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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey everyone,

We can see in the show, the way Gauri is being ill-treated by the society and every day is like climbing a mountain for her.With her every step, we can see fingers being pointed out as to why did she take the first step, why did she choose that path or why did she continue with her journey and so on and so forth. It seems like her life is not hers but of the society who wants her to walk according to their diktat and follow the guidelines issued by them. She id being looked down upon and no matter how hard she tries to get above all of this, people do make sure that her wounds never heal. They make sure that they rip her apart in front of the entire clan so much so that she dreads to take the next step again.

All this makes me wonder that don't people have their own right to live the life they want to? Why is that every time there has to be so many people standing against the air you breath? Why a person is denied happiness because of their family's earlier repute?

Just because a person's past family repute has not been well, it doesn't mean that it would be carried on forward by him/her. I know as much as I say this, these things do exist but is it right on the part of the society to shower darkness unto the lives of these people? One cannot be entrusted as the bearer of that load through out his/her life.

There are numerous people around who face these situations everyday and seem to fighting it the hard way. Tackling these situations in real life is a daunting task as I merely sit here and write but those who have to face it out there, it is indeed hell of a job. Just wished, the society could have banished some of it's habits but then had it been the case, we would have been living in a paradise. Sigh!

So much is there to speak right now and I do agree there are many such issues lurking around which have not been looked upon but I saw today's epi and just couldn't hold back.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Oh dont get surprised darling!πŸ˜† Cause this is my first post here, feel yourself lucky that your thread got the honours!πŸ˜‰πŸ˜†
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Posted: 14 years ago
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This narrow minded society is busy in harrassing and hurting people who are not like them.I don't know what is the problem if someone wants to sing and someone to live her life according to her wish.Singing and dancing is not a crime.But why are they considered worse than a murder?And if they hate singing so much then why do they hire singers to sing in their functions and why do they enjoy their singing.If it is a crime then why do love to see it,hear about it.I just don't get this people.They should undergo a phychological test.
I can understand Sunehri Devi's pain.She wants to get her daughter married.But she should also understand that a man is not essential for a girl's life.A girl has so much strength that she can also leave alone.We should change our mentality towards girl.Girls are not objects of man.They have their own identity and also have the right to live their life on her own wishes and conditions.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I completely agree, people should live their life according to how they want to live, and please themselves and not the society..
First off singing is not a bad thing, neither is dancing.. its a passion.. and people love it, and admire it..

All those cheapos n pervs wanted Gauri to sing and dance, but they treat her and her family like crap for singingin the past, like what the hell make up ur god damn minds.. and they say its a bad thing.. and then they are there to witness it, like why watch it in the first place and then be a hypocrite..

like live for yourself, n let other's live their life, and mind ur own business.. i fee so sorry for Gauri, n for ppl who have to live through that in real life.. They just want people to be like them, and go according to them, and if ur not then ur going to get blamed and harassed for no apparent reason..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i agree with you. everyone have to live their life according to themself not according to the society. i think we never ever able to make society happy because may be what they like we don't like it for e.g Gauri like singing but she can't sing because society don't allow her. That's really sad because in my opinion follow your heart because then you will able to enjoy your life.

Posted: 14 years ago
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Very Good topic atop πŸ‘ πŸ‘
Society always has been curious to know what happens in other's life and is always interested in spoiling it.It happene with all of them,rich or poor,educated or uneducated, good or bad..It seems like people wont get peace without seeing the other getting demolished.Certain attacks are very deliberate and certain are harsh. Many a times we fail to recognise who is good to us and who is bad.People never encourage or support you except your parents.Its competetion and competetion everywhere and humanity is not heard anywhere.Women has always been a prey to man and her upliftment is neglected even now.She has always been considered as weak.One of my friend who is a boy once told me, "a girl should always be under a boy's order, and I'll never let my spouse stand equal to me"😳..So that does exist.A person's upliftment is always looked upon with evil eyes.In today's world people only think of how to pull the other person down..They can go to any extent to do that..I know families where just because parents are doctors, they wanted their child to be in the same profession as well,again social influenece is the reason...They never let person live their own life! strange...
Sometimes I use to think, what will such people earn from doing so.. and what did we do to them!?? πŸ˜•
A saying just came to my mind, while writing this, " when you are right, none remembers, when you are wrong none forgets"..
But sitting back and thinking will not do anything, being strong and fighting against fate will take you to the path of success.A strong willpower and self-confidence is the only remedy. And I'm sure, those who have complete faith in god and his powers, he'll always support.
Gauri in all ways is a very good example to many..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Thank you everyone for putting in your views, I'll read them today and reply to ya guys later in the night maybe...

Yes, indeed it is sad that society wants to take the reigns of someone's life..Everyone has the right to live life according to their own terms but sadly only few get to experience this right...

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