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amu142

@amu142

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Posted: 14 years ago

#11

This was the MOST PATHETIC REASON TO CALL OFF A WEDDING!

Pihu NEVER LOVED Rudra.........

Rudra came and apologised...but this girl didnt tell him a word....she cud hv saved him a lot of pain by declaring that she would not be marrying him, there itself...but no, she had to humiliate him further....

Pihu doesn't deserve Rudr......it was almost like she never loved him in the first place,a nd was doing hima favor, coz his family ignored him, and only she gave him importance

what kind of arrogance is this? oh u poor puppy...i take care of u...else u wud b thrown out? huh! attitude!

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Sanz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

What a wonderful topic, Anita. 👏

I agree with vena, ami, amu & fatima here. This has to be the single-handedly the worst ever break-up reason in the history of on-screen break-ups. First of all, teasing can be done in all sorts of ways but to tease your soon-to-be-hubby by taking another man's name and to be relentless about it is certainly something that Pihu should not have done. Its rather childish on her part to compare Abhay's proposal to Rudr's. Moreover, like vena said, Pihu who has claimed to love Rudr and know him inside out should have known that no man, let alone Rudr, would like to be compared to another on the occasion of his wedding. Pihu knew what Rudr had to put up with in his childhood and she poked fun at the same sensitive issue that had troubled Rudr all his life and that was the main reason why Rudr got so attached with Pihu and started loving her. So she should have not used such atrocious words to injure his soul, his very ego. I definitely fault Pihu more than anybody else here. Her reasons for marrying Abhay is yet another ridiculous front here. Bottom line is that these two had to be separated for one reason or the other. I just wished that the reasoning behind it would have been a bit more concrete and substantial that what was shown.

Cheers,
Sana~

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amu142

@amu142

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Posted: 14 years ago

#13

Agree with Sana...they had to separate Ruhu, and could have shown any bloody reason in the world rather than a childish fight

they fought like 2 kids over a toy and decided not to talk to each other till the other apologises...when they didnt, they decided to part ways.....

Creatives didnt find any other possible reason? How pathetic....such weak characters...both of them...hope they willdevelop Rudra's character from now on....coz I can see Pihu's character coming to an end , this week, or next week,a fter her wedding

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Anita Malik

@anitamalik

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

@Aliya: Thanks for replying! I agree with you completely

@Komal: If she really did love Rudra, like you said, she wouldn't have said all that she did today! This was seriously a stupid fight :| I can't believe the creatives seperated them cause of a dumb reason..You know I really hope Pihu regrets her decision cause that's what she deserves!

@Fatima: I agree! I want them together too, but I really don't know what is gonna happen :Thanks for replying!

@ alujna-21: I really hope you're right and she regrets the decision she took in a haste cause of that arrogance of hers! She seriously thought this was THE best moment to get all her grudges for him out ..she went on to talk about his family and how she's the only one that gave him love...I think that's not an appropriate time to bring that up honestly :\ she took a hurried decision! Relationships don't work out like this in real life..Pihu needs some straightening up! Thanks for replying!

@vena.cava.: I couldn't agree with you anymore! You said it perfectly! Like you said "Couldn't Pihu see the sincerity in his voice and eyes when he spoke to her."—I think she's immune to it ..cause if that was me, I would melt LOL..Her character isn't appealing me to me at all! I can't comprehend how she decided to base her FUTURE life decision from this ONE argument :\ like seriously? And yes, the fact that she went on to talk about his family and the ignorance, really did hurt him deep down! You can't even blame the man! Shes like RANTINGG about everything in ONE go :| I think any sane man would do something impulsive!

At her getting married with Abhay, --ITS SUCH an impulsive decision and SHE will regret! I think Pihu needs more substance in her character..So far its really arrogant and " I WILL DO WHAT I WANT IN MY LIFE" types :S I think shes just marrying him to prove a point to Rudra that HE can't live without her -_-

Thanks for replying!(:

@locman: Yes, her character needs more to it! Cause what I saw from today, Pihu seems so self centered :| thanks for replying(:

@Mages: thanks for replying!

@-Ami-: I couldn't agree more with you! Pihu certainly crossed her limits in the flashback..The blame should go entirely to her, she didn't allow Rudra to say anything..She just kept going and going! And honestly, if you really love the man, like she claimed, she wouldn't have said ALL that she DID say! And then calling off the wedding—HASTY decision!

I don't think Rudra was wrong in slapping her..i think any man who was in Rudra's place would do something or the other..and then after she ran away, I think he tried hurting himself right? I didn't see that bit properly..

@Amu142: "THE MOST PATHETIC REASON TO CALL OF THE WEDDING"—perfectly said! I honestly thought there would be more behind the reason why the wedding would be called off… this fight was really lame! I was let down by the reason! And yes, even when he came to her room to apologize( even though I think PIHU should have apologized cause I can't believe SHE called OFF THE WEDDING at that spot and said THAT SHE WOULD MARRY ABHAY! I thought she was saying things in anger..she wouldn't actually do it, but she surprised me :| ) but like I was saying, even when he came, apologized, she didn't utter a word, tell him ITS FOR REAL OFF..I can't imagine how Rudra felt when she said the mendhi was "A for Abhay". Humiliation to the core..I don't think rich societies act like that, do they? Lol, then again this is fiction!

