷🏻 (Not meant to be harsh but not sorry for saying so because mostly this particular category is either teens or a bit past that age) There's also no freaking reason to make this Shaurya VS Anokhi 
I am actually surprised that so many people are failing to grasp this track! I mean this is the crux of the whole show! Two different ideologies clashing!
Anokhi and Shaurya are supposed to be on different sides on this matter and then work on their opinions! This is where the story begins! They are supposed to fight, avoid and disagree over this and then their love story will start 🙄What we were seeing until now was just the build up... I can't believe people are watching the show and not understanding the main plot of it..
Its good she left that hell hole where you get enemies in the name of a father, brother & a grandmother. The only thing that pissed me off at that stage was Rama deciding to leave but stopping for her ungrateful mother-in-law who's good for nothing except bickering & taunting 
The thing about people with such mentality is that they dont think they are doing wrong. They think this how you show your concern. This is a societal norm for them.
Remember what was Mr. Bhalla's response when Rama tried to support Anokhi about not getting married? He said if something happens to him before retirement, is Rama capable of handling two unmarried children?
In his head, he was not only unloading his 'Paraya Dhan' but also doing Anokhi and Rama a favour by giving her a safe future. Such people think they are doing a good job!
Firstly I chuckled seeing the photo the first time I read the post (No offence to Debattama 😅) She wants respect, that respect in the eyes of the person standing in front of her. Whether its from a friend, a teacher or Shaurya.
I admire Anokhi for this quality of hers. Mostly what we witness is girls compromising in relationships where their partner is rude or won't respect them just because they love them. I mean WHAAAATTT....??? Nothing new in ITV world too. I remember few such 'trash' shows too, this is why I'm selective when it comes to which dramas are worth a watch 
Anokhi wanted respect & when she didn't get it, she didn't even want to stay at that place..
That cap is from the scene where Mr. Bhalla hots her with a stick! I love how she didn't give in to the torture and held her head high. 👏
Exactly why I said that such happiness is short lived. There are still some trash shows on the TV. I feel disgusted that after going through so much shit, the woman still falls in love with the guy. I mean how?! How can you love someone when you have been so hurt by this person.
Damn yes. I'm more like Anokhi in this matter. I'm definitely not a softie like her LOL But what I mean is how she's unapologetic for making decisions that matters to her life or future. I've a behaviour of calling out others when they try to annoy me with their irritating opinions in rl (ONLY), I stand against them. That's what Anokhi is teaching in a nicer way altogether 😅 Respect matters!
I relate to Anokhi so much as well. I am a very practical person who does not lose the sight of common sense in stressful situations. I am very direct with what I want to say and what I want and I have full confidence in myself and the decisions I make for myself.
The way in which she was calling out those two men seemed to me like she's almost saying Nikki that she shouldn't trust any man & not get married one day 
So stupid...
Oh it absolutely was! She is so convinced abt Shaurya's flaws that she is desperate to get him away from her. I don't know why though.
But Bubli is very much aware of her own situation. She admits that she is not that strong or courageous to stand up for her own self respect. She bows the moment the men around her show their eyes.
Confirmation is what she needed, which she received from her Aastha ma'am.
And confirmation is what she will need. Once there is clarity btwn them, Shaurya and Anokhi will be an unstoppable force. The need of the hour is a conversation.
But something tells me there is gonna be a hell lot of drama before the do have one.
Yeah & this should be understood by everyone who finds an opportunity to criticise Anokhi or Shaurya for their stupidity or whatever they assume. I sympathise such people tbh 
This is a serious issue & Im glad finally the show is on track. Shaurya is very insecure about love, marriage, finding a girl for himself & stuff & he needs to come out of that uncomfortable zone anyhow, by himself!
I wonder if these people expected Anokhi to break down in front of Shaurya and he will say yes 🙄
And i agree. Shaurya has to work on himself as well. He needs to pick up the broken pieces of his past and understand what went wrong. Just bcz he had a tough childhood does not mean Anokhi had to baby him. Anokhi has her own baggage to deal with and if Shaurya gets a free pass, so should Anokhi.
