Anokhi Bhalla: A Woman of Substance. - Page 3

Originally posted by: NG456

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I am not interested in watching one sided love story,thats it.

Yess for this phase I don't want running after another be their love story started or not.

I am not in favor of shaurya running behind her because he has not given chance to explain himself and decision taken by one person.

And obviously I don't want to see Anokhi leaving her self respect.

Anokhi have these doubts so she need to ask him directly,till than she can take her time,I have no problem.

But obviously after so much happened I don't want him to go around and around her,now thats going to be too much for me after listening Anokhi's crystal clear views about him,she had no hesitation in saying he has no respect for women.

I have no problem with Anokhi being a dignified girl having goals but her judging someone on another's viewpoint without considering the person himself even after having different experience,I had problem with that. There is a difference between both things.

If I am saying that I am not happy with her judging attitude I am not implying that she should not follow her dreams or misjudging her for choosing her career,the thing I had problem with had nothing to do with both these things infact it is lot different.

It is not a one sided love story.

(pls read my post above in reply to Nan_ArHi)

Also, do not mistake Shaurya chasing Anokhi as his true love. It comes from his people pleasing attitude and his own insecurities.

Anokhi is a cut throat person and has already been very clear about her doubts with him but he lost his temper to quickly, completely dissed her insecurities bcz she didn't immediately believe his words.

Tbh, agar Anokhi ki jagah mai hoti, bina relationship ke hi breakup kar leti after date night 🤣🤣🤣

The point is Shaurya has become very emotional and is slowly coming back to reality while Anokhi was jolted back the moment Shagun showed up and is thinking very practically. As I said, she actually defended Shaurya and didn't believe Shagun instantly. If Shaurya’s POV is legit, so is Anokhi's.

In fact, Anokhi's practicality should not be mistaken as Shaurya's one sided love. One can be in love and still be practical.

Originally posted by: AK_2010

It is not a one sided love story.

(pls read my post above in reply to Nan_ArHi)

Also, do not mistake Shaurya chasing Anokhi as his true love. It comes from his people pleasing attitude and his own insecurities.

Anokhi is a cut throat person and has already been very clear about her doubts with him but he lost his temper to quickly, completely dissed her insecurities bcz she didn't immediately believe his words.

Tbh, agar Anokhi ki jagah mai hoti, bina relationship ke hi breakup kar leti after date night 🤣🤣🤣

The point is Shaurya has become very emotional and is slowly coming back to reality while Anokhi was jolted back the moment Shagun showed up and is thinking very practically. As I said, she actually defended Shaurya and didn't believe Shagun instantly. If Shaurya’s POV is legit, so is Anokhi's.

In fact, Anokhi's practicality should not be mistaken as Shaurya's one sided love. One can be in love and still be practical.

Hmm,okay I have no problem in saying that chasing isn't true love,I agree and I don't want to see him chasing her.Thats all I want its a problem genuine and it will be good if they put equal efforts in communication.

And again I will say I didn't said that Anokhi's practicality I had issues with,but I had with her JUDGING attitude,I had issue with that.

I don't like judgements being passed,and I will always have issue with the way Anokhi passed judgement,and she had done that now ample of times and I am trying to say same since my first post.

I have no issues with her being determined,goal oriented,practical but I had issues with her judging attitude as I had issues with shaurya's toxic jealousy.

If I call out shaurya for his flaws I will call out Anokhi also for her flaws.I don't want to be biased as a viewer.

I don't want to give reason to justify her flaws,I agree that she has a reason to be the way she is,as shaurya had the reason to be the way he is,but that doesn't made his flaws justified nor Anokhi can be justified for her flaws.

Thats what I think but it doesn't means that I will not repsect your viewpoint we could have different views for same story and character and it is perfectly fine with me.

P.S.If you still have disagreements than pls agree to disagree I would have loved to continue discussion with you as it gives more insight to other's character watching from someome else eyes but I fear that it may not be possible🥺upcoming week starting tomorrow is hectic for me,so I may not be able to carry on discussion.

Meanwhile keep working on our main motto that is loving the show and taking care of numbers as possible online or offline.

