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Posted: 3 years ago
#31

Maybe...

I liked her version as well... Why don't you give it a try.

https://twitter.com/coolgal270/status/1389289425436254208?s=19

She explained the emotional decision better! Click on the tweet to read the whole thread.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: AK_2010

Maybe...

I liked her version as well... Why don't you give it a try.

https://twitter.com/coolgal270/status/1389289425436254208?s=19

She explained the emotional decision better! Click on the tweet to read the whole thread.

She has penned it down really well. I can see why Anokhi took that decision and why she's reacting this way but to be honest I couldn't relate with Anokhi like I did with Shaurya. Maybe because my childhood was much similar to Shaurya as I grew up alone despite I stayed with my parents and I could never be like Anokhi. Maybe I'm a little biased towards Shaurya because of that but I always put an effort to understand if something's unclear to me.

Anokhi's fighting within herself and she's trying to hold herself up. I agree that she feels her strong demeanor would fade away if she meets him but is she convincing herself that Shaurya won't respect her n won't change without confronting him just so she could refrain herself from reacting on her feelings?

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Posted: 3 years ago
#33

Akshuuuuuuuu 🤗🤗🤗

I haven't watched anything since the pre holi/fest - but from this post I've realised that the Anokhi that we signed up for is still live and kicking🥳

Thanks ❤️

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Posted: 3 years ago
#34

👏👏👏


Well said👍🌹...


The show has all these women & their lives for us to analyse as well...they all have seemed to have compromised & settled to their circumstances...most probably because the men in their lives were not supportive...i love Shaurya & Anokhi's stories because we are here to see them break the mold & become each others strength...until then i am so glad Anokhi is standing up for herself against the odds...love should make us stronger...happier... you go girl...proud of Anokhi 💖

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Haal-e-Dil

Tagging as I would love to know your pov


I read through the post yesterday and I loved it and agree with every word here👍🏼. I do not find Anokhi being unreasonable here as much as I would have preferred a communication here.

At the same time, I am not going to say or troll those who feel Anokhi is being unfair to Shaurya or stupid, because that's where I was last week. The whole chaos is classic example of bad writing, and today's story could definitely make sense to those who are unhappy with Anokhi if they are willing to forget whatever Anokhi said or did over last two to three weeks when she was shown to be kind of different person altogether (in my opinion only).

Though Anokhi could have deeper level of feelings for Shaurya, but strictly in my opinion, Anokhi's low evaluation of her feelings were kind of indication that her feelings for Shaurya isn't as intense and deep as his according to writers. Yaar banda is well settled and his next jump, even in his own world, is to get married but Anokhi has long long way to go before settling down, her dreams, aspirations, career, helping out loved ones Maa, Babli, etc.

These things could make Shaurya feel out of place where it would seem like Anokhi is choosing her aspirations over him like his mother did...

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Posted: 3 years ago
#36

Akshuuuuuu 🥺🥺🥺🥺


This entire track is not just about ShaKhi as a couple.... It is about Anokhi and Shaurya as individuals and their individual choices.

With the current track right now. I can’t wait to watch her grow more. Anokhi inspires me to fight for myself more. She is a strong fierce girl. You have done a wonderful job with this one. I can’t. My heart and mind are with her. And at the end I know she will overcome it all.

Why did I come to read this before bed?! Ima think about her all night now!

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Hello Sweets! 🤗Sorry to be late to the party! been trying to find some time to write about our Jugni Anokhi! You know how much I love this girl. She is as you described the woman of substance. As a woman myself, I don’t identify myself just as a wife, daughter or mother. I also identify myself as a woman who has an identity of her own at work. It’s not to say that women who chose to stay at home are any less but it varies from woman to woman.Each of us should be allowed to make our own choices and Anokhi is no less. She has fought hard to come and study and she needs to do that. It’s not to say that she doesn’t love Shaurya. She loves him with equal fervour. Look she came all the way to Goa after him!

At this point in the story, she has no inkling on Shaurya’s past or insecurities. She has seen glimpses but she is not privy to his life as we the viewer are. He has been scarred by his parents and his misogynistic comments are a product of that. He is an educated, well respected Professor. In order to change his viewpoint it will take some time. We need to give their story some time. Just like Anokhi has a past that haunts her and her insecurities, Shaurya is equally insecure, no less or no more. I know a lot of folks are upset with Anokhi that she made a decision about their love without consulting him but its a reaction based on her conversation with Astha. Shaurya needs to address that through action and just not words. He needs to support her with her studies and help her achieve her dream. Similarly, Anokhi needs to help Shaurya with his demons. The man is literally being played everyone. Astha and Shaan need to stand by him and show him that they can start making amends to towards their child.

