Originally posted by: bunny_fun
i agree with you, it is refreshing to see something original and not some conspiracy or tyaag or some vachan etc...
they just assumed that they love eachother, but they are completely different persons, in their way of thinking, one is angry at the whole world, one is practical at the choices she is given.
When you live with some person long enough... you start to think she/he is made for you as you understand him/her the most, But truth could be entirely different, given a situation one would think this person would do this and say this as i know him/her, but they may do the completely opposite.... this does not mean you were completely wrong, may be the way you saw a situation is not the same way the other saw the situation....
But in the end, What i think is Marriages are made in Heaven, and the one for you is already there some where and if it is not the one you choose then anything you do will not change whom you get married to in the end.....
I want to analyze more, but sorry busy and have to go..!!
Will surely come back to write more.... :)
@Bold: Well said....exactly sometimes you start to assume a lot about each other when you've known each other long enough...but certain situations can explode into ways you'd never imagine and expose the chinks in the base of a relationship.....I think that is what has happened with these two....they've known each other forever and been in love forever too it seems....but it seems that they've both taken each other for granted in some ways....especially in the case of Pihu....if it was indeed so easy for her to break a relationship with the guy she was about to marry in a couple of days, then obviously a lot was wrong with this relationship that both of them overlooked for a long time and kept brushing under the carpet.
Apart from the fact that their character flaws are such that they would have torn each other apart sooner or later anyways, it takes two ppl to want to salvage a relationship.....in this case, both of them refused to back down for quite a bit....Rudra only mellowed a bit when his mother told him that Pihu is fine with the wedding going ahead and he presumed that Pihu had forgiven him and gotten over the fight and that's when he gave in too and went and apologized to her....and Pihu on the other hand had never budged....rather she was taking twisted pleasure in thumbing her new fiance in his face....which is far more sadistic I feel but there it is.
Bottom line, they weren't meant to last.....Destiny has other plans for them.
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