Most probably meet after 3-4 days.So till than keep rocking forum,enjoying show and taking care of your health.

And than if may possible can continue our discussion😂

Originally posted by: NG456

Hmm,okay I have no problem in saying that chasing isn't true love,I agree and I don't want to see him chasing her.Thats all I want its a problem genuine and it will be good if they put equal efforts in communication.

And again I will say I didn't said that Anokhi's practicality I had issues with,but I had with her JUDGING attitude,I had issue with that.

I don't like judgements being passed,and I will always have issue with the way Anokhi passed judgement,and she had done that now ample of times and I am trying to say same since my first post.

I have no issues with her being determined,goal oriented,practical but I had issues with her judging attitude as I had issues with shaurya's toxic jealousy.

If I call out shaurya for his flaws I will call out Anokhi also for her flaws.I don't want to be biased as a viewer.

I don't want to give reason to justify her flaws,I agree that she has a reason to be the way she is,as shaurya had the reason to be the way he is,but that doesn't made his flaws justified nor Anokhi can be justified for her flaws.

Thats what I think but it doesn't means that I will not repsect your viewpoint we could have different views for same story and character and it is perfectly fine with me.

Yeah... But she has not judged immediately based on hear and say. She has made just set her own mind based on facts.

She has confirmed that it has happened. This her way of being prepared for the ultimate heartbreak.

And she is not wrong that people dont change overnight. And Astha knows it too.

Neha, I never said you have issues with her goal oriented pov. I understood that in the 1st post itself. You are mixing her sound decision about her career with her practical decision on the relationship. Both are different from each other.

And what is happening with Anokhi is very real. For example... Something happened btwn me and my best friend and when I realized that what I heard about her was true. I knew what I had to do if something similar happens btwn us.

Now the seriousness is different. But the point is that Anokhi is right to believe that Shaurya won't change just bcz. People don't change like that.

We have to wait for Shaurya's thoughts about this. Bcz before this track, Shaurya has seen Anokhi's career as a bright student not as a potential life partner. Im sure he wont ask her to choose but we have to see what convinces him. In fact, I think if he randomly says I wont stop you... I would be 🙄 There has to be a serious thought about this issue.

But i got your point. You have issues with the fact that she didn't talk to him about it. You are right she should. I always keep saying that these guys need to TALK! JUST TALK!

Originally posted by: AK_2010

Yeah... But she has not judged immediately based on hear and say. She has made just set her own mind based on facts.

She has confirmed that it has happened. This her way of being prepared for the ultimate heartbreak.

And she is not wrong that people dont change overnight. And Astha knows it too.

Neha, I never said you have issues with her goal oriented pov. I understood that in the 1st post itself. You are mixing her sound decision about her career with her practical decision on the relationship. Both are different from each other.

And what is happening with Anokhi is very real. For example... Something happened btwn me and my best friend and when I realized that what I heard about her was true. I knew what I had to do if something similar happens btwn us.

Now the seriousness is different. But the point is that Anokhi is right to believe that Shaurya won't change just bcz. People don't change like that.

We have to wait for Shaurya's thoughts about this. Bcz before this track, Shaurya has seen Anokhi's career as a bright student not as a potential life partner. Im sure he wont ask her to choose but we have to see what convinces him. In fact, I think if he randomly says I wont stop you... I would be 🙄 There has to be a serious thought about this issue.

But i got your point. You have issues with the fact that she didn't talk to him about it. You are right she should. I always keep saying that these guys need to TALK! JUST TALK!

I am sorry Akshu I have edited that post pls check.

Actually I don't do that personally,I worked as Medical officer and staff used to warn me about my one of otger lady staff member that she is this she is that and not just them infact my CMO also my colleagues,most of the patients and so many people did that and I was new at that place working first time and they used to advice me to stay away from her and all and you know what I left job but till date I never judged her,becoz I never experienced that,I just can't do that and I also don't like others doing that.

I have all reasons to just be cautious for my security but I can't judge her becoz others are saying it she iused to be sweet to me so I can't,I seriously need first hand experience to make a decision about someone.Otherwise it pinches me.

I have just issue with her judgement,if she had talked with shaurya and took same decision I wouldn't mind it.