Definitely because love is not what they show in movies, what you read on books. That feelings co.especially with several things attached. Lovey dovey phrase won't last for long This is why I never believe in sacrificing yourself or your dreams for anything or anyone. To think so you need a brain, just like how Anokhi used hers 
I've also witnessed so many scenarios with people I know & its a sad condition to see woman sacrificing themselves...
The point is, that relationship don't remain the same all the time. They change as situations change. People react differently to reach situation and make different decisions each time.
Falling in love is the beginning. Not the 'happily ever after'. To fall in love, you need a heart. But to keep the relationship alive, you need your heart and your brain working at the right tangent at the right time. 🙂
Damn! I'm having such a deep conversation after so long! I love your insight Sew! The way you pen your opinion gives me an impression that I'm talking to someone way older than me... How old are you? 😁 I'm barely older than the teens you mentioned 😂 I'm 21 😁😁😁😁
Akshu this is a brilliant post! I have nothing more to add!
I have certain thoughts about Anokhi regarding this situation, she is not wrong in choosing herself over her relationship with Shaurya and she will never be either!
Because she is her own person first and she owes this to herself!
However, the break up needs to communicated to the other person involved but once again this is not something that calls for bashing because there is no ideal way of dealing with things it differs from person to person and if Anokhi is going to deal with things in an ideal way all the time! Then where would the character growth or development come from?
Neither Anokhi nor Shaurya deal with anything the ideal way! There is no one written process that they stick to because this is their relationship and they are still figuring things out, just like how Shaurya needed a time off when he realised Anokhi didn't trust his confession, Anokhi will have to sit on her thoughts and figure out what's best for her. Time and again these two individuals have shown how much they seek clarity and when they consciously stay away from the other it is because they need that space to make sense of their own thoughts, so why can't Anokhi do that? There is nothing wrong in prioritising herself.
Also, it is not her job to change Shaurya, Shaurya needs to decide whether he is willing to walk this mile for her! (She can be a catalyst for the change but it isn't her responsibility)
People break away from relationships due to incompatibility all the time! This isn't something that anyone needs to be made guilty about nor does it mean that there is no love or there never was. If anything Anokhi clearly stated that she loves him but cannot compromise on her self respect and I am with her on that! It is just that I hope we get to see her telling Shaurya why exactly she is calling it off because right now she does not seem to want a confrontation and to leave without confrontation would be like ghosting him and neither of them deserve that after all that they have been through.
Originally posted by: FortunaMajor
Akshu this is a brilliant post! I have nothing more to add!
I have certain thoughts about Anokhi regarding this situation, she is not wrong in choosing herself over her relationship with Shaurya and she will never be either!
Because she is her own person first and she owes this to herself!
However, the break up needs to communicated to the other person involved but once again this is not something that calls for bashing because there is no ideal way of dealing with things it differs from person to person and if Anokhi is going to deal with things in an ideal way all the time! Then where would the character growth or development come from?
Neither Anokhi nor Shaurya deal with anything the ideal way! There is no one written process that they stick to because this is their relationship and they are still figuring things out, just like how Shaurya needed a time off when he realised Anokhi didn't trust his confession, Anokhi will have to sit on her thoughts and figure out what's best for her. Time and again these two individuals have shown how much they seek clarity and when they consciously stay away from the other it is because they need that space to make sense of their own thoughts, so why can't Anokhi do that? There is nothing wrong in prioritising herself.
Also, it is not her job to change Shaurya, Shaurya needs to decide whether he is willing to walk this mile for her! (She can be a catalyst for the change but it isn't her responsibility)
People break away from relationships due to incompatibility all the time! This isn't something that anyone needs to be made guilty about nor does it mean that there is no love or there never was. If anything Anokhi clearly stated that she loves him but cannot compromise on her self respect and I am with her on that! It is just that I hope we get to see her telling Shaurya why exactly she is calling it off because right now she does not seem to want a confrontation and to leave without confrontation would be like ghosting him and neither of them deserve that after all that they have been through.
Yes... The point being that the break up was almost communicated when she asked him to be happy. It is a different thing that Shaurya wants to clear the misunderstanding but ideally speaking, she did say that its over in a way....
