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This clip is enough to explain Ishani's messed up state and how she has no control over it. Its very natural for a person to fall in love for a person like Dr Sid.
This clip is enough to explain Ishani's messed up state and how she has no control over it. Its very natural for a person to fall in love for a person like Dr Sid.
Yes this is very natural feeling and it happens with everybody in her age. Only difference is that in India we generally don't express it, mainly girls. I am really confused why people are finding it OTT. But aunties can not except this kind of track on TV 😃, not their fault. In india for ladies so many conservative rules but boys are free to feel and express anything. That is the reason i find Sanjivani a modern day TV show which everybody cannot accept. I did not find any post on this forums for SID feelings as OTT. MIND SET 🤢
Yes this is very natural feeling and it happens with everybody in her age. Only difference is that in India we generally don't express it, mainly girls. I am really confused why people are finding it OTT. But aunties can not except this kind of track on TV 😃, not their fault. In india for ladies so many conservative rules but boys are free to feel and express anything. That is the reason i find Sanjivani a modern day TV show which everybody cannot accept. I did not find any post on this forums for SID feelings as OTT. MIND SET 🤢
But talking with teddy bears, imagining butterflies all that IS indeed OTT.These would have been good and cute to watch if it was love story between two school kids. But they are adults . It's weird for adults to act like this. They could have handled this track in a matured way. People don't find Sid OTT because he isn't doing these childish things. Too difficult to understand? So you are labeling all the people who aren't able to connect to Ishani as conservative and questioning their mindset?? This is a forum dude.. You can't expect everyone to go gaga over the way they handled this track. You can go to twitter. You'll find like minded people there who enjoy this track
Ps: I'm a Sidisha fan. But I'm just upset by the way they handled this track
Originally posted by: KootyPai
But talking with teddy bears, imagining butterflies all that IS indeed OTT.These would have been good and cute to watch if it was love story between two school kids. But they are adults . It's weird for adults to act like this. They could have handled this track in a matured way. People don't find Sid OTT because he isn't doing these childish things. Too difficult to understand? So you are labeling all the people who aren't able to connect to Ishani as conservative and questioning their mindset?? This is a forum dude.. You can't expect everyone to go gaga over the way they handled this track. You can go to twitter. You'll find like minded people there who enjoy this track
Ps: I'm a Sidisha fan. But I'm just upset by the way they handled this track
I politely disagree because as i said in some other post, Ishani is bit innocent than her age and Sid is mature than his age. If butterflies are OTT than calling a girl in hospital and flirting with her is disgusting but as usual generally it's our mindset that we find faults in ladies. I find Ishani childlike and Sid stupid, both are running from their feelings and its their basic nature because of their past.
I politely disagree because as i said in some other post, Ishani is bit innocent than her age and Sid is mature than his age. If butterflies are OTT than calling a girl in hospital and flirting with her is disgusting but as usual generally it's our mindset that we find faults in ladies. I find Ishani childlike and Sid stupid, both are running from their feelings and its their basic nature because of their past.
Yeah I mean I find the way Sid flirts with girls also as disgusting and if at all, the CVs show one whole damn week showing Sid flirting with girls, then you'll see posts bashing Sid as well but since that's really just shown for a moment or so in the episode,people aren't really concentrating on it. Ishani has gone through a lot in the past, that's why I expected her to be a bit more mature. So Ishani behaving like a child was off for me.
Originally posted by: KootyPai
Yeah I mean I find the way Sid flirts with girls also as disgusting and if at all, the CVs show one whole damn week showing Sid flirting with girls, then you'll see posts bashing Sid as well but since that's really just shown for a moment or so in the episode,people aren't really concentrating on it. Ishani has gone through a lot in the past, that's why I expected her to be a bit more mature. So Ishani behaving like a child was off for me.
ok...i came here after so many days...i didnt go through any other threads...juz visited this thread since it was opened by nonu...so dont have any idea abt the discussions that took place here abt ishani's feelings...
here is my pov regarding ur post and my observation abt ishani's feelings...
@bold- i find this cliche or unsaid rule of tv / any fiction...like whoever went through tough phase or bad past in their life they have to act mature, tough and so on...
@Bold and @Italics....from the start itself ishani is behaving like this only if u didnt notice...in the 4th epi where she wanted to motivate dr.juhi...she started her convo with showing a puppy to juhi...she is like that only...she is not at all mature person...
u found talking to bear childish...but dont u think she had no one to listen her problems/thoughts...i'm glad that atleast she chose teddybear to open-up/express herself and didnt become a person who cant express herself...in real life also there r ppl who speak abt their inner turmoils and thoughts with their mirror image, with plants, fish, pets and toys
and remember that network searching epi...after they came to hospital ishani explained every damn details to asha, rahil and aman...not even for once she hesitated or thought to hide abt sid lifting her from them...no mature person would reveal these things becoz they very well know the teasings that will follow after...and even when asha repeated that sid lifted you...she didnt take that seriously and got embarrassed...
what i'm trying to say is....yes ishani has worst past and that is influencing her actions till now...but not in the typical way of becoming mature/tough person...
bcoz of past... ishani chose to prove herself different from her parents... so she indulged herself totally in study...and in third epi she said everyone say that she has friendship with deadbodies...which clearly say that she dont have any warmth around her till sid happened to her...
and before loveria track also.... i didnt find ishani a matured person at all...she is impulsive and extreme in every emotion she showed untill now...like in the first epi when asha wished her she got very emotional and touched by asha's gesture...when anjali said i dont have time for any introduction she said she will prove herself with utmost self-confidence...and when questioning vardhan she didnt filter her words...also when she claimed that she photoshopped the vid of sid taking bribe...she didnt think abt herself at all...her carreer would have been doomed...but she acted like that...
so yeah in conclusion...ishani has long way to go...to become mature, emotionally intelligent person like ppl expect her to be...
