Originally posted by: hi50
Exactly..! At this point I am confused whether that was at all love or only attraction.. It seems a challenge for a playboy like Sid.. he wanted to win Ishani like all other girls and wanted her to drool over him.. He flirted with her openly at a point that their colleagues/seniors/rivals/Sid's family, everyone believed that something was cooking between them.. and poor Ishani was encouraged by others, including Sid's family...!
Love is a deeper feeling.. I don't understand how one can stoop so low and humiliate his/her loved ones like that.. we can get angry, get hurt.. but that drama...!! He questioned her personal and professional ethics, knowing fully well that she has no one to share things with, no family and Sanjivani is the only place where she some interactions with people.. and those words to Rahul were very cheap.. I was feeling like screaming: Ishani is a person, not a commodity that these males can decide who can have it..
That's why I would like Ishani to back of from Sid's 'fake' care.. I know it takes time to forget and move on, but she can certainly back of, her ethics/dignity/mission for patient welfare should be more important than wasting time on 'fake' people.. I also want another cameo entry for Ishani, but no one from Sanjivani please..!!
If it is love then it does not comply with my definition of love, or should I say common definition even. Love needs attraction ( even lust , yes it is a component of romantic love ) + Respect + Care + Sense of belonging . Here , Dr. Sid has only the first one with Dr. Ishani . We saw him worrying over her for a brief second and then jumping back to me and my biwi mode.
The words said to Raghav was cringe worthy and that's not how you talk about your friend and colleague ( I repeat I don't hold it to him to behave as her lover becoz he never claimed or promised such a thing . ) but I do hold him to behave as a decent human being , unless he's the new villain ?? In that case , I'll stop doing that too.
Also, one interesting thing . When Ishani was asking Asha for an answer in the road , Sid was answering for her , which is not acceptable. Asha is not dumb , no she was just playing dumb . I'm sure she can speak for herself ?? But Sid told Ishani off and even called her a stalker once again , which is very unfair because she was talking to her best friend and not him and he's no right to come between two best friends . Not every thing is about him. Ishani is not grief stricken over the loss of her love only , she's lost her best friend too in one go, the one she'd from the moment she stepped foot in the hospital . Loss of trust is more difficult to heal than loss of love. Of course she'd feel betrayed by Asha and she needs to know why she did this with her . Any sane person would want to know.
Edited by HeartQuake - 5 years ago
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