And I completely agree about this! Anokhi cannot change his mind no matter what if he isn't ready to change himself. Its upto Shaurya if he really wants to work on his insecurities or not...!
Honestly, I feel so good knowing that there are more people who stand with Anokhi. Cz recently, everywhere I see, people have been very upset about Anokhi's decision.
Yes... The point being that the break up was almost communicated when she asked him to be happy. It is a different thing that Shaurya wants to clear the misunderstanding but ideally speaking, she did say that its over in a way....
And I completely agree about this! Anokhi cannot change his mind no matter what if he isn't ready to change himself. Its upto Shaurya if he really wants to work on his insecurities or not...!
Honestly, I feel so good knowing that there are more people who stand with Anokhi. Cz recently, everywhere I see, people have been very upset about Anokhi's decision.
Lol by break up I meant after Anokhi has decided that she and Shaurya have nothing left between them, because though she asked him to go and said that she wished she hadn't met him at all(to babli) she acknowledged that they loved each other to Shagun, so there definitely is a door she left open the one Shaurya is trying to sneak in to clear the misunderstanding!
What I meant by communication is Shaurya deserves to know that Anokhi is closing all the doors because of his Soch, its an answer he deserves otherwise he'll continue to focus on the wrong issue. But yes I definitely do not blame Anokhi for not giving it immediately or even thinking about it at the moment because she has had quite an emotional roller-coaster herself just because her wounds aren't physically visible doesn't mean that they aren't there!
@bold Anokhi is an FL that I'll continue to stan, She is so well written and relatable! I love that there are layers in her too and she is not just another "do gooder" caricature! Honestly I don't see why people are upset about the decision because this what it has always been leading upto. These are the same two people who called each other's thinking "rubbish" 😆 their story cannot move forward without addressing this elephant in the room!
Originally posted by: FortunaMajor
Lol by break up I meant after Anokhi has decided that she and Shaurya have nothing left between them, because though she asked him to go and said that she wished she hadn't met him at all(to babli) she acknowledged that they loved each other to Shagun, so there definitely is a door she left open the one Shaurya is trying to sneak in to clear the misunderstanding!
What I meant by communication is Shaurya deserves to know that Anokhi is closing all the doors because of his Soch, its an answer he deserves otherwise he'll continue to focus on the wrong issue. But yes I definitely do not blame Anokhi for not giving it immediately or even thinking about it at the moment because she has had quite an emotional roller-coaster herself just because her wounds aren't physically visible doesn't mean that they aren't there!
@bold Anokhi is an FL that I'll continue to stan, She is so well written and relatable! I love that there are layers in her too and she is not just another "do gooder" caricature! Honestly I don't see why people are upset about the decision because this what it has always been leading upto. These are the same two people who called each other's thinking "rubbish" 😆 their story cannot move forward without addressing this elephant in the room!
Got it! I do agree that these two need to talk... Like talk with interruptions 😕
Yes, Anokhi deserves some time to herself so she can lick her wounds and recover so she can clearly think over it when the time comes.
About the do gooder... I love Anokhi for her flaws! She is so human! Like us!
She misunderstands situations, has normal insecurities, reacts naturally to situations and what not! I love Anokhi for the mistakes she makes! I would happily choose Anokhi over any other FL on the screen right now.
Damn! I'm having such a deep conversation after so long! I love your insight Sew! The way you pen your opinion gives me an impression that I'm talking to someone way older than me... How old are you? 😁 I'm barely older than the teens you mentioned 😂 I'm 21 😁😁😁😁
Haha... 😆😆
I like that you made a post for Anokhi too 💙
For 21 you're talking in a mature way, which is really cool (I can relate the same way )
Im gonna be 26 at the end of this month 🤭
Un Res 
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Akshu!!! Such a beautiful analysis 
Frankly one of the best so far 
I can’t find words to appreciate it and I don’t have anything to add too 😆
Anokhi is Unique FL and you penned this down brilliantly 😍
Thank you for posting this 🤗
Add this in Fanfic archive under miscellaneous or make your index with all your analysis along with your ffs ❤️ They need to be treasured 😍
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I don’t know why this was still in my drafts
Sorry 🥺
I forgot to post it
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