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Posted: 14 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: televisionfan

Yes i totally agree with you...For a childhood friend as pihu puts it she coudn't understand rudr's unconditional and passionate love...may a subtle and strong Gauri cud bring him back to track...

thats why i believe we will get to watch a memorable love story between gauri and RudhraπŸ˜ŠπŸ˜ƒ
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Posted: 14 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: -JONAKI-

Hitting woman is a big deal.Sometimes a slap can kill a person.Women should not compromise with these men.Rather they should fight for their rights.
If a wife hits a huband then she is considered as an arrogant woman but when a man hits his wife then e blame the wife for provoking her husband.Why this discrimination?


yeah, I already said, in such situation a woman should file a complaint against these kind of men.. but have u ever heard that a wife asked her husband for divorce after getting slapped once by him.. a gf can break her relationship with that guy, the way Pihu did.. but trust me, in real life its not that easy for a woman(esp for a mid class woman) to walk out of her marriage just bcoz of one slap..

u said, if a wife hits a husband... but why, why would she raise her hand in the first place? bcoz she would be provoked by her husband or anyone else, and she would have a reason of doing so.. similarly, when a man does this act, he also had some reasons.. yunhi toh koi kisi ko slap nahin karta.. but again, this act of slapping is wrong, unacceptable!


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Posted: 14 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: waniya_fatima

but why did she provoked him... her words are enough to add fuel to his anger.... if she hasnt done that he wouldnt have slapped her either....


yeah, I agree with u 100%.. it seems like u didn't read what I said to Jonaki in my posts..

but u said she should have forgiven him " immediately ".. which I feel quite hard to do for any girl after getting slapped by her bf..


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Posted: 14 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: annu127


yeah, I already said, in such situation a woman should file a complaint against these kind of men.. but have u ever heard that a wife asked her husband for divorce after getting slapped once by him.. a gf can break her relationship with that guy, the way Pihu did.. but trust me, in real life its not that easy for a woman(esp for a mid class woman) to walk out of her marriage just bcoz of one slap..

u said, if a wife hits a husband... but why, why would she raise her hand in the first place? bcoz she would be provoked by her husband or anyone else, and she would have a reason of doing so.. similarly, when a man does this act, he also had some reasons.. yunhi toh koi kisi ko slap nahin karta.. but again, this act of slapping is wrong, unacceptable!


I know it is very difficult for a woman to leave her husband as most of the women of developing countries are dependent on their husbands's earnings.But if a woman decides to leave her husband for one slap then it is her personal decision.We have no rights to call her arrogant,shameless,home breaker and trust me a woman who leaves her husband are most often looked down by the society which I feel is completely wrong.A woman has full rights to break her marriage if she feels that she is not getting proper respect.
I feel if a man slaps a woman the woman also has full right to slap him.Then they can live together.A woman should atleast make a man realise her strenghts.Because often wives or gfs forgive their partner for slapping them once.I think in this case a woman should first slap the man and then she can forgive him.Otherwise these men take the women to for granted and keep on hitting them.
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Posted: 14 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: -JONAKI-

Did you saw that episode where Rudr told Pihu,"I would have never forgiven you if I was in your place."Then why we accept a girl to forgive and forget always.A girl has self-respect and emotions too.
Being in love with someone doesn't mean that you will have to forgive his every deed.
In USA and UK even parents are not allowwed to slap their kids which i find absolutely right.There are many other ways to teach someone a lesson.But in Hindi soaps it is always shown that a guy slaps his wife but still he is regarded as a good hman being and we accept the wife to worship him.But if a girl slaps a guy then she is considered as the vamp and we hate her.This is just my POV(no offence).


Jonaki, I wanna ask one Q to u here.. u hate/dislike Rudra bcoz he slapped Pihu.. rite? Fair enough! but in Daily Discussion Thread pg 44 u said that .. "Gauri will put him on jail.I will bail him and will be his friend.."

now tell me dear, what is this?? Why do u want to bail someone out who slapped his gf.. and why U wanna be a friend of a woman abuser.. ab kahan gai aapki nafrat is Rudra ke liye???? πŸ˜•


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Posted: 14 years ago
#36
Pihus character is something u can see or relate to .... its different from any characters i have seen so far ... she is arrogant, egoistic which is not wrong , glad we have a character like her .....

i am ok with her about demanding rudra to ask for forgiveness iam against slapping a women , but i wont deny provoked him and even after being with him since childhood days its rather baseless for her to be so rude with rudra ....

Hope we get to see more of her side later on , right now pace is gud n they r doing gud job by showing herside in bits n pieces ....... not saying it as a fan of Ruga, but being unbiased person
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Posted: 14 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: annu127


Jonaki, I wanna ask one Q to u here.. u hate/dislike Rudra bcoz he slapped Pihu.. rite? Fair enough! but in Daily Discussion Thread pg 44 u said that .. "Gauri will put him on jail.I will bail him and will be his friend.."

now tell me dear, what is this?? Why do u want to bail someone out who slapped his gf.. and why U wanna be a friend of a woman abuser.. ab kahan gai aapki nafrat is Rudra ke liye???? πŸ˜•


"Gauri will put him on jail.I will bail him and will be his friend.."
Well I was just kidding.We all members of RaGa FC pull each others leg and we keep on joking all the time.I hope you can differentiate between a joke and a serious issue.
Sangini is a fictional show.I watch it for entertainment not for learning something and it is not a show sending social messages.So I don't care what is happening between RuHu or RaGa.I love the show and watch it.I like Rudr because MIK is playing it and he is portraying the character perfectly.I love to watch Rudr but that doesn't mean that i would love a man like Rudr in real life also.I hate those men who hit women in real life and I want them to rot in jail.
But negative fictional characters attract me very much.Maybe because they add salt to the show.I used to love the fighting scenes between AK post marriage and I think most of us did.But I will never want something of that sort happens with me in real life also.Rudr is a fictional characterso it doesn't bother me if he slaps Pihu or not(Though I would have been happy oif he would not have done that).By wanting to be Rudr's friend I actually meant that I like MIK very much.I hope you can understand that.But in real life I would cut my realtionship with a woman abuser.
BTW,how do you remember page numbers and name of the topics exactly?πŸ˜ƒ
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: annu127


yeah, I agree with u 100%.. it seems like u didn't read what I said to Jonaki in my posts..

but u said she should have forgiven him " immediately ".. which I feel quite hard to do for any girl after getting slapped by her bf..


yeah i didnt read that but Anu,
i didnt say that she should have immediately forgiven him not at all instaed i said she should have forgiven him when he apologised... she knew he loves her so so much and she confessed this truth as well then was that reason so big to leave ur love like this and he again and agian said sorry for what he did to her.....
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Posted: 14 years ago
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