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Posted: 14 years ago
#11

Yes agreed😭

It was bitter but happened
She should have clearly told to Rudra that she isnt interested any more, keeping him in dark......
She even arranged herself with abhay......
Both like each other may be it isnt love
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think both of them are at fault for sure! NO man has the right to physically hurt a girl, EVER... just because he regrets it, it does not mean that she has to forgive him. He can apologize all he wants but if Pihu is still hurt/scared/mad, she has the complete right to be. But at the same time she is at fault for being impulsive and making a really quick decision...she could have waited before agreeing to marry Abhay
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sapnon_ki_pari

I think both of them are at fault for sure! NO man has the right to physically hurt a girl, EVER... just because he regrets it, it does not mean that she has to forgive him. He can apologize all he wants but if Pihu is still hurt/scared/mad, she has the complete right to be. But at the same time she is at fault for being impulsive and making a really quick decision...she could have waited before agreeing to marry Abhay



Iagree with you. I don't think pihu should forgive rudr just cos he said sry. What he did was wrong. But yes in the function she couldve said it but honestly if ur ex bf who u r super angry at comes back to apologize like a few Mins before it mehendi function, no girl who know what to do. She'd most prob look confused n pihu did seem confused.

Both r at fault n the bigger fault lies in the creatives who r tryin to force devdas story with no proper characterisations
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Posted: 14 years ago
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well if they are like copying devdas type of thing..
parvati has the ego and is angry that even after a small fight...he didnt come back for her...
after hearing about her marriage...
so she felt he didnt love her as much ..
you kno ego..and he was too stupid to understand
its complicated

so they are both at fault but pihu a bit more
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sapnon_ki_pari

I think both of them are at fault for sure! NO man has the right to physically hurt a girl, EVER... just because he regrets it, it does not mean that she has to forgive him. He can apologize all he wants but if Pihu is still hurt/scared/mad, she has the complete right to be. But at the same time she is at fault for being impulsive and making a really quick decision...she could have waited before agreeing to marry Abhay



i understand that no man shud physically abuse a woman. But rudra slapped her not beat her up. and not because he is a bad guy or was drunk,only coz she provoked him. How wud any man tolerate his lover praising another guy? my husband wouldnt! not if a dragged it If pihu si mad she shud tell R clearly not drag it. And to the extent get married to another guy!!! And purposely provoke R again by holding Abhay😭
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Posted: 14 years ago
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iam not taking sides but i blame pihu , their fight was childish, pihu went over the top with her words , but i felt very bad for rudra,.... he dont deserve this insult n neither his family
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: JayaV

iam not taking sides but i blame pihu , their fight was childish, pihu went over the top with her words , but i felt very bad for rudra,.... he dont deserve this insult n neither his family



even her family was insensitive toawrds him,esp P's father!!!😡
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree Jaya he didnt deserve it at all, she could have told him sooner! I blame his mom too !
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I wish Aditi was Gauri because now i hate to see Aditi in -ve role-

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Oh man, I'm so shattered 🥺🥺🥺... seeing poor Rudra in this state 😭😭😭!
Now as to who is at fault, well during the bridge scene, first of all, Pihu should have never compared her man (Rudra) to another man, and most importantly comparing Rudra's status/ money to Abhay! Money is nothing compared to love!!!! Moreoever, she had pinpointed the fact that there is no one else who showered love on Rudra 🥺. If you love someone dearly, you should never hurt that person with words, even for joke. And Pihu continued to aggrevate Rudra, even after his warning. This shows that for Pihu her ego and pride matter more than the feelings of the love of her life? .
Then again, Rudra was at fault slapping her! Physical force can never solve any problems! They will only worsen it! If only he had shared his true feelings with her, i.e. how those words hurt him, things would have been better. But given that Rudra had never gotten love and support from his family, he was expected to react the way he did! Moreoever, I guess bound to show more anger at someone they love lots and are poessessive about naa! But right after he slapped her, he regretted it , which really shows that it wasn't his intention to slap her but those words provoked him!
So the bridge scene, both Pihu and Rudra, if they understood each other really well, they could have easily solved this mere misunderstanding by stopping their argument right there and sorting it out later! But Pihu's ego and Rudra's temper got in the way 🥺!!!
Now before I get into the Mehndi scene......... I must talk about Pihu's and Rudra's family! Both fathers are entirely business minded people who just want to get their kids married into families that will benefit them 😡. Seriously..... then the mothers! Even though they knew of the problem, then never bothered to help Rudra and Pihu by making them understand things, and come to a solution, as a family. They should have called for a meeting between the two families as soon as they hurt about it.... instead they felt their pride was at stake, so moved on with the function!
Now Pihu..........how could she do this? 😲😲🥺... yes Rudra was wrong in slapping her, but that doesn't mean she had to choose another guy over him especially on the same day she was supposed to marry Rudra 😲! This clearly shows that she wants to take revenge on him!! But there has to be some other reason for this........... that one fight can't be the reason for her sudden change of decision 😕...
But by this Pihu doesn't realize that this will hurt three people's lives.... that is Rudra's, Abhay's and her own!!! she was in love with Rudra (and I'm sure she won't be able to forget him easily too)......just to teach him a lesson she is going to marry someone else...... but will she be able to love Abhay the same way she loved Rudra? And how would Abhay feel when he comes to know that his wife is in love with Rudra?
But it was totally heart wrenching to see Rudra be insulted that way, in front of all the guests 😭😭😭..... Poor guy.... thanks to his mom, he was given false hope ...even after that ill treatment by Pihu's family, the mom urged him to take blessings! I felt Pihu's mom should have talked to them then and there, informing them of the changes in plan.... Both of their families play a huge role in this mess! Poor Rudra was left to dream on.
If only Pihu had told him the truth upstairs........ instead of insulting him like this. This makes me wonder if it was true love 🥺🥺🥺... or was it purely the game of her hurt ego just b/c Rudra didn't apologize on time?
Edited by MP_Radha - 14 years ago
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