They are both a product of their painful past. Just like Anokhi fills his heart with so much love, Shaurya does the same! They complete each other, yearn for that love from each other. They will get past this and this is the journey we all signed up. Their journey has been beautiful so far and i hope the makers get to tell their story.

PS – when are we getting some amazing OS from you? I miss reading them. Hope your keeping well. Lots of love! ❤️

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: AK_2010


Yesterday when I checked the reply, my name tag was somewhere else 🤣 Ab kahi aur 😆😆 What's this lukka chuppi? 😂😂😂😂 I read the post within minutes after you posted but was quite busy y'day, so wanted to quote today taking time 🤭


We need to understand that Anokhi and Shaurya come two different backgrounds, raised in two different environments and have two different issues to resolve. They are two SEPRATE people.


This is what the ones who always criticises Shaurya or Anokhi with lame points needs to understand. I don't have words for them though I would say educate yourself, then watch the show to understand 🤷🏻 (Not meant to be harsh but not sorry for saying so because mostly this particular category is either teens or a bit past that age) There's also no freaking reason to make this Shaurya VS Anokhi 🤪


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"Falane ki Beti - Dimkane ki Patni Hone se Pehle, Mai Anokhi Hu!"

Anokhi has been taught that her boundaries end at the threshold of the kitchen and her identity- tied down to a man as his wife, later as the mother of his children. But it's not important that all lessons teach you the right thing.

Anokhi has grown up believing that sky is the limit. Given the opportunity, she can be the bird that can achieve the heights that are only defined for a man in the patriarchal society we live in.


That's what majorly made me stick to the show. This speech was important & the way Anokhi took a strong stand for women, herself & dismissed the thoughts of this particular set of men was commendable. It was nice seeing a rebellious character like her, who had the courage to point out what's wrong & what's not. I could totally relate though my family is nothing like hers LOL 😆

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It might be a last moment decision for her, but Anokhi has always dreamed of this day. The bird flying away from the cage.

When a bird is kept in a cage, she has the optimum level security of knowing that she will be provided with food, will have a shelter and is away from harm's way. Yes, she may not be able to touch the sky but what if the bird loves the security more than the feeling of wind between the feathers?


I like what you've said. Its true, you've assurance that you'll be taken care of, nurtured, protected from outer world but when that protective nature turns in to suffocation, there's nothing one can do. There's a breaking point in anything, be it with your friends, lover, family & so on. When that happens, nothing would be able to stop you from running for your life, that life you've always dreamt of living


When a girl has to go away from home, no matter how much you hate the walls and people living within those walls, it is never easy to leave it all behind. Anokhi decided that emotional and financial security was not worth it if she had to marry a man who would not respect her as an individual.


Exactly. But I also have a different thought for the same. Its just that the way in which somebody is attached to their family, parents or the memories decide how you'll feel about leaving that place right? I won't say never easy there. Its the perspective of the one who wants to run away. If you know that this sacrifice of walking away from the family who brought you up is worth it, worth it when the matter concerns your self-dignity & basically your whole life (Highlighted) there's nothing wrong 🤷🏻


She loved her Mummyji and Papaji, but she knew she was better off without them for a while. Away from restrains of their society and away from her father's abuse.


That papaji is someone whom I would love to curse from the bottom of my heart (Literally my family members did when those scenes aired 🤣🤣) Its good she left that hell hole where you get enemies in the name of a father, brother & a grandmother. The only thing that pissed me off at that stage was Rama deciding to leave but stopping for her ungrateful mother-in-law who's good for nothing except bickering & taunting 🤬


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Once in Chandigarh, Anokhi grew out of that phase where things were just black or white... She knows somethings are just grey. That is Shaurya for her.


Ikr? Shaurya's grey character was so fresh. We've seen such characters before I agree but Shaurya as a whole package (Gutter mind se bahar niklo 😃😉🤣🤪) was an interesting character who was good & at the same time who has faults ✌🏻


She has seen his best qualities: A good professor, a fair, brave and responsible man, a man who is ready to accept his faults and a man who has protected her.

But she has also seen his worst: Anger, Resentment, Ego and even his outright crass behavior.


