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Originally posted by: MP_Radha
Now as to who is at fault, well during the bridge scene, first of all, Pihu should have never compared her man (Rudra) to another man, and most importantly comparing Rudra's status/ money to Abhay! Money is nothing compared to love!!!! Moreoever, she had pinpointed the fact that there is no one else who showered love on Rudra 🥺. If you love someone dearly, you should never hurt that person with words, even for joke. And Pihu continued to aggrevate Rudra, even after his warning. This shows that for Pihu her ego and pride matter more than the feelings of the love of her life? . I agree.First she was joking which was not right.But still it is not that big mistake.But slowly she turned serious.The way she told that Abhay's family is very rich,classy,modern and abhay is a very broad minded person is very wrong.If you have agreed to marry Rudr then why are you comparing Abhay with him.She was trying to proof that she is doing a favour t Rudr by marrying him.Then again, Rudra was at fault slapping her! Physical force can never solve any problems! They will only worsen it! If only he had shared his true feelings with her, i.e. how those words hurt him, things would have been better. But given that Rudra had never gotten love and support from his family, he was expected to react the way he did! Moreoever, I guess bound to show more anger at someone they love lots and are poessessive about naa! But right after he slapped her, he regretted it , which really shows that it wasn't his intention to slap her but those words provoked him! I am against rudr in this matter.You don't have any right to physically abuse a girl.No matter how much sorry you are your crime can not be forgotten.Now before I get into the Mehndi scene......... I must talk about Pihu's and Rudra's family! Both fathers are entirely business minded people who just want to get their kids married into families that will benefit them 😡. Seriously..... then the mothers! Even though they knew of the problem, then never bothered to help Rudra and Pihu by making them understand things, and come to a solution, as a family. They should have called for a meeting between the two families as soon as they hurt about it.... instead they felt their pride was at stake, so moved on with the function!I hate Pihu's family more than Rudr's.They could have gone to Rudr's house to inform them that Pihu has called off the wedding.Now Pihu..........how could she do this? 😲😲🥺... yes Rudra was wrong in slapping her, but that doesn't mean she had to choose another guy over him especially on the same day she was supposed to marry Rudra 😲! This clearly shows that she wants to take revenge on him!! But there has to be some other reason for this........... that one fight can't be the reason for her sudden change of decision 😕... The thing Pihu did at her Mehendi is just too much wrong.Just to take revenge on your boyfriend you have decided to marry someone else.She has no right to humiliate an entire family.She is also playing with Abhay's emotions.But by this Pihu doesn't realize that this will hurt three people's lives.... that is Rudra's, Abhay's and her own!!! she was in love with Rudra (and I'm sure she won't be able to forget him easily too)......just to teach him a lesson she is going to marry someone else...... but will she be able to love Abhay the same way she loved Rudra? And how would Abhay feel when he comes to know that his wife is in love with Rudra?If only Pihu had told him the truth upstairs........ instead of insulting him like this. This makes me wonder if it was true love 🥺🥺🥺... or was it purely the game of her hurt ego just b/c Rudra didn't apologize on time?It is not love.I am sure now.
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