Salary of daughter vs salary of daughter in law

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Posted: 9 years ago
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The Rai family didnot accept Payal's pocket money...

I wonder after the marriage if a daughter doesnot remain a part of the family where she was born and she loses all kinds of responsibilities towards the parents who toiled hard to educate her... 😔

The Prasad family were eager to accept Payal's entire salary...

I wonder after marriage a working daughter in law is just a source of income for the family 😔

If the society doesnot permit a family to take their daughter's salary after her marriage... how does the society permit another family to take their daughter in law's salary...

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Posted: 9 years ago
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You have raised an excellent question.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I do not believe this is a societal issue. In my opinion this is a matter of personal values and beliefs. The Rais believe that Payal should use her pay to set her home whereas the Prasads believe Payal's pay is the dowry money that is due to them.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: anonee

I do not believe this is a societal issue. In my opinion this is a matter of personal values and beliefs. The Rais believe that Payal should use her pay to set her home whereas the Prasads believe Payal's pay is the dowry money that is due to them.



I fully agree. In fact none of the family has a right on the salary. Once married its the choice of the two how to use the combined earnings. Two persons have to start a new life so it should be left to them.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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good post 👏 valid point ⭐️ ..
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I dont think a girl's responsibility towards her family gets reduced after marriage...A girl's place in the family s irreplaceable b it her salary or emotional support...
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