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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey guys!

If you watched today's episode, you would see that a lot was cleared up about the misunderstanding/fight between Rudra and Pihu..

Who would you blame for the fight that took place between them?

I would put the blame on Pihu actually. She didn't need to boast the other man (Abhay's) proposal so much in front of Rudra. She was taking it all as a joke for a few moments, which was fine, and then she went back to rambling about Abhay and his parivaar. Like Rudra said himself in the flashback, he never stopped her from talking about Abhay, but today is just unacceptable.. We all know that men have egos, and they wouldn't want to hear any other man's praise coming from their fiancee's mouth, I admit...

Once Rudra backlashed about her talking about him, she lost it! She started saying stuff like "maine zindagi ki sabsi baari galti ki hai tumse pyaar karke"---Umm honestly, just cause of this petty fight who would say that ? In reality, I don't think I would judge my LOVE for him, cause of this ONE nokh jhok.

Love is all about fights, making up, and understanding each other. Pihu SHOULD have kept her calm. Rudra was like just standing their listening to her, and he couldn't take it when she insulted their love, hence the slap--which I don't blame him for.

Pihu further on instigates the matter saying YES she will marry Abhay, uski naam ki mendhi lagaye gi... I really think stuff like this makes the matter worse than what it is, and Pihu did just that cause of her ego and arrogance. I don't think it was neccesary for her to even say stuff like this. I think Pihu really makes decisions fast which I think would hurt her in the future--we'll have to see about that...

However, I do think Rudra did take too long to apologize..on the mendhi day? Like really? but I guess he was hurt :( since the only woman he loved in his life fought with him like that... But better late than never. HE TOOK the initiative to apologize although I think Pihu should have!


Now what I think they need some GROWING up and some maturity--especially from Pihu's side. Taking hasty decisions can sometimes be really bad..

Oh and also, if she really loved Rudra, I don't think she would have said what all she did say

Note: This is not a Pihu bashing topic..so please state your POV in a calm manner :D


-Anu


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26javey thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Res

will watch today's epi and comment
but by what I read it does seem like Pihu is wrong
Alu- thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I know why was she going on about Abhay Guys always have ego problems but she went on and on about him.
Like what she Said was a bit to harsh specially when they could have made up.
He was late in apologizing but atleast he did and it was a cute scene Rudra looked hot .
Anyways i guess this had to happen
Nice topic Anu ❤️
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey Anu
I completely agree with ya, it was a bit harsh from Pihu's side. She shouldn't have said all those things she really did love Rudra. Pihu just crossed the limits today I guess, all the praising of Abhay and his family and that telling Rudra that loving him was her biggest mistake was just wrong...Only becoz of a small fight she took this biggest n silliest decision of breaking off with him was just a bit too early....No Man can take his lover praising or/and taking about some other man....

Agree with Rudra's apologizing was bit too late but better late than never....

Yes Pihu n Rudra needs to be more mature in their decision specially Pihu....
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Posted: 14 years ago
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hey anita
i agree with u the blame is on pihu she was too much what she said was wrong & she knw that but coz of her ego she didn't back up rudr apologize but it was late but better late then never.
this had to happen but i want them together hehe
b/w i love them coz of their ego hehe
nice topic
luv
Fatima
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Posted: 14 years ago
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you see her arrogance will cost her a lot but that must be added as it is a show based on devdass.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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What irritates me is that Pihu has known Rudra for so long and she knows that he dislikes it when she talks about Abhay, so why would she bring him up now? Does she take pleasure in seeing Rudra jealous or w.e. emotion she wanted to provoke in him? Of course every man has an ego but her talking about Abhay was just annoying for Rudra and it was becoming evident. I agree that it did take Rudra a while to apologize but atleast he did. Couldn't Pihu see the sincerity in his voice and eyes when he spoke to her. His very gesture of apologizing should have knocked something akin to realization in her. This man is madly in love with you, he would do anything for you. But alas Pihu was stubborn as ever and is now intent on marrying Abhay. The one thing that completely had me unhinged was when Pihu said that Rudra was nothing without her and that no one even loved him save for her. That pretty much killed him. It doesn't justify his hitting her but it does justify his impulsive behaviour to (even though he should not have acted upon it). Pihu has no idea that she lost the only man that could ever truly love her more than himself. Also I feel she is getting married for all the wrong reasons. I mean how well does she even know Abhay? Is she marrying him because he is fully aware of her relationship with Rudra and does not care or because he has 'status/power/money' all the useless things she was ranting on about on the bridge?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree I agree I agree!!
Pihu went way over the top. And frankly her character is not really believable.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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both are immature......
but yes i will say pihu's fault...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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For the fight...to be honest, I'm going to have to blame Pihu for it. She just sort of had the slap coming for her after she started comparing between Rudra and Abhay's family and status. It really made go, seriously. Because right now, they were to be married in two days, and I disliked how Pihu was comparing status and the two men. Plus, like Rudra said, he had never stopped her before this..but come on. They're to be married in TWO days! I feel like now would've been a good time for her to stop.

Plus, I'm pretty sure what triggered the slap more was the way Pihu talked about how the only person who loves and pays attention to is her. She seriously said that his family is too ignorant towards him which leaves him to be the way he is today. =( I really think that's what triggered the fight to go more intense then and which made Rudra slap her. =(
For the apology issue, I agree that it did take Rudra a while to say sorry..but he said it nah? If Pihu hadn't acted so quickly about making the decision to marry Abhay so soon, maybe they both could've solved thier problems together and could've been together. =(
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