Like you said, Pihu certainly showed today that she didn't deserve him! I don't think LOVE can be that weak, especially bachpan ka pyaar..Thanks for replying!(:

@smartc (sana): "single-handedly the worst ever break-up reason in the history of on-screen break-ups"- couldn't agree more! It was PATHETIC! The comparing Abhay to Rudra was really uncalled for..she felt the jealousy too, but she kept going on! Like, don't you understand! And yes, she did hurt his ego/feelings by picking at the ignorance towards him by his family—uncalled for again! Thanks for replying! Loved your post..i really wished the reason was more sufficient for a childhood love story to break!

@amu142: yup! They should have had a stronger reason! Like I said before, love aint that weak! Pihu is messed up :\ I really wonder what her role would be in the story now..cause I don't know what they can do for her in the story now..

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Alu-

@Alu-

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Posted: 14 years ago

#15

Anu i am think they has to be some other reason behind it which we will find out later
Lets see
Wait and watch i guess

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Sanz

@smartc

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Posted: 14 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: amu142
Agree with Sana...they had to separate Ruhu, and could have shown any bloody reason in the world rather than a childish fight

they fought like 2 kids over a toy and decided not to talk to each other till the other apologises...when they didnt, they decided to part ways.....

Creatives didnt find any other possible reason? How pathetic....such weak characters...both of them...hope they willdevelop Rudra's character from now on....coz I can see Pihu's character coming to an end , this week, or next week,a fter her wedding

You know what amu? This had to be the silliest reason behind a separation of two childhood lovers. I was not at all impressed with how things turned out. I wanted something solid to have taken place to become a reason there. They could have shown the old family tensions as a reason there.. Just like Devdas where both stayed stubborn for the sake of their respective families' name. But perhaps there is more that exists here.. More than what meets the eye.. Perhaps somehow, Rudra's mom is involved in all this and somehow she instigated the whole debacle knowing well enough that Pihu was not going to marry Rudra but she still went ahead and brought him along to get his heart broken at the very venue of his Mehndi. Something's fishy about her character..I can't put my fingers on it but it really is.

I hope that I am right in assuming so or else, I am just unable to digest this "childish fight" as u put it becoming the reason of RuHu's separation.. *sighs*

You are right that Pihu's character will come to an end soon. However, I've a feeling that she'll be resurfacing back from time to time or else Aditi would not have taken up this role just for a cameo.

Cheers,
Sana~

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Sanz

@smartc

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Posted: 14 years ago

#17

@ Anita: You're most welcome, hun. I loved the post heaps and enjoyed reading it so just couldn't stop myself from commenting 😳 ~

@ Kajenaliya: I am pretty sure that Rudra's mom is up to no good. She's definitely the driving force behind this breakup.

Cheers,
Sana~

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Anita Malik

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Posted: 14 years ago

#18

Sanaaa! You're post before about Rudra's mother..I also think she's REALLY fishy..especially the way her character is, I really think theres something going on behind her mind, what we can't see atm... Like I know she cares about self-respect and all, but I don't only think that can be the only reason shes adamant on having the marriage occur in the first place..like despite the mendhi incident between Janki and her at Pihu's place, it was like she KNOWS the truth that it wont happen, but she wants the marriage anyways?--I think there is certainly more than what meets the eye with her..or maybe, we're just overthinking LOL

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Sanz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#19

@ Anita: Ditto..She knew about it beforehand and she still led his son to have his heart crushed at the venue of his very own Mehndi function..Cruelty at its peak, I tell ya.. While Pihu's being mean on one side, Rudra's mom was no less..

Makes me wonder.. Is Rudra their real son even??

For the sake of the show, I hope there is a better reason than the one given in yesterday's episode for RuHu's breakup or else... I don't know what else to say honestly *hehehe*

Out for the night. Take care folks and thanx for the lovely discussion, Anita 🤗

Sana~

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Tasneem

@Tasneem-17

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Posted: 14 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: Mages
both are immature......

but yes i will say pihu's fault...

its true that both r immature and pihu is a litle too much compared to rudra, but what i think is that the producers r intentionally building-up her character that way so that later in the future the audience can feel for rudra-gauri and find them more suitable for each other. According to the real "Devdas" story (not the movie....the real one which is actaully in books) it was ego clashes between both Dev-Paru and mostly which had to do with the family status and all the stuffs......not such childish, immature arguments which leads to a break-up. Its nothing but stupidity. I've to say that the producers r very smart in reacing their goal. They wanted us to feel more for rudra and thats what is happening. So basically what i'm trying to say is that the character Pihu is bound to be very very egoistic according to the script. It would've been better if a more sensible reason was shown behind the break-up but.....😔 (i wish i could be the script writer😉)

Now coming to the break-up part, i found both very insensible. Men have serious ego probs and yes thus pihu should'nt have streched it too much. But on the other hand, Rudra could just go away from there or may be shout at her even harder but why slap. Its very true that bringing up comparisons in a coversation esp about sb else or families will make anyone furious, but one has to have control over their anger. So, its clear that both rudra and pihu is to be blamed. Rudra should've controlled his anger and pihu should've been a little more mature while speaking, plus their ego clashes is nothing new to be added. But again, mostly the blame is going for Pihu..........so i have to say that Additi Gupta has completely done justice to her role and perfomed it with such perfection that she derserves a big applause 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏. She has just made the character come out so real and brillianly that we just can't stop our commenting on it😉.

I would again say that the producers should've really thought of sth diff for the break-up rather than this silly argument which took place over the bridge .

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