Totally. I believe that every person is layered yk? Multiple layers before you recognise the realit. Some people only get to see the good side, maybe because that person shows their nice side accordingly & to others he shows his bad/destructive side. Anokhi has witnessed both these sides of Shaurya 😊


Anokhi has forgiven him for his worst and fallen in love with his best. They fought each other, blamed each other and tried to stay out of each other's way but their connection is soul deep and not just that of materials and superficial appearances.


I agree 😊 Anokhi (As I've said beforehand) knows the black & white & the greys of Shaurya, thus she decided to step down when he insulted her but when he genuinely apologised to her, going out of his way, breaking his normal character, she forgave him ❤️ We all really liked that sequence right? 🤗💛


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The kind of environment she grew up in won't let her over look Shaurya's expectations from his wife.

Because it has never been about love. It is about respect. She was ready to sacrifice her supreme quality education at SIAC and settle with a small college in Kapurthala because she didn't feel respected.


Firstly I chuckled seeing the photo the first time I read the post (No offence to Debattama 😅) She wants respect, that respect in the eyes of the person standing in front of her. Whether its from a friend, a teacher or Shaurya.

I admire Anokhi for this quality of hers. Mostly what we witness is girls compromising in relationships where their partner is rude or won't respect them just because they love them. I mean WHAAAATTT....??? Nothing new in ITV world too. I remember few such 'trash' shows too, this is why I'm selective when it comes to which dramas are worth a watch Anokhi wanted respect & when she didn't get it, she didn't even want to stay at that place..


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Anokhi has never been the one to compromise with her dignity. She is not apologetic for making her own decisions. This is about her entire life, after all. She knows being independent will give her the voice and a position of respect in a relationship.


Damn yes. I'm more like Anokhi in this matter. I'm definitely not a softie like her LOL But what I mean is how she's unapologetic for making decisions that matters to her life or future. I've a behaviour of calling out others when they try to annoy me with their irritating opinions in rl (ONLY), I stand against them. That's what Anokhi is teaching in a nicer way altogether 😅 Respect matters!


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"Mera sach kya hoga yeh mai khud decide karungi."

She defended him and stood her ground in front of Shagun, not letting her see the uncertainty she had sowed in Anokhi's mind.

But that does not mean Anokhi wasn't affected.


Yes she was affected at the end, that's why she's leaving without even meeting Shaurya for a one last time at least. That respect a woman deserves in the eyes of her boyfriend or husband is what she wants as an assurance & now that she's come face to face with the identity of Shaurya 1.0 through vile Shagun (Who added salt & lime too with her cutthroat words 🤬), she's broken.

Her defending Shaurya was my favourite. She didn't accuse Shagun but clearly said 'He might've loved you but he loves me now' 😂😂 That was super entertaining to watch. Making Shagun understand that 'her' Shaurya was someone else. But yet... We'll see how Anokhi faces this mess later


She defended him because she wasn't convinced that Shaurya, the man who always encouraged her and was proud of her achievements could ask Shagun to give up her studies for marriage.


Exactly & that's why she kept on saying I believe him, he matters to me & if I didn't come to see him in this condition, it would affect me badly as well. Poor girl... 😔


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Please know that Babli's "Sare mard ek jaise hote hai."

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Anokhi's "Mr. Shaurya Sabherwal ke mann mei kisi bhi aurat ke liye izzat nahi hai." are two different things and we need to understand why.


I highly agree & yes, babli's perspective is as per her papaji & ofc the useless husband she has but Shaurya cannot be compared to them 🤪


Babli says it over and over again with her own experience, knowing that her father and husband do not respect her AT ALL and have not qualms beating her up when she steps out of the line.


The way in which she was calling out those two men seemed to me like she's almost saying Nikki that she shouldn't trust any man & not get married one day So stupid...


Anokhi's words are slightly different because she is talking about herself as an individual. She was her father's burden while her brother was the investment. With Shaurya, she knows that he respects her as person, but now the question has raised if he respects her as an INDIVIDUAL?


She understands the reality & well, having gone through such phrases in her life she's not dumb because she came out of the ties though it only seemed to me like Babli is the one who needs some advice. To come out of her own suffocating & humiliating relationship with Vineet & that family. Hypocritical much? 🤪

When it comes to Shaurya, Anokhi does know how he appreciates her study related matter & confidence but as you've stated, the individuality should be respected too


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"Pyaar ke naam pe samjhauta mat karna"

She is not denying her love for him, neither is she doubting his love for her. But she has decided to not give up on her dreams for love.

