Originally posted by: kaasshh
i thnk any other grl....just any other grl wud be perfect for rudra except pihu... she was selfish,arrogant and loved him the least.... she loved only and only herself.... she falls in the same category as rudra's family.... whu does nt care for rudra becoz he is RUDRA bt becoz he is some kind of related to them.... 🤢🤢 wich,to me,is SICK...🤢
in the original story devdas,it wasnt parvati's fault.. it was purely devdas's fault,whu was himself frickle-minded and whimsical.... bt in THIS story... rudra has no fault....just no fault... so why the hell is he getting hurt by each and evry person huh?😡 how cn these people be sooo sooo heartless?😡 and pihu is one among them too.. heartless..thats what she is.....😡
if u want to break up with ur lover.. whu happens to be ur childhood frnd too.... wud u evr do it in such a horrible way...? like as if twisting the lifeblood out of his heart frst.. and then breaking it into a zillion pieces.... and then leaving him? after KILLING him? 😡😡😡 dnt u thnk thats insane? u may break up u may nt find him perfect for u... bt it cud also have vbeen done in a vry vry PROPER way.... bt pihu did it it such a way.... wich revealed that she did nt only want to break up with him... bt she also wanted to hurt him to the core... and believe me... one day she will get it back... frm that person whu is above all.....😡
she may feel upset coz rudra slapped her... bt tell me this frnds...why actually did rudra slap her? coz she was trying to prove in frnt of him that she is soo broad-minded... in spite of such a wonderful proposal and gift package like ABHAY.. she was still clinging with him.....😡😡😡😡 if i wud have in rudra's place i wud have slapped my partner and tell him to go to hell.... bt wat did rudra do? he had no fault,yet he came down on his knees and asked for forgiveness.. and that maharani....?😡🤬
after seeing so many thngs...... i have absolutely noo respect left for pihu.. she is trul;y a disgrace in the name of woman... whu is known for her tender nature...and her affectionate heart..... pihu does nt evn have a heart... and she DOES NT DESERVE A PERSON LIK RUDRA... though i know......that she will try to return back to rudra agen in the future... bt then i want rudra to do the same thngs to her as she did to him.....
I get the gist of your post but personally, I abhor the idea that someone in the relationship has to "deserve" the other. IMO, it is more that her personality does not complement his, nor his hers.
I also think Pihu is being unfairly portrayed as an egomaniac. I can't name a single girl I know who would be easily placated by an apology after her fiance slapped her. More than ego, it's about self-respect and I can't fault her for that. I would have been more disgusted with her character had she just turned over and forgiven him regardless of how heartfelt his words may have been. Words and apologies don't make everything rosy. Different strokes for different folks, I guess.
Also, I think people focus way too much on how hurt Rudra (hurt-comfort phenomenon) got after Pihu agreed to marry Abhay (a decision I consider extremely rash, just saying) -- what of Pihu? I can't imagine how betrayed and hurt (emotionally) she would be feeling if the one person she is supposed to trust above everyone else to protect her, slaps her in a moment of complete irrationality.
Pray tell, what exactly is a person like Rudra? I'm not Pihu's biggest fan but I think you're glossing over Rudra's many apparent flaws. He has insecurity issues, gets jealous very easily, impulsive agression, reactive rather than proactive, needy, etc. Point is -- he has a lot of qualities that aren't attractive just as she does. It doesn't make her any less "deserving" of him than it makes him, of her.
Furthermore, what you described as the idea of a woman: "tender nature" and "affectionate heart" sounds a tad stereotypical. Why does she have to conform to some idealist archetype? That she isn't a soft-spoken, gentle, conciliatory person isn't an argument against her, but rather an aspect of her personality.
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