Unknown world of feelings - Page 2

Originally posted by: Ayesha066

Nice post dear.. Though i don't agree with some of your views on Ishani..

Ishani has not been alone .. She was living with her aunt and uncle since childhood and we don't have any info on how her uncle or aunt are to judge whether she is connected to them or not.. It maybe that she reveres her uncle or he is like a father figure to him or it can be complete opposite and he maybe just using Ishani for his personal gains.. It is true that she has lost all her friends in a very young age.. but she knows the value of friends and she is happy to feel loved by her friends, to be a part of a group.. She is not able to get over her dealings is just because she has nevwr bewn in love because she had never let anyone or any feeling come between her and her career.. She had never discussed or taken advise for love because she was never in love before.. Maybe she has a close connection with her aunt.. you never know..

It has been pointed again and again that she was alone. Even her mama called her to just remind not to tell her surname than wishing her birthday. She has been constantly telling she was living alone so her uncle aunt helped financially only. We saw how friends of kid ishani left her after her parents case and every person have been seeing her as guilty with respect to her parents. She doesn't look like a kid who have got motherly love at all after her parents cases. She was so touched with Sids mom little affection. yesterday she told no one did something like cooking for her from long. Yes she is very open for love in fact she is craving for that love and care. She didn't expect her friends or Sid to not judge her after her parents truth exposure thats why she had dreamt of them throwing her out so their care specially Dr Sid making her have all overwhelming feelings.

Originally posted by: ms.nitya12

Anju, these two are at different steps of the same ladder- one refusing to acknowledge & the other has reluctantly accepted, denial desire are warring & vying for supremacy, this is just opening wedge 😆

Part of their childhood trauma is locked firmly inside the room of their head,creating a certain clutched apprehensive outlook as they were assessed & measured biasly since childhood, impacting their vulnerable innocent minds, especially, when the raised prejudices are around parents & parentage . Ishani had a more colder frozen company where it was simpler & safer to corral her emotions as pulling down the barriers meant emotional exposure, which brings in posinious prejudices, Sid had warmth and unconditional love & support of his mother, that acted as buffer, giving him more flexibility and freedom.

Around each other, their responses are primitive & helplessly unguarded, so the follow & flight mode😳They are caught inbetween where they realise, that feelings don't abide by agreement or refutation.. the walk towards one another had walled up, zillion unsaid emotions, step-by-step with uncertainty about other, rushing right ahead of rationality blocking the obvious, which needs time to fill the space with organised & mature understanding & trust .

as always amazing 👏🤗