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forgot to add this...and dont forget she took white flag to apologize 😆
Even I felt the same. I felt Ishani was acting really childish. But nonetheless I'm enjoying the show😆
Gachu you did not had to write so big explanation dear because those people do not want to see from Ishani POV. Ishani still have that kid Ishani in her somewhere who is craving for love care. Until Asha put word Love in her mind, all her dreams were innocent, just enjoying with Sid, dancing like mad, those bubbles etc everything was innocent dreams of her. butterfly and heartbeat is shown mainly from her innocence pov only that still somewhere she is like a teenager. and also Ishani is in her 20s may be in show.
Sid having dreams of seeing Ishani in his gf when he does not have strong reason like Ishani to fall for her. Love is not some practical thing and it can happen anytime and there are different notions of love for everyone.
someone I agree with this sad mentality which is different for males and females. If it was shown from male lead pov all dreams titli and all then it would have been all cool. anyways I am loving it and gonna enjoy it
ok...i came here after so many days...i didnt go through any other threads...juz visited this thread since it was opened by nonu...so dont have any idea abt the discussions that took place here abt ishani's feelings...
here is my pov regarding ur post and my observation abt ishani's feelings...
@bold- i find this cliche or unsaid rule of tv / any fiction...like whoever went through tough phase or bad past in their life they have to act mature, tough and so on...
@Bold and @Italics....from the start itself ishani is behaving like this only if u didnt notice...in the 4th epi where she wanted to motivate dr.juhi...she started her convo with showing a puppy to juhi...she is like that only...she is not at all mature person...
u found talking to bear childish...but dont u think she had no one to listen her problems/thoughts...i'm glad that atleast she chose teddybear to open-up/express herself and didnt become a person who cant express herself...in real life also there r ppl who speak abt their inner turmoils and thoughts with their mirror image, with plants, fish, pets and toys
and remember that network searching epi...after they came to hospital ishani explained every damn details to asha, rahil and aman...not even for once she hesitated or thought to hide abt sid lifting her from them...no mature person would reveal these things becoz they very well know the teasings that will follow after...and even when asha repeated that sid lifted you...she didnt take that seriously and got embarrassed...
what i'm trying to say is....yes ishani has worst past and that is influencing her actions till now...but not in the typical way of becoming mature/tough person...
bcoz of past... ishani chose to prove herself different from her parents... so she indulged herself totally in study...and in third epi she said everyone say that she has friendship with deadbodies...which clearly say that she dont have any warmth around her till sid happened to her...
and before loveria track also.... i didnt find ishani a matured person at all...she is impulsive and extreme in every emotion she showed untill now...like in the first epi when asha wished her she got very emotional and touched by asha's gesture...when anjali said i dont have time for any introduction she said she will prove herself with utmost self-confidence...and when questioning vardhan she didnt filter her words...also when she claimed that she photoshopped the vid of sid taking bribe...she didnt think abt herself at all...her carreer would have been doomed...but she acted like that...
so yeah in conclusion...ishani has long way to go...to become mature, emotionally intelligent person like ppl expect her to be...
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forgot to add this...and dont forget she took white flag to apologize 😆
I am really amazed why are we expected to be all mature and be like strict professor everywhere. She is mature when it comes to patients and when she was wrong in avoiding duties then from Sids shouting she got the point and said sorry for the same. lol you have put so much effort but so well put. She has a journey to go through. Lol white flag. I think many have not understood her char. Gachu do make a post about her char in weekend highlighting all these points if possible.
By the way I am just going to put the words said by dear Dr Sid
"APNI BADTI UMAR KO ITNA SAR PE NAHI CHADANA CHAHIYE KE APNE ANDER KE BACHCHE KO AISE BACHPANA KARNE SE ROKE"
& one more
"KEEP THE CHILD WITHIN YOU ALIVE AND IT WILL KEEP YOU ALIVE"
Originally posted by: angel_nonu
Gachu you did not had to write so big explanation dear because those people do not want to see from Ishani POV. Ishani still have that kid Ishani in her somewhere who is craving for love care. Until Asha put word Love in her mind, all her dreams were innocent, just enjoying with Sid, dancing like mad, those bubbles etc everything was innocent dreams of her. butterfly and heartbeat is shown mainly from her innocence pov only that still somewhere she is like a teenager. and also Ishani is in her 20s may be in show.
Sid having dreams of seeing Ishani in his gf when he does not have strong reason like Ishani to fall for her. Love is not some practical thing and it can happen anytime and there are different notions of love for everyone.
someone I agree with this sad mentality which is different for males and females. If it was shown from male lead pov all dreams titli and all then it would have been all cool. anyways I am loving it and gonna enjoy it
@ last para: stop assuming things. Just because we are criticizing Ishani doesnt mean we look at only mistakes of females. And if Sid would behave this way, people will thrash that too. Not everyone enjoys adults behaving like kids
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