NO MATTER WHAT, HER DREAMS AND AMBITIONS WON'T BE SACRIFICED FOR ANYTHING OR ANYONE.


This is the sole reason she came leaving that family, to get educated, make a career & become financially stable before thinking about spending a lifetime with a man she loves. I think she's on the right path because emotions mein lost hokar, behekthe huwe in real life we can see many girls losing their self-respect & forgetting their dreams just for a man. Sacrificing their life for a man, who doesn't even respect their choices or ideas. Anokhi is not that stupid LOL

We know Shaurya has changed but this new information about him has shaken Anokhi up from a longtime sleep ironically I guess? So she's doing what her mind tells her to do, this isn't the time to think from your heart. Shaurya is the only one who can solve this matter


But Anokhi is not going to put herself in that position. She is giving herself a choice! She has left her home, her sister is hoping to escape her hell of a marriage once Anokhi is independant, she wants to stand up for her mother, but most of all... She wants to prove that she is destined for more than just cooking in the kitchen and bearing some man's children.

And if a housewife is what Mr. Shaurya Sabherwal wants, then that housewife won't be me - this is Anokhi's resolve.


Exactly Akshu. She's not gonna become a housewife, giving up her dreams & goals. Communication is what needs to happen b/w Shaurya & Anokhi so that he realises her background, her aspirations & promise to her that as a changed guy, she's not gonna stop her from dreaming nor having a career ❤️


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Honestly, Anokhi has every reason to make a pre-determined choice about this. She is NOT taking this decision based on Shagun's words at all, she has made this decision after confirming the facts. It is a valid question, if Shagun was dumped after being in a relationship for over 2 years, what is so different about her?


Confirmation is what she needed, which she received from her Aastha ma'am. Did Shaurya really break his engagement with Shagun because he didn't want a working wife, with a dream of making a career? Has he never stood for her when Shagun wanred to learn more? These were all valid questions & Aastha silently agreed. For your last question, Shaurya needs to open the eyes of his brain & understand he NEVER loved Shagun & she was just there in his life because she belonged to high class, had a repured family & was educated a/c to Sabherwal standards. Plus Devi-l ma literally wanted that standard for Shaurya's bahu. Its a shame being a woman herself, she doesn't have a backbone to appreciate woman who works to earn for a living


This is not her being fearsome, it's her being CAUTIOUS. There is a difference.

Over all of that, ANOKHI BHALLA IS NOT WRONG FOR CHOOSING HERSELF OVER A MAN.


True that. At this point of time nothing should be highlighted more than her choosing her self respect over a guy


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This entire track is not just about ShaKhi as a couple.... It is about Anokhi and Shaurya as individuals and their individual choices.

This is not about trust, it is about strength.

This track is not about Anokhi's love, it's about her aspirations.

It's not about Shaurya's love winning her over, it is about his own deep rooted insecurities.


Yeah & this should be understood by everyone who finds an opportunity to criticise Anokhi or Shaurya for their stupidity or whatever they assume. I sympathise such people tbh 😆

This is a serious issue & Im glad finally the show is on track. Shaurya is very insecure about love, marriage, finding a girl for himself & stuff & he needs to come out of that uncomfortable zone anyhow, by himself!


Her trauma and goals against his insecurities and ideology, who is right?

I would say none!

Both have their own reasons to believe what is right for them.


Yeah, they need to understand things aren't gonna be simple if they don't think about their future plans & start a relationship where their last stage together is marriage. Any relationship needs to have that base where they are on the same level with their mind set


Yep, trust me... The happiness of being able to be with your loved one after making such life changing sacrifices (like compromising on self-respect) lasts only for so long. When the excitement of new found love fades away and reality settles in, one will realize that maybe the sacrifice was not really worth it.


Definitely because love is not what they show in movies, what you read on books. That feelings co.especially with several things attached. Lovey dovey phrase won't last for long 😆 This is why I never believe in sacrificing yourself or your dreams for anything or anyone. To think so you need a brain, just like how Anokhi used hers 👏 I've also witnessed so many scenarios with people I know & its a sad condition to see woman sacrificing themselves...


My own mother tells me , "Tu khud se paise kamane lag jaa phir tu jisko utha ke layegi, usse shaadi karayenge teri."


This is more like my dad. Ofc my works & she's supportive but this particular advice is always given by my dad. Im proud I'm my parents daughter who always let me decide my future, take my next step & understood me. In Anokhi's case finally her mom helped her elope but as a little girl, I can sag the family she had wasn't what she deserved


Because the harsh reality for women is that Pyaar Hi Sab Kuch Nahi Hota. Izzat aur Barabari bhi Zaruri Hai.