And rest pls my previous post read that,I edited that.

🙌👏👏 Such a well-written and much needed post Akshu! I was busily nodding my head in agreement while reading this 😁
You described Anokhi perfectly.. a girl fighting for her identity, imperfectly perfect , raw and pure. She is all that and much more! ❤️ Loved your take here...

I think sometimes we are so focused about who is right and who is wrong, that we forget there could be middle ground. Maybe we should start over and think of Shaurya and Anokhi as individuals and not just as a pair. We should remind ourselves about their individuality.

This entire track is not just about ShaKhi as a couple.... It is about Anokhi and Shaurya as individuals and their individual choices.

This is not about trust, it is about strength.

This track is not about Anokhi's love, it's about her aspirations.

It's not about Shaurya's love winning her over, it is about his own deep rooted insecurities.

Bang on! 🙌 I couldn’t have said it better!

More power to you girl! 😘🤗

Originally posted by: Nidhi14

We have such a talented writers on this forum. I love reading such intellectual threads. You really analysed miss Bhalla so well. Anokhi wants to be like her Aastha mam but today's girl would like to be Anokhi. Title is so perfect. She is really brave heart. She is fighter and yet so lovable. She is degnified.I admired her when she told Shaurya sir aap ko pata hai me bechari nahi hu👍🏼

The best part of your post that made me emotional is

Anokhi has forgiven him for his worst and fallen in love with his best. They fought each other, blamed each other and tried to stay out of each other's way but their connection is soul deep and not just that of materials and superficial appearances.

She is hiding from him because she knows she can't hide her feelings for him.

I just love them 💞

Nidhi 😭

I feel overwhelmed by this comment! Thanks for saying that!

Yes! Anokhi is an inspiration for us! I hope audience watching the show take a lesson from her! ❤️

Originally posted by: rumi_dee

🙌👏👏 Such a well-written and much needed post Akshu! I was busily nodding my head in agreement while reading this 😁
You described Anokhi perfectly.. a girl fighting for her identity, imperfectly perfect , raw and pure. She is all that and much more! ❤️ Loved your take here...

I think sometimes we are so focused about who is right and who is wrong, that we forget there could be middle ground. Maybe we should start over and think of Shaurya and Anokhi as individuals and not just as a pair. We should remind ourselves about their individuality.

This entire track is not just about ShaKhi as a couple.... It is about Anokhi and Shaurya as individuals and their individual choices.

This is not about trust, it is about strength.

This track is not about Anokhi's love, it's about her aspirations.

It's not about Shaurya's love winning her over, it is about his own deep rooted insecurities.

Bang on! 🙌 I couldn’t have said it better!

More power to you girl! 😘🤗

Glad to know that there are more of us who understand Anokhi! ❤️ This post was collectively for those few of us whole could relate to her thoughts and her feelings! 🤗

Thank you so much, Rumi!

Unres done 🙈

You made me fall in love with Anokhi all the more Akshu 😳

OMG yes thank you for this post

I am biased towards this girl- I come from an area which is "backward" , a mix of rural and urban. Girls are expected to get married by 22 and gharwale starts marriage talks around 17, the moment they pass +2. Since rural area education isn't something they care about, the general attitude is like sasural mein kar legi. Usual patriarchal bs, top of it poverty and woman having zero say about the important decisions in her life. I see the women around me in anokhi, how she fights. And because of her story I want to see her becoming something- not as tool for a man so that his soch changes, but she herself becoming something. Career, education, respectable partner.

Maybe we as a woman are biased towards opposite gender, or kv portraying shaurya so nicely, as whatever happens the audience is like "oh his childhood wasn't great, he is a hurt sad little boy lashing out in a way he knows" and somehow anokhi needs to "get" him. But she's a kid too. She didn't come here to get tangled in these emotions, she came to study and have a life. If we are rooting for a love story we can't pin point one side and favor him. If shaurya is hurt, he needs healing. Similarly he also needs to grow up and make anokhi understand. And emotional hurt or bad childhood isn't a measurement of who's more"worthy" or who's more stable. How about we demand for both of them to be the best. Being partners in this journey.

Tagging as I would love to know your pov