Slapping Women

If a guy slaps a woman, that says a lot about the guy - it is not about poor impulse control but total disrespect. Sorry but that is really not an appealing character trait in a leading actor. I don't care how much he apologizes to her but slapping someone -especially a guy slapping the woman he is supposed to marry is REALLY disrespectful. There is NO excuse.

Zeetv writers wise up!

I'm not really bothered that he slapped Pihu as this was not the first time when a guy slapped a girl on television. saw many serials where the main lead slapped the female lead, so this was done just the same way. nothing different...I'm just...ehh! 😆

Originally posted by: mysticgoryfilms

I'm not really bothered that he slapped Pihu as this was not the first time when a guy slapped a girl on television. saw many serials where the main lead slapped the female lead, so this was done just the same way. nothing different...I'm just...ehh! 😆

Yup , your right.
If your brother slap you 😆😆 or you slap him nothing happens.Even when a wife slaps her husband doesnt matters that much but when a husband or future husband slaps his wife or future wife its really disrespectful for the girl.

But the serial directors also wants to show some reality in their show and they should show.In this world , many husbands are like that who respects their wife very much but this world also contains the bad husband who considers there wife nothing.In india too even in pakistan.In small and poor villages , wife's are not treated with respect , they are never given equal status as the men.
Many shows show that husband loves , respects there wife's alot and are henpecked husband its true but in real life most of the time ,its the girl who is always treated unfair.

😆😆Hehe I have gone too far but its just my pov and its reality too.And what Rudra did was wrong I do not disagree to that but in normal life its not a big issue.
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I have to agree. I seriously don't like this slapping business. Whatever Pihu did, she didn't physically hurt Rudra. Violence is wrong, coming from either sides. People need to learn to use their words no matter how angry they are. There is no justification. He has no excuse to raise his hands.

I totally agree with all of the above comments that ... slapping a girl is such a shameful thing....
It has become a common thing on television... to show things in extremes..... they show everything in extreme.... love in extreme, hate in extreme everything.... and to show that they use extreme situations..... and Some of us understand that this is not real....and it will never happen like that.....

We should not only condemn this situation also situations like.... lead actor drinking, lead actor gambling, lead actor slapping his wife/ lover or beating his wife..... Lead actor smoking, Lead actor beating 20 people with his one hand, lead actor betraying his wife and having an affair with another lady.... or sleeping with another lady .... in half his senses.....

Leading actor using abusing words against his wife..... Leading actor breaking things in the room in anger..... leading actor shooting another vilan.....

There are so many ... so many things on television.... I have personally always thought that they show 1% reality and 99% is exaggerated....

The reality is a husband who drinks and slaps his wife never regrets in his life and stop drinking...suddenly..... and I think.... for over a decade there has been a debate on this and nothing has changed.....

We always say it happens in villages.... but it also happens with people who are well educated....and who know what they are doing is not rational but still they do it.....
You can forgive some one who is ignorant but not some one who knows what he is doing is wrong and still does it....??

It's just not acceptable. It should not have been shown.

According to me what Pihu said was bad, but ofcourse Rudr shouldnt have lifted his hand as it is unethical, he should have controlled his anger. The scene reminds me of the popular hindi movie dialogue "Aurat pe haat uthanewala, mard nahi naa mard hota hai".

Originally posted by: Shreyacool

According to me what Pihu said was bad, but ofcourse Rudr shouldnt have lifted his hand as it is unethical, he should have controlled his anger. The scene reminds me of the popular hindi movie dialogue "Aurat pe haat uthanewala, mard nahi naa mard hota hai".

But I think zeetv writers have purposely shown this. I mean they have portrayed Rudr as a angry young man in the beginning who is unhappy with his life & later on he transforms into a better person after falling in love with gauri, so I feel the story is somewhat like that.

Shreyacool, Any guy who slaps a woman is not a man in my view. He is of no class and in my research we have found men who slap women are weak, have low self worth and are actually pretty pathetic. If we're going to have a leading male character with some class, then at least let us not have him engage in violence against women. It's really a demeaning trait in a man. I didn't like it and it left a really sour taste towards this storyline...

Yup , your right.
If your brother slap you 😆😆 or you slap him nothing happens.Even when a wife slaps her husband doesnt matters that much but when a husband or future husband slaps his wife or future wife its really disrespectful for the girl.

When a man slaps a woman it is disgraceful - men are often physically stronger and in a position of power - often financial - in many relationships. Slapping in general is unacceptable but women slapping men in a fit of anger is rare and often they get slapped or beaten further, so this behavior is RARE.

But the serial directors also wants to show some reality in their show and they should show.In this world , many husbands are like that who respects their wife very much but this world also contains the bad husband who considers there wife nothing.In india too even in pakistan.In small and poor villages , wife's are not treated with respect , they are never given equal status as the men.

What reality are they showing here? This is NOT what they want to show - a case of domestic violence - this is supposed to be the leading character, the hero of the show. We're supposed to like him. How are we supposed to like him when he goes around slapping women? A male character that slaps women and has no respect for them? It thought it was so disgraceful and such a degrogatory act. If I was with a guy who slapped me, I don't care how much I loved him, I NEVER want to see him again. If he can slap me it a) shows he does not respect me and b) if he can slap me today, what will he do to me tomorrow when he is upset? Beat me up. Is that the reality that we want to see?

Many shows show that husband loves , respects there wife's alot and are henpecked husband its true but in real life most of the time ,its the girl who is always treated unfair.

that's many shows, we're talking about THIS show.

😆😆Hehe I have gone too far but its just my pov and its reality too.And what Rudra did was wrong I do not disagree to that but in normal life its not a big issue.
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