Men should change their mind set. That's all

Where a woman is not respected, there'll come a time (I HOPE 🤞🏻) when they'll take action against men

Haven't proof read or checked grammar! LOL

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Posted: 3 years ago
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You have described anokhi’s perspective so well!

I am really attached to anokhi 🤧

With exceptions here and there, It doesn’t happen so often that I feel so connected to a character, her story and her feelings.

And last line, my mother says the same to me that priority always is to be financial independent baaki sab baad mein, I have seen it myself and experiences really do shape us.


I am happy that people of IF are supportive of her and are understanding her.

Warna twitter pe to kuch aur hi chal raha hai🙂

I was feeling ki am I watching something else?

Plus out of all the tracks, this was the track that everyone knew WILL come, promo hi isi track ka tha,

So this clash was the main plot of the show.

If no clashes or conflicts will happen, then what will they show?

And trust doesn’t come in one day, specially when her faith was already fumbling a little since the date night plus engagement fiasco. And on top of that, this revelation.

She has gone through so much in past few days, she is a total mess right now, so expecting her to take right decision isn’t fair on her.

I just feel Ki when shaurya’s flaws can be accepted and justified bcs of bad past then anokhi’s flaws due to her past are justified and should be accepted equally too.


I hope the makers deal with the track with sensitivity and don’t rush it, they have been doing a good job so far, also deba is portraying anokhi so wonderfully, she has grown so much as an actor!


You wrote everything I was feeling about her in this track, Amazing write-up👏

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Originally posted by: deepshiii

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Akshu, you always bring us with the best reads and amazing analysis I swear. I had been writing for a long time on Anokhi but I trashed it all 4 days ago because I was very confused and now that I read this thread I understood things more clearly and I do have 2 of my points from that post I wanted to make🙈

Deep, the best part about Anokhi is that everyone admires her for many different reasons. She has taught each one of us a lesson in every action she takes.

Anokhi, a girl barely 20 years old with a passion and fire to fulfill her dreams. A girl who’s as unique as her name. The girl in all terms is Jugni, the spirit of life. I stumbled on this show and got connected to it to another level.

I think bcz of the maturity she shows at tough situations presented to her makes us forget that she is actually 20 years old! She is allowed to get excited like a teen, she is allowed to make mistakes and misunderstand situations... She still has a lot to learn in life!

I love how she respects her own self and fights for her own rights. She went against her own father because she knew whatever he’s doing is not right. People (audience) did pointed fingers at this behaviour of Anokhi who spoke back to her father but the girl did exactly what was right. She for once was ready to give up on her because she didn’t want her mother to suffer because of her. The girl loves her mother more than her dreams but she also wants to be well educated and free her mother and her sister from the clutches of the men in their life who’ve made their lives miserable, who treats them like a puppet.


My views on the following:

"Falane ki Beti - Dimkane ki Patni Hone se Pehle, Mai Anokhi Hu!"

Makes me remember the goosebumps I got when I heard this speech, tears brimming down my face and the pride I felt after listening to this speech because my girl spoke the unfiltered truth. Her stand was strong. She never backed up. Also, I recall it clearly that she mentioned ki Main udd jaungi ek din yahan se to her dad. The girl has always been clear about her goals. Anokhi can do 10 wrong things but the one right thing she does always is overpowering to me than her 10 wrongs. I’m not biased towards Anokhi. I love Shaurya way too much but with Anokhi, I connect. I love her for who she is. She represents so many of the females of our society but our girl is fearless. She’s Sher puttar.

When I was Anokhi’s age, I wish I had this sense of judgement and fearlessness and I would have conquered more than I have now. She’s literally so matured and it’s never a bad thing. Maturity comes with experience. She has had the worst experience at her own place. The Bhalla men portray the men of our society who think it’s very manly of them to raise hands on their daughters and wife and to keep them in control. It pains my heart that some of us fight through it and get above it while most of us are still victims of this unwanted abuse. Anokhi had thought at least Raja would help her but well, that guy is such a chameleon. I would not shy away from calling him spineless. Also, I can never forget how he is saved by his father but Anokhi agar same attempt to murder karti toh? Phir kya karte Mr Bhalla?


