Slapping Women - Page 3

For me Rudhra really fell in my eyes when he slapped his girlfriend - it was really disgraceful and demeaning. And it is going to hard to view him as the lead and someone to "like" when he behaves in this manner.

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Yup , your right.
If your brother slap you 😆😆 or you slap him nothing happens.Even when a wife slaps her husband doesnt matters that much but when a husband or future husband slaps his wife or future wife its really disrespectful for the girl.

When a man slaps a woman it is disgraceful - men are often physically stronger and in a position of power - often financial - in many relationships. Slapping in general is unacceptable but women slapping men in a fit of anger is rare and often they get slapped or beaten further, so this behavior is RARE.

But the serial directors also wants to show some reality in their show and they should show.In this world , many husbands are like that who respects their wife very much but this world also contains the bad husband who considers there wife nothing.In india too even in pakistan.In small and poor villages , wife's are not treated with respect , they are never given equal status as the men.

What reality are they showing here? This is NOT what they want to show - a case of domestic violence - this is supposed to be the leading character, the hero of the show. We're supposed to like him. How are we supposed to like him when he goes around slapping women? A male character that slaps women and has no respect for them? It thought it was so disgraceful and such a degrogatory act. If I was with a guy who slapped me, I don't care how much I loved him, I NEVER want to see him again. If he can slap me it a) shows he does not respect me and b) if he can slap me today, what will he do to me tomorrow when he is upset? Beat me up. Is that the reality that we want to see?

Many shows show that husband loves , respects there wife's alot and are henpecked husband its true but in real life most of the time ,its the girl who is always treated unfair.

that's many shows, we're talking about THIS show.

😆😆Hehe I have gone too far but its just my pov and its reality too.And what Rudra did was wrong I do not disagree to that but in normal life its not a big issue.
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Actually it is a VERY big issue and for you to say it is not really is not a good sign. Perhaps to you it is not important but if you've ever study the field of domestic violence then you'll know that it is. Sorry but it sounds to me that you have a lot of learning to do and such blanket statements are really naive. And along with your emoticons of laughter, that's deeply disturbing.

You took me totally wrong.I know , whatever Rudr did was completely wrong.He is an lead actor and they should show him as a positive and strong chracter but they just wanted to potray him as a angry young fellow.

Slapping a women is disgraceful and disgusting thing.

hat's many shows, we're talking about THIS show.

I was just stating the majority.

Actually it is a VERY big issue and for you to say it is not really is not a good sign. Perhaps to you it is not important but if you've ever study the field of domestic violence then you'll know that it is. Sorry but it sounds to me that you have a lot of learning to do and such blanket statements are really naive. And along with your emoticons of laughter, that's deeply disturbing.

Listen for me it is a big issue as I am girl myself and I wouldnt suffer all this.But how the world is and how the world treats women , in that case I am telling its not a big issue , as for men its not.Since the world has started women has not got equal status as men.That's my point.For me it matters very much , I would never happen that to me or someone around me.
I added that emoticon as I didnt wanted to sound so serious.
We were discussing about a SHOW and I just added few reality points.

I hope I have cleared my point.

Originally posted by: annu127

can u give me a REAL life eg., when a wife slapped her husband, esp in our India, Pakistan society..😕

I just gave it an example.Sometime it does happen.🤢

thanks for this

Originally posted by: teri_deewani

thanks for this

who cares if its already happened once or twice it shouldnt . i dont know bat it kyph maybe not sure but wasnt tht wen kripa didnt love him :S

and main actor doesnt usually slap his wife if he LOVES her

lets change our thinking here,every show is different,the situations are different.
why is it ok if the main actress slaps the main guy but not vice versa?
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according to me,a slap is no big a deal,sometimes parents slap their kids,bros/sis fiight and hit each other,couples do... i think its ok as long as one is not turning deaf or bleedin to death. It also depends on how grave the situation is,what if one of the spouse has done somethin terribly wrong and doesnt even regret it,wouldnt it anger one???

OK here is a guy slapping a gal so we have this topic, how about when the leading actress goes on a slapping spree and slaps the actor, is that any different????

Originally posted by: 49erFan

OK here is a guy slapping a gal so we have this topic, how about when the leading actress goes on a slapping spree and slaps the actor, is that any different????

ok i said the same thing😆

Originally posted by: shopaholic83

lets change our thinking here,every show is different,the situations are different.
why is it ok if the main actress slaps the main guy but not vice versa?
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i neevr said it wasnt wrong in both cases

Originally posted by: shopaholic83

according to me,a slap is no big a deal,sometimes parents slap their kids,bros/sis fiight and hit each other,couples do... i think its ok as long as one is not turning deaf or bleedin to death. It also depends on how grave the situation is,what if one of the spouse has done somethin terribly wrong and doesnt even regret it,wouldnt it anger one???

sorry dont agree