What Pihu did was wrong.

Hello Sangini-ians.
You all can call me Princezz as many calls me with this nick.
I am new to this forum and its my first thread so thought of giving just a formal intro.

Anyways my topic is about Sanjog se bani Sangini.

I really love this serial.Because of its storyline,Iqbal Khan and Additi Gupta.

Rudra:Rudra is Short-tempered , Sensitive , cannot control his anger and Egiostic IN SOME WAYS.Over all , he's very good , handsome , good looking , stylish and love Pihu very much.

Where as Pihu is also good looking , smart , talented but has a ego.

Rudra is possessive about Pihu as he loves her very much and so when she was discussing about Abhay and the marriage proposal , Rudra didnt like it and got angry as he is short tempered and in anger he did a mistake and slapped Pihu.

He didnt know that one small mistake of his will ruin his life and make his love away from him.Pihu took it on heart as she felt herself disrespected , and that was true she was disrespected but as she was reacting I got her mind.She thought that Rudra is narrow-minded and will be same after marriage too , if I talk about someone else after marriage maybe he can react in the same way.So thats why she took such an quick yet unreasonable decision of not marrying him and marrying Abhay.

I thought she was wrong at that time.Even Rudra was wrong when he slapped her and when he was being stubborn thinking that Pihu will apologize first but afterwardz he realized his mistake and agreed for the marriage and went to Pihu and calmly apologized.When he slapped her , he was in anger and couldnt control his anger and thus , he slapped her but that didnt mean he doesnt respect Pihu or doesnt loves her , ofcourse he does.

But what Pihu did was wrong.

Edited : And Pihu is friend of rudra since childhood so I thought she understands him best , no one would understand him as she does and if she really knew about rudra she wouldnt had taken such silly decision.

If Pihu felt she is disrespected or anything she could have just thought about it in sensible way , thought calmly that 'Rudra is like that since childhood and I am sure he said this in anger'

Because since childhood , RuHu had fights daily and just one small fight and they decided to separate.

And One more thing , Pihu clarified that it was not the slap but the words which Rudra said to him hurt her.But even Pihu said alot of things , that taking decision of marryying you was my biggest mistake and more over the biggest thing is that , she said directly to rudra that no one loves or cares about your happiness in your family it was just me'.After hearing that ofcourse rudra would be heart broken She said the most bitter truth of his life , it had to be hurting.

Do you all agree to me or not??
I would be waiitng for your precious comment.

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Edited : And Pihu is friend of rudra since childhood so I thought she understands him best , no one would understand him as she does and if she really knew about rudra she wouldnt had taken such silly decision.

If Pihu felt she is disrespected or anything she could have just thought about it in sensible way , thought calmly that 'Rudra is like that since childhood and I am sure he said this in anger'

Because since childhood , RuHu had fights daily and just one small fight and they decided to separate.

And One more thing , Pihu clarified that it was not the slap but the words which Rudra said to him hurt her.But even Pihu said alot of things , that taking decision of marryying you was my biggest mistake and more over the biggest thing is that , she said directly to rudra that no one loves or cares about your happiness in your family it was just me'.After hearing that ofcourse rudra would be heart broken She said the most bitter truth of his life , it had to be hurting.

Do you all agree to me or not??
I would be waiitng for your precious comment.

p.s:If you have liked my post , do press the like button.😊

Well, from what I understood of the interaction...I just get this nagging feeling that there is something more...

Because so far we have only seen everything happening through Rudr's side we don't know what exactly happened after Pihu came home after the fight.

I don't trust Rudr's mother at all and I just get the feeling she must have done something or said something...tricking Pihu into thinking Rudr does not love her or create some other misunderstanding.

Pihu has just as big of an ego as Rudr...quite frankly I think they both love each other so much that it's just not good for them...a destructive kind of love?

What you're doing is justifying that a man has a right to slap a woman if she does something wrong. Sorry, but that's not OK. Just because Pihu did something wrong, that does not give a man the right to slap someone.

Originally posted by: Laila2009

What you're doing is justifying that a man has a right to slap a woman if she does something wrong. Sorry, but that's not OK. Just because Pihu did something wrong, that does not give a man the right to slap someone.

First of all , My topic is somehting else.
And I never said that a man has right to salp a women and thats ok for me.
I said Rudra was angry at that time and he slapped her and whatever he did was WRONG but whatever Pihu did was ALSO WRONG.


Just because Pihu did something wrong, that does not give a man the right to slap someone

I never Said that.

i agree with u in many ways!!

Pihu took so many yrs to figure out that R is not the one??? Just 2 days before their wedding? thats totally unjustified and unethical.
When R slapped her,if she had such a big ego bout it she cud slap him,or im sure she will do so soon coz he is gna be drunk all the time!
Why did she humiliate him and his family??? doesnt she care at all? she told him i wont forget ur love!!! But it doesnt look like!!

I agree with you she did make a mistake and she will regret on this in future.