I was very glad that Anokhi came out of the mess but little did she know, she would be trapped in a bigger mess. The mess that would turn her entire life upside down. But we always, always have light at the end of the tunnel. To her, the light at the end of the tunnel was Shaurya Sabherwal. I always feel that this line is very apt for these two too "Nafrat pass aane naa de, Mohabbat durr jaane naa de" Shaurya out righteously hated Anokhi, for reasons now clearly known but he always has had a soft side for her. Addressing how Anokhi fell in love (she still isn’t in love though as per me) or was attracted as this has become a topic of debate across places.

So, I did put myself into Anokhi’s shoes to understand how she got attracted and had this perspective of the whole situation. Anokhi was in a grave trouble and someone who hates her to death saves her and is concerned about her way too much. He helps her out of the mess and shows trust in her. Trust is beyond everything. The V-Day dance, all the unwanted encounters, saving from goons, riots, bridge scene or maybe finding Aastha. There have been plenty of moments when these two had to be together unwantedly and surely, these two babies were a mess and they did always cross the boundaries of professional and entered into personal spaces. I still do not define hers to be love. For me, it’s still infatuation or mere attraction which would turn into deep love soon.

I agree. There were times I felt that maybe there more... She is probably still not 'in love' yet but I guess they have been into pretty intense situations and clearly have been feeling too many things, too soon. So, I won't talk about if she is really in love... Honestly, I personally believe that love is a slow process. You can really, really like somebody, but love happens after you know that person in and out still wanting to be with them.

But the fact and why I appreciate Anokhi is this "Because it has never been about love. It is about respect. She was ready to sacrifice her supreme quality education at SIAC and settle with a small college in Kapurthala because she didn't feel respected."

The girl just doesn’t know how to compromise and obviously there’s nothing beyond self respect. Until she respects herself enough, love means nothing. She trusts Shaurya. She respects him but what’s confusing her and irking her are his thoughts and his mindset of Women should be confined to the walls of the house and should raise children and look after the grown up baby husband. Call her a feminist or whatever but I see her as a woman who’s come so far to become something and not to settle for someone who owns such a thinking. The girl has just come across the manipulative half baked truth and is totally confused. Trust me, main bhi hoti agar Anokhi ki jagah, mere saath bhi yeh hi hota. Mujhe bhi mahi samajh aata itna jaldi cheezein aur mujhe bhi waqt chahiye hota hai khud ko sambhalne ka, situation ko samajhne ka and I prefer staying away from the person who puts me into such a spot because the more you talk, the more the mess. Remember Anokhi said dil pe zor nahi par dimaag pe toh hai. This is exactly what I mean by it. It’s tough to keep our heart in control but the mind is something we can control. It’s the mind majorly that helps us take rational decisions. Emotional hoke dil se faisle leke pachtate hue dekha hai maine logon ko. I have been one of those people too. I regret it till date because The heart says yay, the mind says nay. I am completely okay with Anokhi avoiding Shaurya until she calms her mind but not listening to him would mess things up for her. It’s him who can clear things to her and provide her clarity. Giving up just like that would cause her inevitable pain.

Anokhi is young and may not have an experience of love and is allowed to make mistakes but I really do believe that Anokhi is highly confused of her feelings now and is very scared. Thanks to Chamkili who poisoned her mind but now, she’d be able to understand Shaurya better, would pave way and choose the wise path and select the right option for her because I know ANOKHI WILL NOT COMPROMISE WITH HER DREAMS FOR LOVE. Love can wait but your dreams can’t and that’s what I think is the view of Anokhi making her Anokhi in all senses.

Absolutely! I love how Anokhi is not being a typical crying ITV heroine but actually using her brain. The thing about love is that it makes you see things in a different light, it does not make you blind 🤓 Anokhi is not blind and neither is Shaurya.

I just wish people stop mistaking her practicality with her lack of feelings for Shaurya.... 🥺


Akshu, all my love to you. What an amazing analysis. Bookmarking it so that I can read it time and again❤️Thank you so much for writing this beautiful thread on our Jugni🤗This girl inspires me a lot. She is the first FL who in all terms is very inspiring and knows how to stand her ground without any drama. Hum log hamesha KV ke liye kehte hai usne jaan daaldi Shaurya Sabherwal mein, but I would also like to say, Deba is in all terms the only actress who could have done this role. This girl deserves everything 💓✨

Debattma has done a magnico job with Anokhi Bhalla! She is a true role model for women of this generation

And I am glad I could clear a few things for you!! You guys are too kind to me!

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